this month will be epic....who wants to run errands for Me this week?

Nothing surprises Me anymore ...I can't wait until I move away from this tired ass city in May.....closer to greatness...2500 miles away....I'm so ready

so this weekend was full of biz duties...and I'm still bored....but lately My emails have taken on a different type of setting...I'm bombarded with questions and opinions about why there are so many financial Dommes or those that charge for sessions on this site- I of course reply with open and honest answers in order to help you weed through some of the reasons why you cannot find what you seek.

There are way too many "do me" subs and fakers here, so in order to weed out the bs Dommes will often charge for sessions. They have the right to be compensated for time wasters and it'll keep away those who will end up wasting your time. The term "do me" subs/slaves are those who are not in this lifestyle or on this site for the mere "lifestyle" of it all but for those whose time has been wasted on both accounts be it Domme, Dom or sub...and they are simply sick and tired of not getting what they want out of the situation. Myself included. 

So to that end I say...more often than not if you want something worth having you have to show that you're serious by proving it. Not many ppl are interested in providing free services to those who wish to play games....most are here to make a connection they can live and be happy with...most won't get that opportunity.

Some cannot handle the true definition of what a Domme, Dom or slave means to one individually and so the search continues....a lot of subs, Dommes and Doms are jealous of one's status and don't wish to play with Married couples...hence they only seek singles...maybe there are none available...maybe not...whatever the case may be....the true meaning of a slave is that a Master/Mistress is Superior, Married or Single and what they say goes....deal with it or don't....a slave is never happy searching for a Domme/Dom with preconceived ideas....they are meant to be bought and sold for the purpose of service....and they do what they're told whether they like it or not...however there are some slaves and subs who don't know the meaning of true servitude and that's why it's hard for them to find a suitable Owner....Some Dommes/Doms are also without just cause making it harder for them to find slaves, but I suspect eventually the right Owner will find the right sub/slave, you just have to be patient it takes time

bored as hell at this conference...if only they knew what I was reading and typing right now....lmao!!

I love My new cell phone....thank you to a dependable slave...you KNOW who you are!

Doing well these days....will be spending some time away from home....all those that were interested in meeting have failed to keep in touch ...you can only be serious if you choose to be seen.....traveling this week so if you'd like to meet up, now is the time

My new slave has ordered my new cell....yayyy!! can't wait til it's here!!

SEE THIS IS THAT  BULLSHIT I'M ALWAYS TALKIN ABOUT- THIS PERSON IS 5'8 AND 80 LBS- THEY MAY PASS AWAY IF THEY DON'T EAT FOOD SOON....SMH-TRULY A DUMBASS IN THE FLESH!

Looking for a HOUSE BITCH...that can cook and clean two locations in the day time, a plus if you can do manis and pedis and are local to the tri state areas...also still looking for a driver.....please have your own registered & insured vehicle as I do...thanx

HEY! wANKERS!!!

Do Me a BiGG favor.....Once I block you - just stay blocked....you are not welcome here...

you didn't even CHANGE your pictures DUMB ASS....

Geesh.....if you want a shot with Me....SERIOUSLY...you just CAN'T be this stupid....

Why is it that every time I meet with someone new that someone old reads about in My journal-the time waster wants to contact Me again as if he didn't waste My time before he found out someone else- hasn't????

FUCK OFF....you had your chance and you fucking blew it ....plenty of times...

#BLOCKED.......deal with it!!

Making jerk chicken quesadillas today for dinner.....ummmm yummy!

made cream cheese cookies with raspberry preserves for the first time....I'm starting to realize, I really should open up a bakery....I so can cook.....lol

If you are NOT interesting.....how in the fuck am I supposed to be INTERESTED??????

Had the most amazing time in Dover, went to dinner 3 nights in a row, then to the casino the last night, enjoyed My Merlot and even beyond My own imagination ran into a slave in Rehoboth Beach that ended up serving Us for 2 nights....that was crazy-wasn't even looking for it out in the public, but he  came up to Us in the restaurant and offered to rub Our feet after a long day of shopping and Our spa visit.I totally could see why he chose to speak to Me in particular but He was in town for a reunion and came up to Me while I was checking out the menu outside the restaurant while deciding to eat there and told Me how beautiful we all were...he offered to buy us  our favorite drinks and said the place had great food, we should try it.

