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Girlontheside

Could I be your girl on the side?

Lets find out. http://yourgirlontheside.wordpress.com/

I really do recommend reading at least a few of the blog entries, they are a few months behind real life, but they will give you a sense of who I am. The blog is most useful for people interested in being a Dom to me. I am Domina I am a naturally dominant personality, sometimes even when I don't want to be. I respect intelligence, effort, attention to detail, self-reflection and a creative mind interested in self-discovery. I prefer male subs who are at least 25 years of age, preferably older. You must love curves, breasts and know how to give a good pedicure. You are articulate and have a sense of humour. You will not open your first message to me with how much you want to be fucked up the ass with a dildo. You will instead tell me about who you are as a person and why I should be interested in you. If you do, then I will demand more. I am slutty switch I'm looking for something fun, easy and uncomplicated. In an ideal world we could chat here, meet for a drink, feel that instant "you're cool" find a hotel room and have lots and lots of fun. Then repeat on an as needed / as available basis. I'd like to say I'm daring enough to get into the car and run right over and jump into bed with you... but ... sometimes I need a bit more (sometimes I don't). I really am a "nice" girl. So, there are a few things I need from you to feel comfortable and like having sex with you... Condoms have them on you and plan to wear them, A place to have naked fun and your car does not count, A fun and mature attitude... If you meet those basic requirements, then I'm open to pretty much anything fun. I don't want commitment, strings, or a second husband. I do want someone who I can hook up with frequently or infrequently and both go home in a good mood. I like a someone who has it together. A person who has found the hotel (or has hookup place), picked the room, turned up the music, turned down the lights and has the wine already on ice. I like someone who is down to earth and likes to have fun. I like someone who is comfortable in a suit and flip flops (but not at the same time!), I like a person who is happy with themselves and their life and is looking for just a little bit of spice, I like someone who likes sex but doesn't "need" sex. I am a brat who needs to be put in her place The role of submissive is the role that I most want to play and the one that has escaped me the longest. I have given it the most attention, but still I have not found a master who can tame me. I want to find that freedom in giving up control to another, having someone else led me into sexual exploration I have only begun to imagine. I am a lady in the street and a slut in your bed. With the right master I will talk politics, philosophy and classical music with you and then beg you to fuck me until I can't talk anymore. How will I know when I have found my master / sir / Daddy or Mommy? Women do have an edge, but I have found they are few and far between, if you are a woman and are interested in making me your slut, contact me. If you are a man, I'm sorry fellows but too many men have tried to tame me and you'll have to overcome the obstacles others have set up for you. Some of these may or may not hold, but see them as obstacles and signs I will look for: - I prefer older men, older, like 10-20+ years older.
- You must be able to ride... no really... I know the plumbing gets gummed up in the later years, but if you can't ride... then you... can't... ride.
- I am not a pain slut. I'm not going to be turned on by how many lashings you will give me. It's not that I don't realize that some pain and punishment will be involved but don't use that as an opener.
- I respect power and intelligence. Not power or intelligence. Both. Essential.
- You are confidently in control. When I have a tantrum or don't act the way you want me to that will not threaten you or your control.
- You like a brat, you really really want a bratty girl, it would be absolutely no fun for you to have girl that is naturally submissive, she would be boring and too much of doormat. You crave a challenge, you revel in the challenge of getting a brat to submit.
- You have a really high emotional intelligence. When I can't figure out why something is bothering me, why I'm acting out, why my dominant personality is coming through, this will not threaten you, you will instead be able to use it as a learning opportunity to teach me about my submissive side and how I can nurture her. Still reading? Why don't you send me an e-mail.
6/27/2011 7:22:29 PM

Note: I am NOT off the market, despite what my blog says, to keep things private my blog is about 2-3 months behind my real life.

9/1/2010 4:47:23 PM
here is my blog entry on what I'm looking for in hamilton: http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/2010/09/01/heading-to-hammertown-looking-to-get-pounded/
9/1/2010 4:27:13 PM
Heading out to Hamilton, looking for some fun to entertain me post meeting during rush hour. 
8/31/2010 3:51:03 PM
Back, mostly recovered. 
8/10/2010 7:13:33 PM
I have broken myself, in the literal sense, not due to any sexual activity, just my own uncoordinated self. I may not be active on this site for awhile, I certainly will not be setting up meetings in the next few weeks. 
8/4/2010 4:32:41 PM
Wondering if it would be out of line to run outside in only my panties to get a popsicle from the ice cream truck ringing under my window. 
8/3/2010 1:32:41 PM
Will give head for use of private pool. Other negotiations for pool acceptable. :P (This heat wave is killing me!)
6/14/2010 7:17:52 PM
Best collarme.com intro note I have received yet:

"Good Evening would you care to trade some e-mails on here and get to know each other and see where that may lead?"
6/11/2010 2:57:27 PM
I have come to the conclusion that I am a slut, not a sub. I make no apologies for this -- because I enjoy being a slut, and since I'm not a sub I give up trying to be submissive.

Profile to be updated shortly.
6/9/2010 11:21:37 AM
Looking for a hookup in London (Ontario).. again! www.yourgirlinoneyear/wordpress.com
11/13/2009 3:40:46 PM
Apparently men like a slut. Go figure! So the challenge for tonight is to find a hook up by 9 p.m. Seeing as the search for London tomorrow is not off to a roaring start I have my doubts. http://bit.ly/3vA0nR e-mail me if interested. 
11/12/2009 3:30:18 AM
I will be in London (Ontario) this Saturday night (Nov 14, 2009) with a hotel room all to myself. Anyone want to play? If so, go find my e-mail on my blog and e-mail me, I likely won't be checking this site too much before I leave.
10/14/2009 3:44:50 AM
This site is being terribly slow. If you are interested in contacting me you can find my e-mail on my blog, or I am under the same name on the .com site. I will be checking in here maybe once a week. 
9/30/2009 3:08:39 PM
Breaks from this site are necessary for sanity and regular life. If you've been e-mailing me you will have heard from me sooner. Thanks to those who have. Your words of kindness and encouragement prompt me to continue my search. 
9/16/2009 3:44:17 PM
A couple of hints. Your Girl does have a blog that tells much about Your Girl. No, you don't "have" to go to the effort of reading it, but those who do get much better responses from me and we're not going over the same things over and over and over and boring us both silly. Your Girl also has an e-mail address on her blog that she can check during the day. Just some thoughts. 
9/10/2009 3:52:37 AM
Late night tonight, will need to get back to folks in a few days as the weekend may gobble up most of my online time. Always easier to reach me by e-mail. You can find that on my blog. 
9/9/2009 4:44:41 PM
9/8/2009 2:16:26 PM
Just getting back from vacation, looking forward to reading your messages!
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 Age: 25
 Servonia, Italia