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10/1/2015 9:38:57 AM

In the jungle as I like to call it, you have your multitude of wants, desires, fetishes and beasts of every color and flavors. So I am writing this to set expectations. And for the love of the D/s dynamic, some standards. If you are man, woman, alien from planet kink... I love you all. ...but DO NOT. ....DO NOT...DO NOT... what did I type boys and girls??? DO NOT tell Me how to Dominate you! If you are setting instructions for a Dominant on how to talk to you, how to get you off, and how to make sure YOU get what YOU want. Then you, first of all ARE NOT BEING SUBMISSIVE! And worse, you are missing the point of the experience while tying the hands of the one that is supposed to be equipped in providing you with an experience. "Am I not supposed to communicate " I can hear SOME of the submissive populace say. Communicate: YES... Dictate: A resounding NO. I and most Dominants will ask what your fetishes are, your likes, your limits...if they don't, then you will 99.98% chance leave at the very LEAST disappointed. Please, tell Me your fetishes, your desires, the experience you want from Me. But don't you dare tell Me when to use them, that I am to use them every single time or how to use them exactly . If you are telling Me , when, where, how, you are creating the scene and that IS NOT your place as a submissive. At that point you are reducing the Dominant to the status of a fluffer. So let Me make this clear. I am not a fluffer in person , over the phone or online. I made the decision to go "PROFESSIONAL" for one very actually pathetic reason..... I was spending more time Domming than focusing on My job and it was hurting My finances. That's the sad truth. I love, LOVE what I do in the lifestyle. With that being said. ..because I do love it, I will not accept subpar, wishy washy, straddling the fence, or overbearing, EXPECTANT, wanna be submissives. To call yourself submissive and have that attitude, is a disgrace to that beautiful, giving position. So, best thing you can do.... if you EXPECT orgasms change your thinking right there. Number 1. ) orgasms are not a right ....they are a privilege. And are not the necessity of submission 2.) Getting to service a Dominant is a PRIVILEGE. So many submissives say " my submission is a gift and must be earned" I completely agree....however... why isn't the creative energy that is,required of that Dominant not a gift as well? Why isn't the fact that the Dominant CHOSE you to help you explore and let go not a gift as well? I feel that although, it should be a given that I am here to GUIDE the submissive through their personal journey, it should still be treated and respected as a gift. If you are a submissive, yes your submission is a gift but shouldn't you still remember to.....well.....submit?? So bottom line. I am particular about My submissives. If you are not prepared to submit. Do not approach. I am not the one for you. And P.S: please to those beautiful submissives who give with pride. The ones that when asked "is there anything in particular you want out of the experience? " and their response is " just to please in the form and manner You wish" that is grace, beauty, and strength of will and how I love you for it.