Once back to the hotel, he called My cell and asked if he could join Us. I invited him in to be of service before we called it an evening and he had a chance to prove that he was a true slave. I allowed him the chance to serve and he was very grateful. He even asked if he could help out with training My younger Dommes....I happily accepted...we'll see how this thing plays out.

ahhhh...living the good life for a few days....drinking, smoking, eating and enjoying some old fashioned "Girl" talk with a few Domme friends....decided to go a day earlier....since the snow storm's coming...I don't want to be anywhere near I95....seek you worms later...time to take a dip in the whirlpool.....ciya losers!

Oh btw ...if you're a Dominant Male or Male Switch and you were viewing My profile....you've ALREADY been blocked!

Buh Bye...bitches..............

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I just got 8 offers to come to My room in DE and serve this weekend....to which I say HA!

offer to pay for at least a night's stay and serve 24 hrs and We may be able to negotiate...lol

as long as I'm paying the bill....I plan to enjoy it without broken promises from a few lazy worms who couldn't afford to buy Me a drink, much less serve it to Me...Thank you!

Always strive to make yesterday jealous and you'll get through anything! I plan on making last YEAR jealous in this one weekend...

going to Delaware for a few days to relax and enjoy My hotel stay......need to unplug and pamper Myself, since obviously there are a lot of promises being made with no action behind it but what can you expect from liars. Now I know why so many men have trouble finding a partner, Women can't stand a lying man. That's the one thing that can be a deal breaker, after you don't make good on your word you are completely useless...She can never respect you after that. I mean really, if you can't do something, don't say you can. It's like a balloon running out of air, eventually there's nothing left. My level of Trust is like the air in that balloon. After a lunch buffet on the first day We arrive and getting My nails and toes done with My Domme Sisters I believe a nice glass of Merlot should put Me in an agreeable mood to take My frustrations out on My slave "d" the "d" stands for "dependable"....... he couldn't be happier to finally sit quietly at My feet until I call him to serve Us dinner for 3 nights in a row...I've already provided him with a doggie bed to sleep in and a  slop bowl to eat from.....tonight I'll go to the pet store to find a new leash for him....he's been a good boy lately and I think he's earned a new one with his name on it, but we'll see what he does this weekend....if he pleases Me, I'll give him a treat worth waiting for.

Insulting Me doesn't hurt Me bitch it hurts you-your only success is to inform another Woman of the fact that you're a fucking dick wad, little dick douche, but you're probably hoping We already knew that and saw you coming huh?....you couldn't find your way back to the pussy if it was drawn on a map on the inside of your eyelids.....AS you were!

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN 24/7 slaves or subs.....Reading..........is SO FUNDAMENTAL

THE RESULT? A COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME......

Do Me a favor if you're no longer interested why

bother to write to Me anymore...I'm not impressed anyway

can't understand THAT shit...you can say whatever you want...doesn't make it true 

"I believe everything happens 4 a reason.
People change so dat u learn 2 let go..
Things go wrong so dat u appreciate wen they're right! U believe lies so u learn 2 trust no1 but yourself & sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” 
― Marilyn Monroe

.......Goddezz Nubiana, it would be a privilege and a pleasure to meet with You, hopefully some time next weekend to discuss how i might help fulfill Your needs, wants and wishes. Perhaps, if it suits You, we could meet over brunch or lunch. Or possibly over an early dinner.

i look forward to hearing back from You and i wish You a great warm Sunday tomorrow. And thanks again for allowing me to hear Your sensuous voice and find out a bit more about how i might be of service to You.

submissively,

d

and THAT bitches....... is how you is how you get to be in the 1% that matters to Me

someone asked Me what's My slave/sub ratio for serious inquiries...a truthful answer will always be My response

100% contact

85% will inquire about being of service

10% are liars

3% are sincere

1% will be considered

1% will actually make it to meet with Me

True Story

tonite had the most amazing conversation with a slave in consideration....ever talk with someone and almost immediately KNOW they're the real deal? Nothing phony or insincere about them...you have more than the lifestyle in common and you can already see they'd make an awesome friend as well? Yea.....think I just found that...

to be continued............

