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Havoxx's Rant: Profiles and what they are for..
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Im seriously trying to understand why people will message and NOT read a profile first!! Profiles are created to give information about the Person featured, this means everything from Locaation to Sexual interests normally SHOULD be included in these profiles, and alot of times are...
But there are the morons that dont "READ" profile but they "read" profile (aka lazy skimmers). They find the keywords THEY like and find a interest in and decide that this person will naturally be for them without actually understanding what the whole profile is saying, and this leads to the repetitive nagging and asking of already pointed out information like:
- Where do you live?
- How old are you?
- So are you a Dominant or a submissive? (really??!!)
- What are your interests? (after being thoughtfully typed out and selected in the communities already made list of goodies)
then there are those that clearly state in their profiles:
- Have a picture before you contact and submit upon first letter.
- Correspondence via Instant Messanger ONLY.
- seeking those that are single ONLY.
- seeking those LOCAL ONLY.
- etc...
But for some unknown reason there always seems to be those groups that feel they are the expection to the rules, they they are SO damn interesting that the rules and so on that people place in their profiles are NOT meant for them .. because they are so damn interesting they blow everyone else out of the water... So for some unknown reason.. probably bordom these few slip thru the cracks and get a chance.. and they are about as interested as paint covered peanuts left to dry in the damp air.
They cant hold a conversation to save their lives, they dont know anything other than one word responses to deep questions, and their own reason for being in the lifestyle is because they seen something interesting in a porn flix of because a ex got kinky with them once upon a time and they decided to explore into it more.
So these witless wonders of the lifestyle.. I say simply... LEAVE THE LIFESTYLE TO THOSE THAT ARE SERIOUS ABOUT IT. If you want to get your jollies off with some kink go find it in a bar.. or a swingers club.. D/s is not just about kink...its about something alot deeper than the occasional spanking or wanna be pretend consentual rape scene.. its not about getting off at all physically.. and if you dont know what I mean, then that is all the more reason to just leave ..and find a vanilla kinky other to spend your time with.. your giving the other Dominants and subs a bad name.. - I wont even talk about the switches because well... the kink club is three doors down and to the left.
Read profiles people..they are made with the intention to inform others about O/oneself.. and should be read completely and with a open mind. Dont skim and jus tbecause you see someone into something your into.. you think they wouldbe perfect.. NO not the case.. and frankly its annoying as hell when you drones do that.
Dont like My post.. so the hell what.. its My rant not yourself.. and no one made you read it anyway.
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This entry is titled: Age doesnt always mean WISDOM!!!!
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Okay, My bestfriend of 15yrs (who is a male and I call My brother) was in town tonight, his mom just passed away a few months ago, and her headstone was finally done so of course he comes to see it, so Me and My Sister (My other bestfriend of 20+yrs) go and we all hang out.. have a great time have a few drinks (Im not much of a drinker anymore so it doesnt take much) I get a nice buzz going on, Im not wasted but Im feeling pretty damn festive. - I get home.. Im happy, feeling good, My family is all well nothing could be better..
I get online to spread some of the happy cheer.. and I get messaged by a sub. Now said sub is older than Me. and older than the age limit I have set on the profile.. BUT recently the older subs have been more promising than the younger ones of My own age group.. SO I decide to talk to the guy... But like most the guy has been MIA for a bit, so I moved on to better pastures, and just when Im ready to x him off the list poof appears.. so Im like okay whatever holidays happen lets try a round 2... but I digress..
So Im feeling happy tonight.. great buzz... Im alil tilt.. BUT not completely to the side... I know EVERYTHING that is going on and what Im saying (I never get that wasted).. So Im msged.. with the whole game... Oh how I want you to own Me..yaddayadda... I wish you were here blahblah... Nothing original.. completely bland.. seriously overly regur'd BS.. So naturally Im not in the mood to deal with that right now... this all comes AFTER its assumed they didnt something wrong which they didnt,. it happened to be when they found Me I was busy alot.. and Im not gonna stop My world because One male decides suddenly he wants bothered.. but anywho...
So I tell the sub Im not in the mood for the Ownership conversations.. told them I was feeling good.. had a great night with My family and I wasnt feeling the whole serious talk at the moment... they get pissy and bratastic.. and I call them on it... - I go away for a moment to deal with something come back.... say Im there.. they start the BS again.. I tell them again Im not in the mood stop being so damn pushy about it... - and at this point the person keeps trying to push this one topic.. and Im not in the mood.. I said Im not in the mood... you being 20+ yrs OLDER than Me should be able to take the hint. if someone is NOT in the mood they are NOT in the mood.. just because YOU feel you want to talk about.. as a sub if your told no.. its NO.. flat out.. dont push.. dont get needy and desperate its just NO! .. the sub was vibing desperate Im not doing that... SO.. because I tell this male to back off Me... suddenly its not going to work.. and I shouldnt drink!!! ..
