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BKSir
Submissive Redhead seeks Friends, Comrades, Fellow Naughty Girls.

I have a Dom, and am not looking for another.

The information about me below doesn't have much of my BDSM interests because I seek more than that in friends and cohorts. Please, no married men, or men living with girlfriends. Unless you are thinking of letting me make nice with your girl. :)

I am 37, I live in Orange County Ca, the Los Angeles metroplex.....
I have one cat. Never been married, no children. My other contact information is the same screen name as this one. Google me... if you have to.
I have known about the term submissive now for 18 years, but I have always been submissive. It is part of my nature.

I seek friends to learn from, enjoy, and maybe for a potential playmate. I never think of myself as slave material, and I can't see myself being 24/7 D/s, but my Dom and I have found a nice niche for us.

I found my boyfriend together we have friendship, romance, vanilla fun, and EPE fun. I LOVE/ADORE Hockey. :) So if you too like hockey even better. I also have an AOL account with the same screen name and you may sometimes find me chatting with other submissives. I like scary movies, good books, dancing, and bondage. Ha Ha, bet ya weren't expecting that one. I of course like other things similar to Bondage... but you have to let me know you're interested before I will share them. I am 5'6 and a plump BBW. Milky white skin with freckles, and tush length thick wavy fire red hair... Natural of course...

If you might be interested in talking about the latest Rob Zombie release (movie or music or comic book), hockey, the trials and tribulations of being kinky young and such, let me know. I am a friend that understands your nature, and have gone to parties and events with different people over the years.

It used to be very hard to be an LA Kings fan in Orange County because the fowl purchased themselves that pretty cup a few years ago... but I was strong. 2 years ago the LA Kings won the Stanley Cup but we were robbed of a celebratory year due to the lockout. Boooo!!! I give my strength over to my Dom and maybe might like to try with a Gal Pal you never know..... :) I wish Bi-Curious was an option in the sexuality field of this thing.

One of my favorite lines that I came up with one night while thinking about the things I like..... A whisper can speak volumes, a scream can enchant.
I look forward to hearing from you.
7/17/2015 12:55:18 AM
A quick note, yes, I see I have unread new messages, some are short and won't get much attention.  But for those that are real (You know who you are) I will be responding when I am not so tired.

Wish me luck in the next few days!
3/19/2015 2:03:25 AM
It's true, I am unashamedly binge watching to get caught up on Glee so that I can watch the final episode live.  As an original Gleek, it's ok.  I still love the mashups.
7/16/2014 10:56:52 AM
Ninjas: the unseen helpers.
7/7/2014 5:15:58 PM
My hair, has been so long that for a year I have been sitting on it.  All the time, and I have decided it's time for a cut.  Here is the problem everyone(friends-family-recruiter) have told me that I need to cut at least a foot.  I don't want to cut that much... nope... nope... nope...

I found an expensive salon that is fancy and I think what I will do, is walk in, and say, I need help and am asking for your ideas.  Tell them I know I need to cut at least 5 inches but that I am scared to cut more, maybe they have a style they can recommend as a transitional cut. 

A new hair style is a must in order to accomplish my professional goals, but I may need several drinks before that first snip.
6/30/2014 4:10:23 PM
Dealing with some stressful stuff and may need a shiny happy moment tonight, and no unfortunately it won't involve pizza nor ice cream.....
6/9/2014 7:58:15 PM

1 more win, and the LA Kings are the Stanley Cup CHAMPS again!!!!!! Congrats to Quick, this was his first in goal start at Madison Square Garden and it was a Stanley Cup Final game and it was a SHUT OUT. What means to non-hockey fans is that the other team could not score on him at all. They even pulled their goalie for a little over 4 minutes at the end and the Rangers had NO Shots on goal. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.  :) 

6/9/2014 7:11:13 PM

Go Kings Go!!!!!  I am giddy that the Stanly Cup final game 3 is at 3 to 0 with my Kings so far shutting out the Rangers in their own barn.   Go Kings Go. 

3/17/2014 5:09:21 PM

Must put this book on my list of stuff to read: 

 

Gordon by Edith Templeton

3/9/2014 7:03:46 PM

I am excited for the new show Cosmos and hope the DVR doesn't explode from too much stuff.  Not sure if it's time to put the picture back up but we will see. 

1/8/2014 4:39:02 AM

Photo Removed Temporarily, because of a creep.  Dumb Creep.

