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| Hello Collarme Fiends!
It is my great pleasure to join this exclusive society and become a part of its avant-garde, hedonistic collective. I am not a huge fan of written introductions as they are inevitably stilted and tacky, but in the interest of compliance, here it goes...
I am in my late 20's, athletically minded, erudite, and all over the map as far as my hobbies and interests are concerned. I divide my time between my fairly demanding white collar job and leisure activities such as sports, reading, socializing, traveling, etc. I closely follow the developments in the world of science and I have the deepest respect for the people who truly make this world turn.
On a lighter note, I am here in pursuit of far more primal interests. I would say that my cognizant interest in BDSM is fairly recent, but the roots of it have been with me for a long time, perhaps even since childhood. Suffice to say that my first semi-sexual experience occurred when I was about 11 years old, during some sort of cops and robbers game with a bunch of my neighborhood friends. This very cute girl older than me by about two years, whom I had a crush on, was a very willing damsel in distress, tied to a tree, and I of course was one of her captors. Looking at her, then and there, sent a strong impulse down my spine, one that I haven't known before. I took advantage of a precariously short moment when nobody was around and approached her with a mischievous smile on my face. I ran my finger from her exposed midriff (she was wearing a rather revealing tank top) upwards between her breasts, caressing her neck and chin, and stopping just short of her lips. She looked at me with an expression that I only years later, in hindsight, recognized as sexual excitement. Nothing more happened on that day (give me a break, I was a clueless kid), but some invisible seed was planted.
It is a different time and different day today and I carry the experience of more than a decade, but I think that little kid, full of wonder and gleeful excitement about the "forbidden" promises of life, will forever reside within me. I am perpetually excited about meeting people and I am notoriously fascinated by women. I love their refinement and the sublime skills of reading people like a book. Women pose a challenge, an utmost intellectual (not to mention carnal) stimulation, they entice a man to grow as a human being. Perhaps this is why I am interested in BDSM. The sharp contrast between everyday social norms and the hidden pleasures of the bedroom can be tantalizing. The transition of a proud, sexy, intelligent woman into a submissive girl begging to be taken.
I believe that BDSM is a high concept form of controlled aggression. An exhortation of primal urges that reside within every hot blooded human being. From a man's point of view, there can be nothing more enticing than having a naked girl, tied to a bed, and helpless to oppose being taken advantage of. This is of course a very small subset of the overall spectrum of relationships, but it needs to be understood that male sexuality is a powerful monster that narrows down the perspective down to the minutiae details achievable only in the long run. Hence the frequent TMI, honesty and bluntness that men often display and women perceive as excessive.
A relationship between two rational, but complex human beings is always a challenge. It requires serious effort and persistence in order to persevere. I consider it among the utmost virtues for people to don't give up on others easily and instead make an effort to extricate their most positive qualities. This is something that I will strive to do for you and I hope that you will respond in kind.
Regards,
GirlBinder
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