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Please read my whole profile before messaging :)
Life is short, enjoy the time you have with someone who loves you...
My Golden Rules:
- I don't cheat and I don't help other people cheat. If you are looking for a fling without your lovely knowing, piss off, I'm not interested.
- I don't share any personal info [re: myself or anyone else]. Want to add to your spank bank? Try Google.
- You have No Rights to my other relationships. That includes telling me to leave/lie to/cheat on/ignore/etc, either my husband or my partner.
I am a very happy 33 year old woman, living in Kamloops for nearly 10 years now. I am married and I am openly polyamorous. This means I am not ashamed of being poly, and my close friends know this about me.
[Note, my version of Poly does not include casual sex, swinging, polyfuckery or being anyone's dirty little secret]
I tend to be cheery and have a positive outlook on everything. I try to see the silver lining in every cloud. In other words, I am highly optimistic and that will not be changing any time soon.
I can be very girly and giggly, and I like to be treated like a princess. I want to know you adore me and will treat me with respect. I lean towards a more Sensual Goddess Domme type, if you don't know what that is, look it up.
Do not mistake that for being a baby girl. Do not underestimate my ability [and desire] to control most aspects of my life. If you can't handle my vanilla self, don't be a fool and think you will ever see my inner Domme.
I expect many things [which I will explain in detail to you, you will not be flying blind here], none of which are out of reach for the average person. If you can not handle a somewhat high maintenance [aka demanding] woman, then I am not the Domme for you.
Some of the things I will ask of you to start:
- Time, real face to face time. I like to spend quality time getting to know you as a person, first and foremost.
- Dates. I like to be taken out on fun dates, doing things outside of the home.
- Daily contact. Does not have to be hours upon hours of time, but I expect emails, phone calls and/or IM chat time at least once daily.
- Respect for my husband. I will not leave him to be with you. I will not keep you a secret from him. You will be required to meet us, together, before anything becomes of this relationship. This is non-negotiable.
- I will not be a secret. I will respect privacy to a degree [for example, not advertising our relationship to those who would not understand or respect it, such as your parents or ailing grandmother], but I will not hide it from the general public. This means I will hold your hand, kiss you, and whatever else comes with. I will not pretend I don't know you, or avoid personal contact while with you. That is not how I roll. Discretion is fine, dirty secrets are not.
- I expect fidelity. Until our relationship is stable and secure, I expect you to not see, date, bottom, submit, fuck or in any other way be involved with anyone else.
- Honesty. Complete and total honesty. If I ask you what you are feeling, I expect the truth. If I ask you your opinion on something, I expect your opinion, not what you think I want to hear. I want a submissive lover, not a sock puppet.
Some things that we are looking for:
- Friends first. I don't rush into anything, so don't expect more than a friendly hello to start.
- You message us first, this shows me you can obey and makes me feel desired.
- Absolutely no sexual talk until I let you know I am comfortable with it. If that is all you want to talk about, go elsewhere.
- No genital pics. I prefer to see that in person, not online. If you can't share a photo of your face, don't bother me.
- Please understand one thing: I will not Domme you right off the bat. You have to earn the privilege to see that side of me. Until I deem fit, you will only see the parts of me that I am comfortable showing off to the general public [aka, the vanilla world].
Please note: While I am Domme, I am not your Domme. That title isearned and not given willy nilly. It is something given only when we are both willing to make that long-term commitment. I do not take this lightly and I expect anyone wanting to be with me to take it just as serious.
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