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Im seeking a muse, someone who can inspire me to write, make art, create something or want to put my creative energy into them.

Im a dominant man, not a Dom, I dont have behave the way other doms do. Im just interested in the dynamics of control. Im not interested in teaching you a variety of positions. I do want to get into your head and control you in the most intimate ways. I want people who can hold their own against me and give me pleasure. Dont expect me to fit into some kind of stereotype and I wont expect that of you either.

Im obsessed with psychological dynamics, with the power games that occur in conversations, with how pushing someones mental and emotional buttons can give you control over their inner self, not just their body.

This can take different s, with different people, at different times, for me its all about the person and how we connect, not about a list of fetishes. I do have things I enjoy doing, but they only work with some people, theyre not just hot across the board

I want someone who can fascinate me, like a beautiful jewel, sparkling, fun to talk to, who can play games as well as I can, who draws me in, makes me want to do bad things to them.

Theres nothing hotter than seeing someone take abuse for me because they trust me and know its designed to turn them on, that Im only doing it because I want to bring them down, because theyre so cute or sexy.

I want you to interest me, to make me want to control you by giving me inspiration to start with. I do appreciate the strength and value of submission, but Im just more interested in an equal who can seduce me, delight me, arouse me.

Perhaps youre obsessed with music, stuff no one else gets, and like to lay awake at night, listening to things that make your head fuzzy, fantasising about someone who can make you feel like that, getting turned on by heavy drone and feedback from massive amps, desiring something vast and overwhelming, a power that leaves you helpless and buzzing.

If you want to get my attention just tell me something that moves you, hearing about people in headstates where they really let go is fascinating to me, could be music, art, films, books, a fantasy or just something from nature, I dont mind, just give me something honest.
CatDubh
 
 Age: 28
 Gardner, Massachusetts