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| So, this isn't my first time at the rodeo. I've been in and out of power dynamics since my late teens. I discovered early on that vanilla romance interactions were not my cup on tea. As a result most of my relationships have had a power exchange flavor to them, some very intense and others more casual in nature.
I've listed myself as a switch because I've acted as both a top and a bottom in various scenes and relationships. I currently have a few casual play partner's, all of whom I interact with as a top (Note: I consider topping and acting as a dominant two very different things and am happy to discuss this is needed). At the moment, however, I am looking for something different.
I am hoping (although, not entirely optimistic given the platform) to find a male dominant between the ages of 25 and 40 for a long-term relationship with a D/s basis. That being said, I am open to meeting other women as well. I enjoy people who are articulate (this means you should be able to write in full sentences and understand the concept of punctuation) and well read. You should be confident, polite and have a generally positive outlook on life.
As far as my interests in BDSM are concerned, I tend to be drawn to domestic discipline style relationships. I enjoy rules, structure and discipline. The most important part of this for me is the connection and the actual power exchange - after that, its all window dressing. I probably wouldn't do well with someone who identifies as a fetishist or is only looking for kinky bedroom play.
So a little bit about me...
I am bright, witty, educated and well read. I enjoy learning new things and tend to drive into new activities head first until I've totally conquered then and then move on to the next interesting thing that catches my eye. I travel often and love seeing new places. I've lived all over the US and have spent a significant amount of time in Europe as well. I plan on continuing this so if travel isn't something you particularly enjoy we probably won't get along.
I consider myself highly adaptable. I am comfortable in just about any environment. You would be just as proud to introduce me to your vanilla colleagues as you would your kinky friends (I should be able to say the same about you). I am attractive. I work out everyday and work very hard to keep up my appearance. Looks aren't everything, of course, but they do count for something and I would hope that any man I choose to interact with would take care of himself as well.
A couple notes on logistics...
Geography isn't an issue for me. I am able to travel with little notice and am ultimately relocatable for the right connection. I understand that for some, distance is a deal breaker (something I certainly respect) but for me, it's not.
That being said, I am not looking for an online relationship. If we get along, I would expect to meet you in person eventually.
I will not send you random photos. I am happy to prove who I am after we have made voice contact.
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