In the last few days, I have been absent to try and take care of My personal health.  I very much do not appreciate the number of people who, in that time, have tried to contact Me through means other than those I have approved. 

I have rules and procedures for a reason, and I expect them to be followed.  Found Me on skype?  Did I give you My skype address?  No?  Then it doesn't matter, you may not contact Me there.  

Anyone who contacts Me through means other than those provided will immediately and permanently be placed on the shit list.

You know, I can understand why some people don't care for My fetish.  I can understand that some people do not understand it. 

What I do not understand is why these people feel the need to seek Me out and insult Me because I am into a fetish that they are not.  I do not go around on CM looking for people that have a scat fetish and tell them they are disgusting, despite the fact that I don't care for scat play. 

You're welcome to like and do as you please.  But show some fucking respect.  Especially you subs.  If you don't want to serve Me, DON'T FUCKING CONTACT ME.  I'm not interested in how you think I am a scam before we've made any steps towards getting to know one another or verification.  I am not interested in your opinion, only your service.  

I'm quite loquacious today it seems.

There seems to be some confusion about the application I have requested those seeking to serve me fill out.  This is not sign-up for some site, this is my chance to get a good handle on what is and isn't safe and acceptable within the bounds of our relationship as near to the beginning of it as possible.

This is the final time I will explain.  If you can't look thoroughly at My profile before contacting me, you're probably not bright enough to be one of My slaves anyway.

It has been brought to My attention that there were some broken links on my website.  To those that may have attempted to contact me through it, the responsible party apologizes profusely, and assures Me that all of the errors have been corrected.

A new post on my blog that I thought I ought to share here, seeing as the conversation that sparked it took place here.

On a related note, I'm very much enjoying CM.

"I've been trying to do more research since finally officially setting myself up online, and see what other Ladies in My position have to say.  I thought, "Surely, a little conversation with My peers would be lovely!"  Oh, was I in for a surprise.

I avoided the really big sites, because I don't like to fight for attention, and there are many, many voices there already.  So I looked for a few personal blogs.  

Platinum blondes--as far as the eye can see.  

Pouty little blonde girls with too much makeup and absolutely no personality.  Little Paris Hilton wannabes, with their hands out and their legs spread.  These girls would not know class if it struck them in the face.  And here they are, playing to a needy, wanting audience, but all they have to offer are pretty faces.  There is no Domination there--how dare they besmirch My title?  They take and take like the little parasites they are, leaving their subs high, dry, and hungry.  I might make you feel the squeeze, but I assure you I would never let you starve.

Do not feed these girls.  If you washed off the make-up and pulled away the Prada bag and the expensive sunglasses, I think you would find that there is nothing left there.  We, as Doms, talk only rarely about the needs of our subs, but I had an interesting conversation today (to be continued?) and wish for a moment to address it.

I believe there may be some subs out there who truly enjoy having everything thing they own gobbled up by some power-drunk little girl.  But I think they are far fewer than there are men forking over cash to them.  Ask yourself, boy, for just a moment--are you truly all right with receiving nothing in return for your service but a few emotionless photos and an empty wallet?  Or do you seek discipline, safety, and the absolute freedom of absolute surrender?  These things are not easy, but I can build them in you, if you are Mine.  You must obey, and you must serve.  But one must, in many ways, serve to be served.  

Any relationship should be mutual in some respect.   "

I'd like to add that I don't think I am the only Domme there is--that would be silly.  I just hate how many angry, jaded folks I see who've had these girls fuck with them to no real end save the girl's personal gain.

There is more to it than that!