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Are you looking to serve? Do you wish to please? Do you want to learn about yourself thru the mindset of Domination and Submission? Can you take instruction and work independently.? Would you lovingly learn all about your Mistress and her desires? I am seeking a submissive or slave of any gender or orientation. This will function as a power exchange relationship and not one of a sexual nature unless service and trust lead to such. Experiences and references appreciated. I am a 48 year old woman. In some cases I am a bottom/submissive, other times I am a strict but loving Mistress. I have been in and around the lifestyle since my early 20's'. I am looking for friends, play partners, and events.
. I love being beaten and flogged on a cross to the point that my wrist restraints are the only thing holding me up and I must have help getting down safely. When I am on a cross I particularly like floggers. I think now spanking is my favorite thing--sometimes restrained, sometimes not. I have this fabulous leather belt that I have a love/hate relationship with. It hurts like hell but I love the bruises it leaves. A fairly new wooden paddle also leaves nice marks. I especially like playing in public whether it is a small group or a very large one. I love to be watched and bask in the comments and compliments I get from onlookers. I don't feel particularly sexy in normal day to day activities but fuck me in front of other people or tie me up and beat me and I feel like the sexist woman alive. For those who are interested in getting to know the vanilla me: I have worked in academia, in pathology, and volunteering with the homeless, and in radical mental health. I am also passionate about medicinal marijuana legislation, health care reform, prison reform, women's rights, GLBTQ rights, economic justice and a living wage. I am always looking for new people to meet and new activities to participate in. Politically I relate to both anarchy and socialism. <If you want to talk politics, I'm all for Bernie> I am extremely emphatic , a good counselor, and a good listener. I am a good with group facilitation, leadership and teaching. I am considering going back into the counseling business. (GLBT, BDSM, Poly friendly) I have a vast book collection and am an avid reader. In fiction I enjoy, Julia Parker Rhodes, Anne Rice, Dan Brown,Charlene Harris, and Stephanie Meyer. In Non-fiction I enjoy Robert Whitaker, Peter Breggin, Robert Anton Wilson, Peter J. Carroll, Peter Gilmore, Brad Blanton. And many more... I have studied many religions and magick paradigms. Catholicism and Voodoo are quite interesting, but I mostly resonate with Chaos Magick and Sex Magick. The energy from receiving pain can be quite magical if one learns to focus correctly. I do not consider myself either pagan or religious. My favorite movies include Dawn of the Planet of the Apes, Rise of the Planet of the Apes, Opium, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo Trilogy, The Season of the Witch, Witchville, Skeleton Key, Feast of All Saints, The Wicker Man, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, Dominion, The Exorcist, What The Bleep Do We Know, A Beautiful Mind, Indigo, the Twilight series, The Hunger Games series, The Devils Reject. The best movie I've seen in a long time is Dead Pool. I absolutely love this character. See I like it because he becomes a super hero as a result of being cured of cancer. Shortly after the movie came out I learned that my partner had terminal cancer. We both loved the movie and were looking forward to the sequel in 2018. My favorite TV shows are American Horror, Orange is the New Black and True Blood.-- I read the Sookie Stackhouse books the show was based upon. I also read 50 Shades of Grey in preparation for seeing the parody stage show. The book seemed written for a teenage audience but the play was absolutely hilarious. Now I am reading Anne Rice's most recent book "Prince Lestat" and the 4th book in her Sleeping Beauty series "Beauty's Kingdom" Animation that I like includes South Park, Futurama, Family Guy, The Cleveland Show, King of the Hill, American Dad, The Simpsons, Moral Oral, Border Town, Kevin Spencer Other TV Shows I love are The Daily Show, The Late Show, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Weeds, Big Love, and Wentworth. Musically I am an Amanda Palmer freak. Her early music is Punk Cabaret. I like everything she did with the Dresden Dolls: including A is for Accident, Yes, Virginia, and No Virginia and also her duet with Jason Weatherby called Evelyn Evelyn. She toured Asheville with her solo album Who Killed Amanda Palmer and it was the best show I've seen at the Orange Peel. Her DVD's of shows in London are fabulous. She just released a wonderful book entitled "The Art of Asking or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help."
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 Age: 30
 Wilmington, North Carolina