 

6/20/2012 12:33:43 AM

I just love reading all of the fake profiles....

 

You would think that they could spell things correctly or be grammatically correct.

 

I saw another sub mention in her journal that if people stopped paying "tributes" girls would stop asking for them.

 

I totally agree.  That is all for now.  :)

6/17/2012 5:22:08 PM

I am listening to the Falling Skies podcasts where POPE talks about what is going on after the end of Season 1.  :)

 

6/16/2012 12:41:51 AM

Blocked you Mr sends templated messages, that is creepy and gets the sites "bulk" email warning.....

 

Blocked Blocked Blocked.

6/13/2012 6:09:26 PM

Submissive and Slave girlies should not watch the BBC - HBO series Rome!!!  It makes us super duper.... wildly horny!!!!

 

 

6/12/2012 7:28:10 PM

HEEE HEEE HEEE Happy day after the Kings won the Stanley Cup everyone!!!!

 

I am trying to decide what to wear to the Celebratory Championship Parade and Rally.  I may end up just picking up an official Champs Tshirt there.... not sure....

 

Or I could get some sparklies and hot glue them onto a very low cut and short sleeved T... not sure... decisions decisions.  

6/9/2012 2:27:22 PM

Happy KINGSWINTHESTANLEYCUP Day everyone!!!!

6/9/2012 12:21:07 AM

In one of the episodes of Terminator the Sarah Conner Chronicles; Summer Glau as the Terminator starts to have a "chip" malfunction and reverts to a part of a real humans personality that she stole in the future.  She doesn't remember who she is other than the humans story from the future.... and she says....

 

"Did you hurt me". 

 

Yes, I would hurt you, I would hurt you really good, and make you cry, then make you smile. 

 

:)

6/3/2012 1:29:54 AM

If others at work have childish looking font and colors in their signature lines with religious, motivational, or humorous quotes why is it that I was told that I can't put Go Kings Go!!!!  Stanley Cup Champs here we come!!!! in my signature line.....

 

It's not offensive unless you hate the Kings?

6/3/2012 12:31:26 AM

Go KINGS GO!!!!!!!  Our boys are traveling home after winning GAME 2 of the finals tonight.  I was told they are half way home, but since it will be almost 4am when they drive out of the airport, they may end up Helo'ing out.  I think that the team just didn't want to arrange for the homecoming they have had in the past few series.  It is Sat night after all, maybe the logistics of having thousands of fans park near the airport and then line the streets is too much. 

 

5/30/2012 5:04:39 PM

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

5/30/2012 5:00:48 PM

I had a super bad day at work and could use a good spanking... but I will have to make do with the Kings Spanking the Devils. 

5/27/2012 11:54:45 PM

Am I not clear in my profile?  I don't mind friendly chat, but men, please don't try to Dom me online.... seriously....  Now a girl.... hmmmmm.....

 

2/3/2012 7:06:47 PM

Wait Wait Wait... hold on, how can people that "have no active profile" message me here... hmmmmmm 

2/1/2012 10:53:42 PM

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Sheldon and Penny 2.0.... hahahahahahahahahaha

1/30/2012 8:08:09 PM

Well, DAMNNNNN someone looks like Christian Bale!!!!  :)

12/5/2011 1:56:45 AM


I just saw something that made me go "ewe" that is a tough one for someone to do... now to find something to erase that image from my memory....

 

ick!!!!

10/4/2011 6:02:47 AM

HAHAHAHAHA that is so funny!!!!

9/28/2011 12:48:40 AM

Yes no, Yes no, Yes no, Yes no, Yes no, Yes no!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA OK NO YES!

8/28/2011 6:19:27 AM

Woke up due to the heat here in SoCal... yucky... had to turn on the house fan...  Let's see if I can go back to sleep... Fare thee well East Coasters ....

7/31/2011 2:45:00 AM

I am feeling really needful and having a nice restful night lurking. 

 

 

6/20/2011 5:35:38 AM

Damnation to you, you evil bird waking me up at 4am, I still can't sleep!!! I wish I had night vision goggles so I could find you and your nest and then destroy it the next day.

3/16/2011 9:24:10 PM

Bored!!!!!! 

