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*** Not looking anymore, please move along. Seriously. You are not going to sway me on this. You arn't going to change my mind. You're not the "Awesome, Speacial, Uber-Dude, and I would realize that if I only just replied to your one-line email. Stop it. Go find someone who WANTS you. ***

I have found an awesome Daddy. He is meeting and exceeding all my needs. I'm sure there's a lovely girl out there for you somewhere. Your goal is to find her, someone has already found me.

Hi, I'm Melodie. I'm a good girl who's lost her way. I like being a good girl, but sometimes I do need some correction.

I ended a relationship with my last Daddy a few months ago but I think I'm ready to get back into it again. I'm a little nervous because things ended kind of badly so please be patient with me. Friendship is very important to me so I think I want to start off as friends first time time and let things develop on their own. I think it would be neat to have a sister sub.

I enjoy serving, dressing up, some roleplaying. I'm new to corporal punishment but I like barehanded spankings as well as hairbrushes. I am very submissive and while I can act up sometimes I am really sweet and loving. I need a good Daddy or Mommy to help me be the best girl I can be.

For some reason I cannot explain, I am really attracted to men named Meynard. Go figure.

I really really really do NOT want to see pictures of your penis. I'm sure you're proud of it, but when the time comes we can worry about that, okay?

If you are one of these "On your kness bitch!" kind of "Doms" then please just move along. I need someone tender and loving, not some maniac.

I like listening to music, stupid comedies, playing video games, hanging out with my friends, riding my bike. I do have a job, wish it payed better, but I am employed. I like indie geeky guys. I like punk boys, but they scare me sometimes, lol.

If you can't be as much of a friend outside the bedroom/Dungeon as you are a Daddy or Mommy or Master or Sir or Uncle or Sister in it then you might want to look for another sub.

Okay considering some of the responses I've been getting I feel I need to mention a couple of things here:

1. Please be local to me. In Southern California. I am unable to relocate right now.

2. If you are a married or "attached" guy who's on here without your wife or girlfriend knowng, I really really REALLLLLLY don't want to talk to you. Maybe you should take some time to strengthen your own relationship and not cheat, okay?

3. I do not want to Top or Dominate you. I am not a Domme or a Switch and I don't want to be. There are plenty of wonderful Dommes and Switches on here for you to talk to.

4. If it's in my "Dislikes" or "Hard Limits" categories then its a good bet that I DON'T want to do them. No amount of cajoling or telling me "How much I would like it if I just tried it" is going to change my mind. I'm sure you can get someone else to do whatever it is you want to do with you.

5. I don't want to do a camshow for you. Go rent a porno!

6. If I say "No thank you." I mean 'No thank you' not 'You need to try harder and ask me a lot of questions about why I said no' I try to be polite so should you.

7. Please be stable. By that I mean please have a job, a car (or some reliable transportation), a place to live. You don't have to be the President of the World but you should at least be able to support yourself. I work I pay my bills and take care of myself. So should you. I am not asking for a "Sugar Daddy" or to be "Taken care of" and I never would, but I don't want to be your "Sugar Girl" either.

8. Just becasue I am a little girl that doesn't mean that I am dumb or stupid or someone you can push around.

9. For some reason the chat system on here makes my computer have a headache. Sorry if it seems rude, but I am going to have to decline all chat requests.

10. Starting a conversation or email with "Hey bitch!" or slut or whatever is really not a good way to get someone to like you. Does that ever really work?

11. I guess I should have put this in earlier, but I'd like to stay within 10 years of my own age so please be 35 and below. Sorry again guys.

12. Getting tired of all the people who haven't read my profile all the way through, so in the future I will not respond to any emails without the word Triskaidekaphobia in it. Simple huh?




4/19/2010 7:42:22 PM
Blah.. Daddy is leaving on business and will be gone for almost a month, maybe longer.  With Ms. Sister staying with her Mother for that long or longer the house is going to be reeeeealy quiet!

:-(

-M
11/23/2008 10:01:04 AM
Wow, has it been almost a year since my last journal?  Feels like just a few weeks ago that I wrote that last one.

I guess an update is in order:  Things are going really well with my new family.  I am growing and learning daily from both Daddy and sis.  There's so much out there, and I am enjoying soaking it all in and revelling in not only my submission but the love of great people.  Every day seems to bring something new and I've never been happier than I am with them.

I really hope that other's here on this site can find as much warmpth and fulfillment as I have.

Some may be wondering, "If things are so awesome, then why are you still on here?" Mostly I am coming back to CM to read the forums and chat with a few friends that I have made in the last year or so.

I am not looking, and while I appreciate all the offers and attention, I am really not looking at this time.  Thanks.
11/22/2007 1:31:44 PM
::: Here's an Update :::

Since I seem to have a bunch of admirers along the left side of my screen I'm going to assume that some-one is actually reading this.

