Why is it so hard to find someone via this site?

You would think that with the countless amount of people on here that some real people would show themselves..... so far I have only found one real couple who invited me to there home last week.. It was such a wonderful time there as well, I was allowed to be myself and got to enjoy some wonderful company. 

It bemuses me though how you can begin to chat with others on here..... they make out there real, ask you questions to which to supply the answers as best you can and yet when it comes to the crunch time of meeting up they either vanish or call things off based on what they believe is a falsity within your contact..

Recently I had one such Dominant do this to me.... and its actually quite upsetting when you take the time to get to know them..... the detail they accused me of been "fake" over, was the fact I was still mulling over the name I wish to be known by when I can finally live full time as a girl.... Too me, this is something that I need to put careful consideration into.... too be sure that its the right name for me.... sure that I can live the rest of my life with that name and that I am happy when I hear my owner and friends call me by my name..

Sufficed to say, after visiting the wonderful couple I just informed you about above.... I have decided on my girls name now... 

Well anyway.... to anyone I have spoken too, Its been nice talking to you, even if its gone no where.... to anyone that I have not responded back to yet.... its because you scared me with either threats of kidnapping (like that is really going to get you a sane girl), or other things that are just a bit too dark to rush into off the bat without learning to trust someone.... 
Well, sufficed to say I am still looking.... Until I find the owner for me I will always be doing so.... I just wish to be the good girl serving and pleasing my owner the best I can... I hold out hope that is out there for me somewhere.