Talk is cheap....Meet Me in person and say it to My Face

Still looking for a Driver...please read My Journal for details....also looking for sexy bisexual slim to medium build FEMALE SLAVES and VERY PASSABLE TRANNIES, SISSIES, CDS' and cucks who are interested in doing videos, modeling and currently able to travel thru the state areas of pa, nj, de, ny, md, va....if you're in respond with your cell # city and state to My inbox

ok So I'm still training Young Dommes and today in training one of My Trainees wanted to try to use a strap on...funny thing is She's never tried this before and was a bit concerned about not being able to get off with my slave....lol....baby steps darling...first you have to get used to how to put it on properly so it doesn't slip and slide off at the most in opportune moment...when She finally got the hang of it My poor slave was about spent....no, no...he doesn't deserve a break I told Her...You set the tone for the scene...if You feel sorry for him...that's fine....but even at that point You never release control of what a slave wants...that's NOT for him to decide...I finally called it after another 15 min of My slave groveling and whining for a break.....geesh...he REALLY IS a little bitch....but I adore him anyways he's trying to be better for Me...prove to Me he really can handle anything I throw at him....tomorrow's training will involve humiliation and pictures....YAYYYY!!

Domme Training went well today...My younger Dommes are starting to get the hang of this....they really are enjoying teaching a few of My slaves how to submit completely...just have to work on their confidence a bit more...sometimes things work out for you when you least expect it....

The moment you realize you put your foot in your big mouth...#youstopresponding

I'm in search of a DRIVER with an excellent running fully insured vehicle to run errands and to do drop offs and pick ups in the tri state areas for My business. Some are Women and some are Men. Must be able to travel on short notice and able to go through DE,PA, NJ and NYC including tolls and alternate routes. Please do not apply if you CANNOT fulfill these obligations. I have a car, but cannot be everywhere all the time. I need a DRIVER who can be of SERVICE to a Queen who has lots to do!

Ok so 2013 is here and I'm done with 2012's bullshit. So many horrible things happened last year but at year's end suddenly the sun came out. I received the best news of My life and now happily looking forward to the next 2 years being worth all the pain and struggle I've endured. Finally the pay off is worth the wait. Working 2 jobs has been tough but worth it. 

I can't for the life of Me figure out why the same ppl view My profile day after day-week after week-month after month-and don't say anything....you've obviously read My profile thoroughly and should by now, have it memorized. See if it were Me and I'm not interested in you ...I will not keep viewing your page...unless of course cm is somehow forcing Me to view you because you may visit My page mistakenly...but for those of you who do on a consistent basis-and you KNOW who you are-DUDE-give it up already-move on I'm not for you....we both know it so stop visiting.

I'm desirable yes...but you're beating a dead horse with Me and I just feel sorry for you...really

you're not going to change what you want ...and neither will I..........

There's only enough room in My world for one Queen...and that's Me!

its hard to believe that 23 yrs ago today I gave birth the most beautiful baby girl and now she's on the honor roll in college and I still look AMAZING!! I Truly AM a Goddess!

Tired of the bullshit? so am I...I'm tired of bitches begging to serve but keep coming at Me with nothing to offer....

oddly enough I have found a few who are sincere, haven't approached Me empty handed at all....

if you think a tribute means gimme all your money ...you're a fucking idiot...that's not what it means....

I'm not advising anymore, but I'll tell you like this....just like in your vanilla life if you can't get  a date....here's why...

you haven't sent flowers

taken a Lady to dinner

offer her a bottle of her favorite drink...perfume....get her nails or hair done.....whatever She likes

did you even offer to buy her some sexy heels or lingerie or maybe a nice pair of pretty panties???? did you ever offer to wash her car? or BUY SOME FUCKING GAS TO PUT IN IT????....not wasting My gas anymore and you fuckers can't even be creative enough to  try to earn My attention......

No here's what you offer

Ummm hi I'm a freaky sissyboi, loser, slut whore pig cunt who needs to be fucked 3 times an hour by you....fuck you, who cares what you want....just fuck me, humiliate and degrade me in front of your friends...oh they can watch and or participate, piss on me, shit in my mouth.... I'll suck your man's big black cock for you, clean your pussy with my nasty shit and piss-lined tongue and as soon as I get your cell number or email...I'll beg and nag you with my useless fucking presence every minute of the fucking day while you're at work...why??? because it's all about me...not you Mistress but me...me...me....me...no one else but me...and what do i offer you for all of your attention??? not a fucking thing that you desire because geesh after you worked all day and come home to cook and clean the only thing you should want to do is give me what attention you have left......i won't offer you flowers, candy, wine, shoes, panties,lingerie....ummmm I'm broke but as long as my wife or girl doesn't know i'll come to you because they won't give me what i want...oh and i'm bringing nothing with me but my filthy ass to fuck....hope you have a chastity device to lock me up and other cbt toys because i can't afford to buy you any or have any for myself..........oh and apparently since you want me naked...you should be too....