For those who know me and care about me.  You know who you are.  I'm still seeing the wonderful couple that I'm under consideration too.  Nobody's talking collars or even full time yet but I have spent the last three weekends staying at their place. 

They are really wonderful people.  He is really confident and knows what he wants and how to get it from a poor blushing little girly like my >blushes<.  She is very nice and welcoming and really really cute!

Things are really looking up here.  My only worry at this point is that things seem too good.  I don't want to rush into things too quickly.  I've made that mistake before.  I keep kind of waiting for the other shoe to drop.  I hope it never does.  I really want this to work!!

Guys, know this, please. I'm under consideration, even if we're not using those words yet.  I don't want to make it seem like I'm closing off options but I am really into this couple.  If things change, and I want to consider you, I will let you know.

Please stop sending me, "If things don't work out, I'm still here." or "I'll consider you if things don't work out with them".  Honestly, it sounds creepy, desperate, and a little stalkerish.

Hopefully people will have the decorum to back off a little bit and give a girl some space to get adjusted and figure things out.

Oh and the "But I just want to be friends we can talk and share-basically you talk about the kinky things you're into while I fap-fap-fap on the other end of the email" routine is getting stale.  I highly doubt that that many men are on here just to be buddies with girls.  That trick didn't work for Duckie in 'Pretty in Pink' it's not going to work now.  Save your energy. 

If you want a girl to be interested in you, then tell her about YOU!  What you like, what you don't like (and not just in a fetish sense), what brand of toothpaste you use.  Not just "I like flogging, humiliation, tight bondgage, and making you shit in diapers.  I am warm and sensual and will respect all limits"  Yeah I can read all that from your likes and dislikes from your profile if I choose to read it.  And assuring me that you'll respect my limits?  Great, why not juse use 'I am not a butchering psychopath' of course you're going to respect my limits.  That tells me nothing about WHO YOU ARE.  Not telling me anything about you outside of who you are in the dungeon tells me that you are only interested in my in an in the dungeon sense.  Does that make sense?  That's why there's all those other things like what kinds of music you're into that you can put in your profile.  They're meant to define you as a person.

A girl can find any guy at any time to tie her up and spank her.  If you want more than a one night stand and if you're really into the longterm relationships that you all PROMISE you're into then act like it.  Be a person, not just a laundry list of kinks.  This goes double in the case of Daddies!

There are a lot of women here just wishing that some nice (or at least breathing) Dom will come and make them feel like the slut they are.  Go find one.  Some girl with a pic of her boobs, and a caption that reads, "I'm into humiliation and need a strong Master" with nothing else in the profile.  Right down your alley, huh?  Sounds good?  Go for it!
11/5/2007 5:55:15 PM
YEAH!!!!

This girl has found herself under consideration by a wonderful couple!  For those of you who love me, keep your fingers crossed!  Already been on three dates and things are looking good! 

I will keep you posted as things develop!
10/22/2007 7:35:15 PM
Here's something to make your dick shrivel:  So far, about 5 out of 75 guys have managed to actually read through my profile and do the few simple tasks put forth there.

Thank you very much to:

Socalswitch
Systemcrashing
loylstlwntd36
DaddyDrew
INPERSPECTIVE

You are gentlemen and basically decent guys!

Does this mean they are better, or just smarter than you?

Melodie
10/21/2007 12:38:20 PM
Jeepers creepers!!  And speeking of creeps what is wrong with the people here?  I understand that if you wave a piece of steak in front of a dog it will growl drool and snap at it but seriously I thought we were a little more evolved than that.  I have been on this site for a couple of days and I literally get fourty to fifty emails a day from people mostly men.  Which isn't bad it's pretty much to be expected.

So I set up a couple of simple rules, 1.  Be local to me as in at least within fifty miles.  2.  Be at within ten years of my own age, so doing a little second grade math that comes to a grand total of 35 years old.  3.  I put a word in my profile that must be put somewhere in the email.  It's even in a different colored font.  It's not hidden, it says 'put this word in if you want a reply'.

So I keep getting these emails from guys who are too old too far away and no magic word.  They say lots of other stuff like how I am going to be their slave eventhough I've never met them.  Or how I am going to like being pimped out by them.  Or what great "Doms" they are with no proof.  Or how much I am going to enjoy shitting in a diaper for them.

What is a girl to do?

If you're not responsible and caring enough to actually ***READ THROUGH MY PROFILE*** then there is ***NO WAY*** I am going to trust you with my safety and sanity.  Seriously people it only takes like five minutes to do!  Of course since very few people bother to read the profile I don't really expect anyone to read this either so I guess I am just ranting to myself.

I am starting to have serious doubts about this site and the people within.

Melodie