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| I am a married and openly Poly. We have no D/s dynamic per se between us and do not play with others together.
I have a secondary relationship with a wonderful bi submissive woman who wears my collar. She and I would like to find a compatible lady to play with together at times, and to otherwise be in a relationship with her.
I am active on Fetlife as well as here and can be looked up there under the same name.
I am technically a Switch. I'd say about 70-30 leaning to the D-side. I consider myself more of a "Service Top" because I am not a Sadist and don't necessarily get off on inflicting pain, nor do I desire to completely "control" anyone outside of bedroom situations. I Switch primarily because I believe one shouldn't dish out what one cannot take, and I like the endorphin rush of testing myself the same way I like spicy food. I have never been submissive/servile in a sexual sense and only Bottom'd a handful of times and there is some curiosity there. Primarily, however I like a submissive but NOT sycophantic woman, who is interested in pleasing and serving to a certain extent but not weak and spineless.
I am a gentleman, especially when Dominant.. and a lady is always a LADY to me and to be treated with affection and respect, even when also being treated like a dirty whore or a bad little girl or whatever else she may also be.
I am a drummer, and into a variety of music from Blues to Punk. I am a martial artist as well, having studied Kendo, Shaolin Dragon-style Kung Fu, Aikido and Shorin-ryu karate. I also like to incorporate these two hobbies into my Topping style, happily playing bongo solos on asses and repurposing weapons into sex toys.
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is this thing on?
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