CUT THE FUCKING CORNER WITH THAT BULLSHIT!!

if you think this is what I'm looking for??? then you need not see My profile for awhile.......since nobody can seem to understand it.......for awhile I will seek out who I want and think really knows what SERVING A SUPREME GODDESS is all about.

mrsubway ...you definitely are doing well treating Me the way a sub should treat his Goddess

Yayyy! My package should arrive by week's end....CHOCOLATE COVERED STRAWBERRIES!!

Going to enjoy having them fed to Me...every last chocolate drop....yummmmmyyyyy!!!

TURN UP THE HEAT!!!

The last 4 weeks have been very nice!   So far there are 4 subs, 6 slaves, 2 sissybois and 1 transslave that have piqued My interest so I do enjoy being busy. Not to mention there are now 4 subs that have RESURFACED from like 2 mos ago..lol....I guess now they are getting it??? 

Here's the thing with Me....life is too short to waste it on losers anyway so If you don't keep yourself relevant with Me, then you will fall off the face of the earth as if you don't exist, right where you belong.....a slave is subhuman to Me....out of sight, out of mind.

If you're useless and serve Me no purpose please excuse yourself and go waste someone else's time....I have plenty of others waiting right behind you, praying you fuck up so they can take your place.....

ON A SWEETER MORE FEMININE NOTE....I'm L-O-V-I-N-G the female subs/slaves that are FINALLY stepping up and are no longer AFRAID to approach Me.....the bisexual and lesbian ladies who are very attractive and eager to meet with Me have been an added treat these past few days....looking forward to using My toys on them and having some much needed girly fun.....My Domme Sisters and I are planning a little getaway soon maybe I'll bring some fem subs along to provide the evening's entertainment.

so last night was AGAIN another awesome encounter with mrsubway..(lol at the name I just gave him)....he KNOWS who he is....dinner was amazing and so was the conversation and connection. I'm enjoying getting to know him slowly.  I wore a beautiful black and white dress with black heels, all silver jewelry (bling, bling)and very little make up since naturally, I'm gorgeous without it, hair and nails were done to perfection!!!.....I was going to wear stockings but decided I wanted mrsubway to get a glimpse of My beautiful naked legs. he enjoyed looking too....of course I ordered a glass of Merlot and after a few sips realized I had to drive back so unfortunately I didn't really get to enjoy it...see why it's important to have "drivers" chauffeur You around??? 

We made arrangements to go toy shopping next week so looking forward to getting a new toy or two real soon.

also looking forward to mid next week since I have 2 slave meetings planned...we'll see how they stack up against the COMPETITION.....

yes guys and gals ...you are in competition with each other......

THE real VS. THE time-wasters.....especially in the female section...who will emerge from the computer as a "real" flesh and blood woman???

I' m sure out of the women that have inquired about Me....there are at least 2 men pretending to be those women..hahha!

who has what it takes?? who will be eliminated???? who wants to be My prized possession????  

My 20 yr old sissyboi is aching to serve Me...he wanted to help Me prepare for My date last night...isn't he sweet?....I will find him something to do later this week...thinking of pairing him up with My trannie slave as a playmate, My tt needs a lil babydoll boi to dress up and I need some chores and laundry finished this week, may have to teach him how to cook tho....

I really hate work...how dare they screw up all My plans this weekend with that damn conference..it was like taking a surprise test....asking us to explain shit we haven't done in months...like I'm supposed to remember something they keep changing every week.

On a good note...got to check out DC a lil bit...the lesbian bars are hawt...went to a strip club and spent some other fool's money on the girls....lol....he was smitten with Me being there and getting more love than the men who'd been there for awhile....I walked in with My biz suit on....sunglasses and playa pimp hat....looking sexy as hell...first some of the men thought I was in drag planning to get up on stage and perform....ha! been there done that like 18 yrs ago....I'm the Madamme now baby...lol 

All I do is get served now....breasts, asses, thighs and pretty lips....whoo hoo!

The Kernel called to tell Me the shipment of My fav treat will be sent out on Monday...yayy ....can't wait!........Soooo looking forward to some "real" chocolate covered strawberries...not

the kind that are made by these whack ass bakeries...have no clue how to make it right.

