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I feel like i need to find something substantial in my life. something solid and hard to ground me. And i keep digging in this bag and coming up with feathers and flowers and sand and fluff that all slip through my fingers but what I want to find is a rock. Something hard and tough that can break me and weigh me down.
People are so fluffy. Where are the monsters? where are the rocks? |
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Merry Xmas all you pervs! |
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Something I always thought was interesting was watching the differences in how gender plays a role in a submissive's decision process for picking out attractive dominant partners. Painting with a broad brush... I'd say that submissive women tend to want their men to be a bit older. I've seen it said many times that a very young male cannot possibly have the experience or knowledge of self to be dominant. However, men, of all ages will chase the youngest girls they can with reckless abandon. It seems they worship youth and its beauty. Is that sex running bdsm? Or is it something else? |
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And if I swallow anything evil, put your finger down my throat... |
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i think the key to humiliation is dignity. Sort of the yin/yang thing. You must establish dignity before you can create humiliation. You have to take dignity before there is humiliation. If you start with someone that is totally humble, how can they realize how they are humiliated.
if you get off on humiliating people... Start off by calling them, Lady or Sir. Or whatever. Be nice. Build them up. And then if you chase them down and catch your nice new shiny submissive, enjoy the total shock on their face the first time you toss out a nasty word, and do it when they are tied up.
we lurve that.
helpful advice from your friendly neighborhood pony. |
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So is fucking someone always a dominant act????? i always feel like i'm the king when i'm on top having my way with someone, or even if i'm tied up and they're on top and bouncing on me. makes me feel powerful. it is so conflicting with the feeling of loyalty and service that i define as submission. its like in those moments i'm the dominant one. what to do? how do you process these feelings as someone that wants to be a beast of burden? |
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Had a play date with a CD/transgender person the other day. I don't believe I've ever cum so hard. I thought the world had collapsed and all I could see was stars. Best of both worlds. |
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What is up with all these people posing holding swords? Do they use swords in bdsm? I mean I've heard of blades and edge play but come on...! What the hell are you going to do with a full size katana except stand around and pose for photos looking like some loser that just emerged from your parent's basement for the first time this decade? ARG
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looking around everywhere using the browse photo option shows me a lot of feet. why do dudes like feet so much? i'm not big into the foot thing. the interwebz tell me its because when dudes are little kids they look at their mama's feet and start to associate feet with mom. i'm not sure if i should laugh or be jealous.
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What a pony boy has learned about online bdsm dating:
1. Any bisexual dominant woman is really just looking for women, or maybe women to join her and her partner, but not men.
2. Dominant females tend to want tribute.
3. Submissive men tend to be sissies.
4. Everyone wants a personalized email. So you spend around 5-6 minutes writing them one. They don't respond. Or maybe send back a one liner. You do this about 10 or 15 times and suddenly you have a huge time sink without any return. Yet they still demand it without thinking about what type of time it would really require. How many people do you talk to here? If you are the one initiating conversation, how long would you spend writing personalized notes to every person you say hello to that are "more than a paragraph"?
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Is it the fact that men are so astoundingly insecure that accounts for almost all couples seeking to be seeking a female? Or is it because the men are mostly dominant and men want more women?
If you're looking for a MF couple, does having a big dick actually set you lower down the list?
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Why are there so many people out there that are "pro" or wanting "gifts or tributes". If you're charging for love, sex, or pleasure then shouldn't you be on some sort of prostitution site? Isn't that whats craigslist is for?
*sigh* I don't mind giving of myself, time and money to people I love, but I want to love them first. I guess it disheartens me to see that even the sacred realm of D/s has been cheapened by wannabes that have to pay to get it, and the whores that accept "tribute" for it. |
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