You want to know what I'm looking for?

I'm very intense and I want someone who wants someone like that.

I want to feel possessive and controlling over someone...the problem is, I'm not a power domme.

I want them to feel that way without having to beat them into it.

I want my presence alone to command it.

Vanilla men usually wilt at my dominance...but I like men and I don't want them to wilt.

I want them to shudder and want to please me.

I feel compelled to communicate this due to recent issues.

I am very possessive. I am a Leo Alpha Female. If you do not want to feel that a woman is in possession of at least some aspect of you or your sexuality, then perhaps I am not the person for you. I like to feel a sort of connection and 'ownership' of at least some part of you, with your consent of course. I also like knowing that someone feels or wants to feel that way about me, or in the very least is flattered and turned on by my desire for them.

Fanning the flames of my desire and then leaving me cold, or acting shocked by my attention is the fasted way you can earn a ticket straight to fuck-you town.

I am here to feel like someone is mine and I am theirs and that what we want to make, we want to make together.

If you can't wrap your head around this, you can't wrap anything around me.

My ideal guy is thinking about me 24/7. He tries to think of ways to help me, make me smile, what would she like, how can i help, what can I do? That's what he's thinking...

He pics me up from work, he takes me here and there. He wants to both please me and protect me.

He loves art and pinches himself daily that he found a real live artist to care for and help. That she's beautiful, sexy, smart, and has a high libido is just more proof that she is a perfect feminine being, even with all her flaws. He is so happy to have found me and tries so hard to make my difficult life easier, tries hard to sooth my over-worked mind. He sees how hard I have to work and he only wants to make it better. He is always thinking of ways to help me and further my goals. He loves my mind and my pursuits and is perfectly content, grateful even, that someone doing what I am doing exists, and that I have chosen him to be my intimate partner.