Wonder what tellie he's gunna pick this time for playing....I love it when a slave knows his place...how to spoil and pamper,suggest plans and makes arrangements to see and please you and he definitely knows how to push My buttons to make Me crack that whip! Now that My friends is a real slave....NEVER WORRIES ABOUT himself only lives to give Me whatever I want, asks Me what can he get or do for Me at least 3 times a week......doesn't nag Me to death either. He's still wearing the chasity device I placed on him last month....feel so sorry for those pathetic purple balls....he's begging to be released....no FUCKING way...gotta keep it on 'til you see Me again.....hahahahaa...I love it!!

Today was actually a nice day aside from being a drone at work....I had to treat Myself to getting My hair and nails done...since ahem...no one has stepped up to the plate...lazy fuckerz.........anyways it came out beautiful of course...chatted today with a few slaves one of which has caught My attention....I think you know who you are....The Kernel promised to send Me some Chocolate covered strawberries..can't wait til they arrive ....looking forward to seeing him next month...and boy I can't wait to go home and crawl into My own bed....I like DC but really hate hotel beds....except for that California King in Vegas..good Goddess  that was one comfortable ass sleep....maybe I should take the job out there....lol!

someone requested a RE-POST....although I warned it'd be of no use.....THIS IS ONLY FOR slaves...so here it is.......if it doesn't apply to you by pass it........

RULES OF SLAVE ETIQUETTE

Tomorrow's agenda includes

Getting Hair, nails and toes done....looking for a new comforter set and rearranging the bed room.....followed by a glass of wine, a good movie and a nice foot bath....

smiles all around?

Still interviewing for a bi sissy maid who does housework and knows how to cook....send a valid message for details........

Toodles

Just received a message from a beautiful indian female who wants to be My little barbie doll.....lol.....I love dressing My barbies and doing their hair, putting on their make up then take her out on the town with Me to drive all the boys crazy just before I pack her up and take her home with Me......lmao.....

THIS is going to be fun........can't wait til she comes and visits from NYC soon!!!!

Yawn!!!!! Bored!!!!!!!! Bored!!!! Yawn!!!! Going to check on Fl

if you are a cheap and/or broke, worthless, non conversational and completely fucking useless....PLEASE don't send a message to Me....I work 2 jobs and have less than no time  to waste.....you're cluttering My inbox with bullshit...............STOP IT!!!!!

OH...AND ON A PERSONAL NOTE.....STOP SENDING CHAT REQUESTS...IT'LL NEVER HAPPEN!!

Where are My bitches?  Housework and yard work needs to be done, cooking, shoes need shining, feet needs massaging, hair, toes and nails need to be done...I need a spa day....Uggghhhhh!

I'm still waiting for My chocolate covered strawberries....losers..

Please don't say you want to pleasure Me until you KNOW what it is that brings Me pleasure.....trying to "bait" Me  will be a huge waste of time for both of us....remember....

I'm smarter than you...........

well I've had nothing but fun for the last 2 days....slave #2 is leading the pack so far...a nice dinner, bottle of Merlot and a great conversationalist are the best attributes at this time.......a bigger bottle of Merlot trumps a regular bottle any day...so congrats #2 for stepping up the bar....next is chocolate covered strawberries....who's going to get Me the best box?

Also there is a 3rd that has decided to enter the competition.....we'll see if he has what it takes to compete.....stay tuned

Off to meet consideration number 1 for today...we'll see how he does....then right after...consideration number 2.....we'll see who wins the battle for My affection tonight!!

Today's 

Edition of Goddess' Advice is brought to you by a wise Superior MQB....take head fools who dare to approach consistently the wrong way....maybe it will help you to land the Superior you desire. Instead of pissing us off instead.

   

1. Listen to the Lady. The first thing you should remember is how to listen. Always listen carefully, as if these will be the last words you will ever hear. How can a male honestly declare that he is a slave if he fails to listen to what his owners tell him? How can he obey if he does not even listen to what they say? Why would a Domme’ want to spend any time on a slave that was not interested enough in Her to listen to Her? Listen to the Lady. Every word She says is precious. 

2. Obey the Lady. The main requirement of a slave is to be obedient. A disobedient slave is of no use to its owner and reflects badly on Her. My slaves are My property and may be given instructions by Me or another Domme’. Provided I have approved, you should obey a Lady with the same diligence and effort that you would exercise when carrying out the instructions of your Owner. 