Yes I had some old desperate sack of subs flesh.. tell Me I shouldnt drink because I honestly told him I wasnt in the mood to talk Ownership and kink with him... I know this sub will read this.. and for you *flips the finger* - Sober, Tipsy or Flat out WASTED.. NO MEANS NO... Dont push yourself on ANYONE. you kept coming at me with the "I here for you to use" I told you NO.. then I get "so do you want to use me now" NO... "Im here for you to use me anything in mind" again NO ... NO IS NO... No isnt maybe.. .. no isnt YES.. no means NO.. if someone isnt in the mood to deal with you.. its not because they shoudnt drink.. its not because they shouldnt smoke.. its just because they dont want to deal with your the situattion OR the topic at that point.. that doesnt mean ask the crap in different ways to get what you want.. its NOT ABOUT YOU.. remember that..
So before you start trying to judge people and what they do.. look at yourself you desperate he hag.. and stop pushing yourself so forcefully onto people.. get to know them before you turn into some needy cow.. and perhaps you will find a Domme that will want to take the time to get to know you.. rather than want to go invisible and delete you. - but as you seen.. I just ignored you after I said what I had to say.
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to ALL: subs, slaves, pets, kinksters, whatever other title you want to go by,
IF YOU:
1) DO NOT LIVE, VISIT or PLAN TO RELOCATE TO THE STATES.
2) ARE NOT a SUBMISSIVE, SLAVE, or PET
3) ARE MARRIED, DATING, OR ONLY LOOKING FOR KINK
4) CAN NOT COMMIT TO THE POSSIBLITY OF BEING OWNED BY A DOMME IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP
5) HAVE NO CLUE WHAT YOU ARE.
6) ONLY WANT TO TALK WITH NO INTENTION OF EVEN BEING IN THE LIFESTYLE.
LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!! ... Its stupid how many would be slave/subs/pet whatever have you are out there, and talk so much trash.. and never have any intention of meeting, remotely trying to be serious, about anything. read My profile I do ONLINE DOMMING .. yes.. But that is also a processs of interviews as well for RT.. Im not a committed online Domme. - So I dont care how hung you are, how much you will do on cam.. at some point I will want RT.. and if you can not give Me what I want.. then dont bother Me at all.
Another thing!!.. I was approached by someone that called himself a "VICTIM" ... If you want to talk that is perfectly fine.. but make your intentions KNOWN upfront.. and do NOT ask Me about My kinks and fetishes if you are not a sub/slave/pet because frankly unless you have interest in Me that way.. dont waste time asking about things you dont want to or will never experience. - Its annoying. |
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To all you losers/poonhounds/wankers,
Let Me make this clear to you. I call the shots in MY world... NOT -you-. Now I have today had two people come to Me with some seriously braindead BS... the first. lil boy in the back woods of no where. your a bum. period.
TO the second.. that because I would not show him My cam wants to threaten Me with reporting Me to this site (collarme) for being a man. - Go on and do it sweetpea, I could care less. your a sorry sad sack of flesh, and your pissed off because I wouldnt give you spank material.
Its MY decision who I let see Me on cam, and you just happened to not be a lucky one to get a viewing. - and because of this I was deemed a man, and threatened LIKE I was gonna bend and break and show you just so I could keep My account on a site? HAHA No.. not that damn serious.
Im on other sites, that I have been cam verified, and I have NO PROBLEM verifying Myself for admins of a site if its needed. But I do NOT have to verify Myself with any slave from those sites if I dont want to. - Go get over .. wipe the snot from your nose, dry your eyes and get another damn glass a milk and move on with your day.
-Goddess HavoxX |
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Currently considering RT subbies and playmates for impact practice *wycked smirk* Only serious ones need apply, must have a picture to submit when messaging Me. The subbie/slave/pet interested must follow rules:
1. When messaging have picture either in profile or attached to message. Those that contact Me without a image will be ignored period.
2. MUST have a high pain tolerance, Im very heavyhanded, so if you cant take the pain you dont want to be My test subject.
3. MUST have yahoo and cam. this if for MY verifying that you are who you say you are. NOT up for negotations.
4. Must be of like mind, and have similiar interests.
I am into the mental aspects of D/s over the physical first and foremost. If your not intelligent, lack humor, personality and cannot hold a conversation or help keep one going mostly likely Ill become bored and press on. |
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| Age: 27 |
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