8/23/2010 12:01:20 AM
Is it wrong to play facebook games while watching porn before bed?
6/24/2010 1:42:07 AM
I am being driven mad, mad I say!!!  From the non-stop pins and needles going on all over my 2nd degree sunburnt skin as it heals.  I am starting to peel and this is no fun!!!  The pain was one thing these annoying pokes that I keep getting suck!!!! 
6/8/2010 1:05:08 AM
The Lie to Me episode that aired tonight was sooooo GOOOOD!!!! 
6/1/2010 2:14:20 AM
Something I am pondering after reading a profile of someone new.  I get the concept of an "e-collar".  But, I don't see how it can actually work.  I mean, if you haven't ever met someone, how can you belong to them.  If you can, for any length of time without meeting them within a reasonable time does that mean something is wrong with the couple.  Is it doable because it's a fantasy? Never having been "e-collared" I don't know....  I go and ponder on it.... :) 
4/14/2010 12:55:48 AM
Glee Glee Glee Glee Glee Glee Glee.  What can I say I am a Gleek!!!!!
4/4/2010 9:04:57 PM
I have to say that today's Earthquake that was just across the border down south in Mexico about what maybe 100 miles away maybe 120.... was the weirdest one I have been in.   7.2 and the the motion made it feel bigger or centered closer.  Some felt queasy but I felt jarred.  I hope everyone in the area is ok. 
3/28/2010 4:59:43 AM
No, Seriously, now I am going to bed, I swear.
3/28/2010 3:34:14 AM
I love the Barnes and Noble Nook, I have to have one of my own.  It will have to wait though.  I got my Dom one for his Birthday and I immediately looked to see if anyone was selling a used one, so it would be cheaper.  But alas, No go.  I spent the day cleaning, no fun on my day off but necessary.

Good Night CollarMe Land. 
3/25/2010 2:23:43 AM
Good Night CollarMeLand.  Sweet dreams everyone.
3/23/2010 2:40:15 AM
Tonight's episode of Big Bang Theory was AWESOME.  I couldn't stop laughing at so many parts.  
3/22/2010 2:57:03 AM
I read 2 entries that baffled me today. 

The first was about being on trial for a month.  Is that like a full refund deal? 

The second was about a gal that was working with people to make a list to warn people about fakers/trolls.  I have never been a faker or troll however there were some people in the last 12 years of exploration in BDSM that I was way into at first... then they said or did something to make me question my initial thoughts about them.  To be honest I may or may not have told them why I wasn't interested anymore.  Sometimes it's not tangible, and sometimes it was scary.  I didn't want to piss someone off so they would go on ignore, no phone calls returned, nor emails.  One or two men in my past may think I am a faker or troll, and I would heartily disagree.  True I could have handled it better, but to be branded something by list makers.  That would be unwarranted.  Who decides what is or isn't criteria for a faker list?  Will there be a trial, or check list?  Angry people piss me off... vengeful people piss me off...  Sorry I had to vent. 
3/19/2010 4:34:40 AM
I have "cherry Pie" by Warrant in my head.  
2/22/2010 3:40:09 AM
I just read a profile of a Domme/Dom couple looking for a slave.  I may be reading the profile wrong but it sounds as if they will be running credit on the Female slave applicants before meeting with them.  The intent is that the slave be maid/personal assistant/rape toy for him.  I would never give enough info for a  background check to anyone I didn't know before, even as a newbie when I was shiny and new.  LOL. ..  I can't stop laughing the level of people they are going to attract sets them  up for failure.  LOL... Now I wouldn't be applying for that as I have a Dom, and am happy...  I wish I could chat with people that read their profile and we could have a laugh riot over the whole thing.....   Basically they are saying "stupid people that don't mind having an identity stolen apply here".  LMAO.....
2/13/2010 2:49:03 AM
Olympics!!!! BAHHH!!!!  GRRRRR!!!!!

I live in Southern California and as the only member of my household interested in televised sports (really just hockey) I had to record the opening ceremonies on the DVR. Due to the delay in raising the cauldrons the time ran out on the recording. I was so mad I made a very unladylike comment. I invested 4 hours of my life to watch something that was supposed to be magical. In the end the spell failed. I can't find any video anywhere on the net so that I can watch the lighting, and a huge hero of mine was involved (#99) of course. When the ceremonies ran long NBC should have realized some of us would miss the biggest part of the ceremony, and uploaded the lighting. Am I wrong?
1/28/2010 4:29:53 AM
I feel the need for a good giggle. 
1/18/2010 3:08:58 AM
A moment ago, I saw a subby gal with the first line of her profile being.  "Update: I am currently under consideration and therefore am not allowed to talk to others."