3. Use all your physical and mental capacity in the service of the Lady. As soon as you understand your command, obey it with all that you are. The Lady does not want to be served by an automaton who blindly follows Her instruction, but an intelligent creature who will use its intellect and imagination to the full in Her service. Be creative in Your service to Her. 

4. Be happy in Your work. Do whatever your Owner asks with joy in Your heart, even if it is something you do not like. She may take pleasure in getting you to do something you find unpleasant, so you should be glad that you are giving Her that pleasure. In any case, serving Her in any way She allows should be considered a pleasure and a privilege

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5. Be patient. It is the Lady’s prerogative to keep you waiting. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy Her. She probably has more important things on Her mind than you. After all, pretty much everything is more important than you!

6. Be humble. You are not fit to lick a Lady’s boots; always remember that and do not go around bragging about your achievements. A Lady is unlikely to appreciate a boastful slave. Action speaks louder than words and you will have ample opportunity to show Her how good you are. 

7. Do not try to manipulate the Lady. Often known as “Topping from the Bottom”, trying by whatever means to control a Domina and get Her to cater to Your needs and desires rather than vice-versa is not only rude but completely self-defeating. If you succeed, then you no longer experience the Female Domination you seek, only hollow role-play. To experience the true delights of submission to a Dominant Female, you must genuinely surrender control to Her with all your body and soul. Open yourself up, and allow The Goddess to flow through you. 

8. Do not bother your Owner unnecessarily. In other words, do not be a pest

. Your Owner  knows how much you want to serve Her, and does not need to be reminded of it every hour of the day. Offer your services, yes, but if the Lady cannot use you right now, do not keep on at Her! Also, ensure She is looking for new slaves before begging Her to take you on. If you are lucky enough to be considered, tell Her whatever She wants to know, but do not beg endlessly or pester Her for a decision. Slaves do not harass their Mistress, they wait patiently upon Her word. She will decide in Her own good time..! 

9. Speak

 honestly and from the heart. Lying to a Lady is disrespectful. Tell the truth, even if sometimes it is difficult. When a Lady has bought a new outfit and asks whether it suits Her, and you do not think it does, it is tempting to lie because you think the lie will please Her; but if She has asked for your honest opinion, then you are disobeying Her by not giving it. She may flay your hide afterwards, but so what if that makes Her feel better? A little skin off your backside should be a small price to pay for Her happiness. At least you have not been disrespectful to Her. 

10. Be realistic. You will not serve well if you are fantasy-struck and cannot tell the difference between reality and the fantasy world you see in books and magazines. Your Owner is a real Owner, with a real life and all the usual mundane chores that come with it; She is not on tap for you every time you want attention. Try to merit My attention by helping deal with some of those mundane chores and problems where possible and always remember: you are here to serve Me, not vice-versa. 

11. Be really submissive! Let the Lady take you over completely. Don't coach or second guess Her. Respect and obey Her and expect punishment if you do not. Accept it gracefully and cheerfully. And remember, never be afraid to crawl, grovel or boot-lick. A good slave can never do enough crawling, grovelling or boot-licking! Ensure that you have the Lady’s permission first, of course. 

12. Be loyal and dependable. A Lady is entitled to expect total loyalty from the fortunate males She generously allows to serve Her. To show disloyalty is to show disrespect. She is also entitled to be able to depend upon Her slaves doing what they are told and doing it to the best of their ability. A slave is his Mistress’s possession and if the possession is seen to be of little value, this will reflect on its owner. Do not lower your owner’s esteem by being untrustworthy or unreliable: be a credit to Her! 

13. Always offer your services if you can be of help. When a Lady requires assistance, She should not need to ask for it. The good slave will offer his services as a matter of course. Be the first to offer help, and the last to ask for it, and you will be in Her good graces. 

14. Try not to draw attention to yourself. A slave should do his best to go unnoticed. He should not draw attention to himself or to what he is doing unless absolutely necessary. The good slave bears all for his  Mistress. 

15. Be polite and courteous. No Lady likes an ill-mannered slave. Slaves shall treat all Ladies with the utmost courtesy and respect. That does not simply mean saying “please” and thank you”, which is just “common” courtesy…

16. Hold your temper and your tongue. Male aggression and rudeness have no place in the service of an Owner. Slaves must NEVER show signs of ill-temper when in the presence of a Lady and NEVER make rude remarks in Her presence. If you cannot say anything nice, do not say anything at all. If you do feel yourself becoming frustrated or bad-tempered in the presence of a Lady, apologise and ask to be permitted to go away and cool off; and when you return, beg permission to re-enter Her presence and apologise profusely to Her again. 

