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I loathe this part. It seems that I, like most people, only want to talk about myself when no one wants to hear about me. So naturally I go completely blank right now, or on those old dreaded college application essays, or, even worse, the "tell us your best and worst trait" question in a job interview. However, I have no problem waxing poetic on the current political climate in this country, after a scotch or two. Go figure.
So about me: 33, slim/athletic. I live to read and write. My reading tastes tend to lean towards literature and high-end nonfiction. Love music. All over the board, but you will find very little modern mainstream music on (in?) my iTunes. I also love film. Again, my tastes lean towards drama, foreign, art house, documentaries. One exception would be comedies. I love a good comedy, and it doesn't have to be highbrow. But you won't see me watching rom-coms or "things go boom" movies. I don't own a tv, but I am not one of those anti-television extremists. When it was time to buy a new one I realized that my life did not suffer when I lacked access to television, so I saved the money. I do, however, watch every single episode of 30 Rock the minute it is posted online. I am very much a student of history and politics, but it seems with every passing day I question the need to be involved in politics. You may be noticing a trend here: I'm a bit of a nerd. I balance out with some sports. I love good food. I'm trying to learn how to prepare it, as opposed to just hitting restaurants.
I am a Dom, with what I would describe as a reasonable, but not massively extensive, amount of experience. I suppose I could throw out some amateur philosophy and try to say that no one is really experienced and we are learning every day and blah, blah, BLAH. I recognize that through years spent in this lifestyle or amount of time dedicated, there are some people here who are true experts. I've been around the block, but I'm not at their level. Yet.
I suppose the "interests" section is a reasonable approximation of my fetishes. I should state here: no kids and animals. That should be a given for everyone. For me: no scat or blood. I've been in arguments where people have stated "there are safe ways to indulge...". Fine. I have absolutely no interests in them, and will never have anything to do with them. That should be clear enough. As far as your limits, I will respect them. You should be willing to have them pushed and possibly broken. I will always work with you in that regard. If your limits are too conservative for me, and you are not willing to stretch them, then we can part ways amicably. No hard feelings.
I seek 24/7, TPE. However, for me, this has different connotations depending on the two people involved. The fact is that the real world plays a part in this, and most likely always will. So discretion will play a major part in our outside life. Also, I like going to dinner, discussing current events, books, films. I want someone who is intellectually stimulating, who can challenge the way I approach life, and I hope to play the same role for them. If you don't see how you can be a 24/7 slave, or sub, and still live an outside life and have a deep connection and thoughtful interaction with your Master, then chances are we won't be a good match.
I like to initially see how we match up in a non-BDSM sense. It means a lot to me. After that, I like to establish how "real" you are, and gauge how quickly you can move forward. I like to keep moving forward, but, I don't want to rush things. It's a sensitive balance. I will have pics, but I most likely won't post a face pic here. Anyone who reads journals/newspapers/magazines knows that the internet is still very much a slippery slope, and our lifestyle can close a lot of doors in society if exposed. Better to play it safe. I don't want x-rated pics from you, and you won't be getting them from me. Also, webcam does NOTHING for me. I have absolutely no clue what "online domination" means. It seems like porn with a hint of interaction. The only thing porn is good for is new ideas/techniques. Watching someone on my computer do things to themselves on command is not my thing.
No more typing. Maybe more later.
Cheers.
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