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31 Yr old divorced blk male. I am a switch male but primarly dominate. I could spend hours writing about myself but I bore easily and will rather tell you what I am looking for. I will add additional relevent information in my journal so read that for updates. Here are the rules...
1. I AM LOOKING FOR SINGLE WOMEN ONLY...NO COUPLES AT THIS MOMENT AND DEFINATELY NO SINGLE MEN.
2. YOU MUST HAVE BEEN BORN A WOMEN...NO CDS,TVT,TS,TGS, OR THE LIKE.
3.YOU MUST BE AT LEAST BI-CURIOUS. STRAIGHT WOMEN WILL BE CONSIDERED BUT IT RARELY WORKS OUT.
4. YOU MUST LOVE CHILDREN. I
HAVE CHILDREN AND THEIR SAFETY COMES FIRST...NO PERVERTS-NO EXCEPTIONS.
5. YOU MUST BE WILLING TO RELOCATE.
6. I AM PRIMARILY LOOKING FOR A SUB FEMALE, BUT MAY CONSIDER THOSE WHO SWITCH. I AM ABSOLUTELY NOT LOOKING TO BE COLLARED!!! I HAVE NO AMBITION TO BE SOMEONES FULL TIME PET OR SLAVE. I WILL PLAY WITH DOMINATE FEMALES IF I FIND THEM TO MY TASTE AND LIKING. I WILL NOT HOWEVER BE YOUR SLAVE. END OF DISCUSSION
7. YOU MUST NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH INTERRACIAL DATING.
8. YOU MUST BE OPEN TO POSSIBLE LTR.
9. YOU MUST BE WILLING TO BE IN A POLY HOUSEHOLD...I AM POLY AND EXTREME JEALOUSY IS NOT TOLERATED.
10. NO DRAMA, PROBLEMS OR ISSUES.
11. MUST NOT BE ALREADY COLLARED!!!
12. I AM NOT LEAVING THE STATE OF KY SO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO RELOCATE TO YOU...KEEP LOOKING.
THESE RULES ARE SET IN STONE AND ARE ABSOULUTELY NON- NEGOTIABLE.
ALL SERIOUS INQUIRIES WILL BE SCREENED HEAVILY BY ME PRIOR TO ACCEPTANCE....NO EXCEPTIONS!!!
FOLLOW THESE RULES AND WE WILL ALL GET ALONG FINE.
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Well with changes in life come some changes in my profile...I have realized that the crux of my problems is that I am not a true Dominate and I have had several problems with relationships because of it. So from this point on I will accept my true title as a switch. I learned that most of my actual experience in the BDSM life style was me as a sub and one horrible college experience as a slave, but I was way too strong willed to ultimately give myself fully to the thought of slavery and I paid a pretty painful price for it. Since I am now single I am actively searching for both dom or switch female and a sub female to begin my new family...It will be a long journey but I am now on the right track. |
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Well surprise surprise...as of today I am now divorced...I must admit I'm pretty hurt about the whole thing but life goes on...So with that in mind I know have to make some changes...straight women are now ok. I am still poly but my now ex-wife will not be part of the equation for the foseeable future. |
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Update: ok some of you might have read my profile and have had some questions...whether these are the answers you need or not is irrelevent to why I am writing what I am. In the course of my marriage I have hit some road blocks and I am currently seperated from my wife. It seems that we have such compatible attitudes that we have difficulties living together. Be it as it may what I search for hasn't changed. I now find that I have to redirect some things and make some important decisions in order for my lifestyle choices to work. We have had some prospects, but they turned horrible counter productive because there ended up being a tug of war for my affection. Most of the "Subs" and "slaves" we have met were neither, just women who wanted to be in a 1 on 1 relationship and couldn't understand that was a possibility. Even if I am not physically around my wife she was and still am my wife and her respect is my first priority. If you are looking for a man...then I am not it. You accept me you accept her and all the drama that sometimes comes along with it. We are a package deal. Now...I must confess that I am more into this lifestyle than my wife, but she's new to it. I also found that being a former "switch" I reverted to my old submissive ways which tended to upset the balance of power. Know that Masters and Mistresses have different ways of establishing dominance and it is difficult for some to seperate the two. The One we choose will be with me (Master) for the most part and will spend time with Mistress when needed. I (Master) am not into this for simple sex, I know I am attractive enough to find a sex partner when I choose. What I require is someone to be a friend, confidant, secretary, part time house keeper (yes I can clean up after myself and do so but, I stay pretty busy and need someone to look after things while I am away doing various task.), and sometimes chauffer. I have made some mistakes, being young in this lifestyle and starting at such a young age but learning is what I am good at. As far as relocation...It is an absolute neccessity that you are willing to relocate as soon as possible, because I am not moving away from my family and I am absolutely against moving my family anymore. I will not defecate or urinate on anyone...that's just sickening and you need some serious psychological help if you are into it. I am also not a guy who is into having a hidden relationship... I have met alot of men who are pretenders. I use pain simply as a disiplinary measure mostly, but will use it as a erotic tool if needed for Prospect. I am very loving and supportive, but can sometime become ravenous and quite wrathful when I feel prospect is not living to my standards. I thank all those who have taken the time to read and will answer any questions that are asked. |
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NOTICE: We are currently in the process of moving back to Ky. And expecting a child on the way...Male Dom is the first contact because he has the most experience in the lifestyle and he's also the pickiest. Female will talk to the most serious inquiries and those considered most compatible...Please be patient and allow time to find out what works best. |
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| Age: 30 |
| Dallas,
Texas |
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