17. Do not neglect your Owner; slaves are there to provide amusing and interesting conversation for the Domina, not partake in a boy’s club. Boys should always beware of subjects which may exclude the Domina and if one arises, he should check with Her whether or not She wishes to discuss that topic. If She does not, suggest a different topic or ask what She would like to discuss. 

18. Do not be a wuss about facing up to your Mistress when you are so deeply ashamed of something you have done, or failed to do, or do not want to face up to telling their Superior about it. Nevertheless, you must! What you want or do not want to do is not important; you have a duty to confess your shortcomings to your owner or to any other Lady who has given you an instruction. Of course, the Lady may decide to punish you severely; that is Her right and you must accept Her punishment bravely and with good cheer (see below). The important thing is that you have done your duty toward Her. 

19. Take Your punishment like a good slave. You must try nonetheless. Owners do not like cry-babies. Be brave, take your medicine and always remember to thank Your Superior for Her time and attention afterwards. 

20. Ladies First. Last and always!

Someone asked Me today what was My Wishlist of desires for today.....and can I provide the location on where one could pick those things up ....so here goes

My fav chocolate covered strawberries 

http://products.berries.com/chocolate/Two-Full-Dozen-Gourmet-Dipped-Fancy-Berries-9726?REF=SHBSRCHgoogkwd_%2bchocolate+%2bcovered+%2bstrawberries_ccs_b&navContent=T%3aOccasion%26nbsp%3b%26nbsp%3b%26darr%3b%3aJust+Because+Gifts&navLocation=T%3a3-7%3a7-11&viewpos=11&trackingpgroup=sjb

Fav Wine -Merlot

http://www.google.com/imgres?um=1&hl=en&newwindow=1&sa=N&tbm=isch&tbnid=-C8cAiAbzhMLJM:&imgrefurl=http://suite101.com/article/the-rise-of-merlot-a38373&docid=0r00EcqkjdWg3M&imgurl=http://images.suite101.com/270666_closdubois.jpg&w=600&h=600&ei=11VSUNSiIamw0QHU74CQBQ&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=221&vpy=139&dur=2830&hovh=225&hovw=225&tx=143&ty=181&sig=108253652543793991833&page=2&tbnh=129&tbnw=126&start=13&ndsp=18&ved=1t:429,r:13,s:13,i:161&biw=1024&bih=475

Fav Cheesecakes

Caramel Pecan Turtle

Tiramisu

Snickers

http://shop.thecheesecakefactory.com/order/category/cheesecakes.html#identifier=1347574802012

Boots on the Wishlist this year size 8 and 1/2

http://www.funkypair.com/openbackd-ringlace-upthighbootsz6-14.aspx

Fav Costume for Halloween- size large for 9/10

http://www.costumesupercenter.com/sexy+costumes-egyptian+arabian/DG8209-womens-sexy-cleopatra-costume.html

Fav Corset size Large for these ample breasts

http://www.milanoo.com/Pretty-Black-Red-Acrylic-Satin-Womens-Lingerie-Set-p100370.html

Fav color corset with layered skirt- Black size large

http://www.milanoo.com/Black-Tiered-Ruffled-Layered-Satin-Skirt-p177324.html

Enjoy!

Ok so yes a lot of you are discovering that yes...I do have a smart mouth on Me....but I just can't stand a lotta dumb shit....if you approach Me sarcastically, EXPECT AND KNOW, I will come for you.....see you don't get to just say whatever the hell you want to Me and think I'm not going to "check" you....I'll put you in your place so fast you'll wonder why you started with Me in the first place. 

Please Believe Me.....I am what I am....I won't care if you don't agree.....you can BEGONE..

it makes Me no never mind. 

Of this you can be certain.....I WILL find someone else.....I WILL tell you how to address Me, I will show you the DOOR and if you want to get smart with Me....well then Honey you'd have to be SMART in the first place......

I AM a Diva.....this won't change simply because you want it to.....

WORD OF Goddess' ADVICE FOR TODAY

don't send a Goddess a chat request when you haven't properly introduced yourself and we've had a few conversations....it just makes you look stupid and pretentious 

sad thing is you're not impressing anyone....you're turning them OFF.....and the impression you ARE making....really sucks ass to be a first one.......

