What is the difference beteween a sub and a slave. To a lot of people a sub is submissive only in the bedroom or during playtime but not the rest of the time. A slave is submissive 24 hours a day, it is about control, not sex.

This does not mean that a slave is someone to be abused and treated like garbage. A devoted slave is someone to be treasured and protected and cared for and not abused. The Master slave relationship should be a symbiotic one, fullfilling the needs of both parties. A special bond of intimacy should form between them that includes lots of sex, but with sex not being the main ingredient. The Master and the slave are equal in value but not in rank.


I have had a couple of slaves in the past but I don't have anyone at this time. I miss having a slave at my feet. I prefer beginners or inexperienced. I enjoy training them. But being new in the lifestyle is not a requirement for me.

I would like to find one special slave who will stay with me 24/7. . I travel a lot and would like to find someone who can travel with me. Someone who will devote herself to me without the need of beatings and abuse. I would expect obedience but I prefer to get this from her willingly and not from beatings, although I would punish if she is disobedient or desrespectful. Somone who would like cuddles more often than a spanking. I am not looking for someone who wants to be treated like a doormat or one that likes to be beaten all the time.