This just screams danger danger danger to me. 

The gal is new to the lifestyle and this is what I see in my mind when I allow myself to consider that line of her profile. 

She is in her late thirties, he is in his late forties.  I see him planning to do things to and with her that he doesn't want her to be able to get feedback on from others in the community.... something like this. 

Am I wrong, is this not a dangerous thing????
1/15/2010 3:32:00 AM
This afternoon on the way home from work I got about half of for whom the bell tolls on the radio ... San Diego still has a metal station, whereas Los Angeles does not.  I miss KNAC.  :)
1/14/2010 1:29:09 AM
I read in a blog on another site a girl letting it all out due to a painful and worrisome event.  She had not seen, spoken with, or heard anything about her Master in almost 20 days.   He apparently had a website he established where he would blog and update regularly, he hadn't been there since before she last was with him.  His Cell Phone is no longer in service.  She went to his Parents home and nobody was home and had not been for a while it seemed.  She has looked to see if he was arrested, or in accidents and found nothing.  It's unclear if she went to his residence and if so what she found but the fact she knew where his parents lived either means he lived with them or she already had been to his place with no luck.  I did my version of a prayer for her and her Master never having known either as her situation, fear, worry, and sadness cut pretty deep.  With all of the holiday merriment and New Years Partying we forget that bad things happen.  People hurt, Natural Disasters inflict horrible suffering, Some things we can affect change on and some we can't.  But we can always remember to tell those we love what they mean to us, and how much we value them.  I found out about the Earthquake earlier today and am still in shock, living in Southern Cali means you think about Earthquakes almost on a regular basis.  Little ones can be dangerous, big, horrible.  My "thoughts" AKA prayers are getting quite the workout today.  It's not wrong to be grateful that my loved ones are safe tonight, but at the same time I am very sorry for all of the suffering .....  Be Well All.
1/2/2010 12:29:17 PM
I am going furniture shopping today.  YAY.  
10/22/2009 4:04:50 AM
I finished the Merry Gentry series from Laurell K Hamilton recently and have to wait till next year for the next Anita Blake book.  :(  ~pout~  I am however looking forward to the ION network making the first book into a made for TV movie.  ----  I have started reading the first Harry Dresden book by Jim Butcher, so far, as I am reading I envision the show. 

This of course is awesome.  Except for the descriptor of Murphy, different hair color... Throws me off.

I have a graduation party for My Dom-BF's cousin this weekend.  I like his family and I know I will have a good time.  I am hoping to get finished with the book by then so I am between books and not distracted. 

OK, now I must away to bed, Good Night CMville.
10/19/2009 12:43:41 AM
Ok, I have a gripe, but it's not too big of one...  If people don't want you to let them know that you are sorry about something that happened to them in a quicky note, then why the fudge'sicles do they even write about the situation in their journals in the first place.  Grrrr!!!  If you don't want people to know or comment on something, don't put it where everyone can see.  Grrrr!!! 
10/18/2009 11:25:48 PM
I am feeling this color tonight.  :)  Ok so I have updated my profile with new information on me and who I seek.  I would add another photograph, but I need to pull the ones from Vegas last month off the camera.  You may be able to tell that every Sept towards the end of the month I go to Vegas for Pre-Season Hockey "Frozen Fury".  Yes my Kings Vs usually the Ave's.   It's fun to scare the non-hockey fans on the way to the game going through the casino and the retail area before the arena.  Razzing the Ave fans....  We won again this year.  Nice....  
5/6/2008 12:02:10 AM
A Dominant that can not man up and communicate is not a Dominant at all but a lurker...  Just a thought I had while discussing a few things with a vanilla friend. 
4/16/2008 12:03:10 AM
What kind of shoes should a girl wear while hunting.... hmmmmm....
6/8/2007 4:22:53 AM
Good Morning All,

I am getting ready to leave for Vegas for the weekend.  I will be able to check my AOL email from my cell phone if anyone wants to email me there.... guess what... the screen name is the same....

I am going to see the Fashionistas.... you can see info on it by going to that name plus the words the show and the usual ending....also I will be gambling some... and oh yeah... flirting and getting into trouble....

Still need my birthday spankins from Dec....

GRC
WhiteCat
 
 Age: 34
 Australia