This has been a lesson of BDSM Rules for DUMMIES......be sure to send your donations to My pay pal....ok kiddies.....

rotflmmfao......<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<yea.....try to figure that one out......

ahhhhhh losers.......lol

ciya!!!

Special shout out to My gg for taking the time to bring Me a beautiful bottle of My favorite Merlot....that was really sweet of you gg....it was so nice to spend some time with you yesterday, especially after all the support you showed Me in My grief....

looking forward to becoming your Goddess and owner.....

Mamma adores Her special gurl....

~GoddessNubiana

Ok so now My life is slowly returning to normal and I'm really feeling so much better now...I've had a lot of catching up to do at work and it's been leaving Me a bit more fatigued than I'm used to but it feels good to move on....

Starting to get job offers.....one in vegas...hmmm??

Not sure how I feel about moving out of state again...but I'm delighted to be invited out there to work....

Going to hold out for the dream job I just applied for as well...I hope that one comes in before the Vegas one does.....

wish Me luck!!!

For 3 weeks...I've been going so hard I haven't had a chance to really grieve yet...to all those who's kind words have sustained Me in My darkest hour of need I humbly thank you all......its helped so much  to keep Me strong, focused and uplifted. you all know how Dominant I am and how although I live this lifestyle I am still human and need to go thru this transformation....so to those of you who felt ignored or like I wasn't responding fast enough, My Dominant nature almost cursed you the FUCK out.....but I'm going thru something BIGGER THAN YOUR STUPIDITY right now....losing a loved one is never easy, even for the hardest Diva....so I will continue to check messages, respond and try to get thru this at My own pace.....if you can't wait .....then 

FUCK you...

God saw fit to call you home 8/25/12, RIP to a true Queen. Thanx for always being there, being honest and teaching Me how to love.

~Goddess Nubiana

sigh......won't be long now....taking a hiatus for a spell.....stay in touch...

for those you have sent Me well wishes and sympathy in My time of need

I thank you

It's very hard to lose a loved one...to watch them slipping away...so thank you for those who have sent Me kind words. I will get thru this ....just need some time.

~GN

Domme's Day Out

I'm planning a hotel stay with a Domme friend for Her birthday during the week of 8/27 and the week of-9/3/12--We're currently seeking a group of bisexual subs who wish to play with each other for Our amusement. If in attendance,  you are required to contribute to the fun via paypal for food, drinks and refreshments as well as provide any services We require. We are also paying for fun so it's only fair you help out too. If you do NOT wish to contribute via paypal you will be required to upon arrival at which time if you do NOT agree, you will be dismissed. Entertainment is NOT FREE for Us or for you. Simply bypass this journal entry, this is not for you.

Twice a month My Sister and I do this as a way to release stress/tension and entertain ourselves with new play partners who'd like to join in the fun. We also have monthly Domme parties for serious sub/slave playmates-you are welcome to ask for more details on this.

as a sub/slave you are allowed to bring any sexy/slutty outfits to dress up in but upon entrance to Our room you'll be required to be in the nude or wear briefs or thongs until you are properly dressed.

There will be photo opportunities and if you request, your face will not be exposed....We are willing to use discretion in regards to your vanilla existence.

also you will be required to do what you are told at all time unless otherwise directed.

We're only seeking about 5 to 10 bisexual subs/cd/trannies/sissies to play together so if this interests you and you'd like to play with Us....send Me a message.

~Goddess Nubiana

I have a family member who was just admitted to hospice this past Friday. I will be busy for the next couple of days....so if we are in conversation....give Me a minute to deal with this-we did not expect this to come so soon.

~GN

if you are a sub/slave "when you want to be" do Me a favor and pass My profile. I will not tolerate disrespectful "do Me" subs/slaves in any shape or fashion. I have rules, yes but you will never get to tell Me what to do, or assume because I have rules and expectations that I need you for anything I work 2 jobs everyday, own My car and property so don't waste My time insulting Me.  I pick and choose who I want to serve Me....not the other way around. My time is constantly wasted by those who say they want to serve and never actually do ...so spare Me your bullshit excuses about what My profile says...you'd have to have some sort of intelligence to get it anyway so don't assume you know about Me by reading My profile. It's written that way to keep away a certain element and it's actually working.

To know Me is to love Me, which has to be done IN PERSON....if you live too far away you already know I'm not the one for you....