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I am a Top that did My apprenticeship in the late 70's, with a Master of the European Old School, in the BDSM community of the time in Victoria, BC. This means there is a level of protocol and etiquette to be followed by the lady with me. I still enjoy the opportunity to learn more today, and take various educational sessions to update and improve my knowledge. Im looking for a submissive who is either willing to be trained to high standards, or has perhaps had a good start in the ways of a strict disciplinarian Master. I desire a girl that can be in total control while in the vanilla but knows exactly her position in our private lifestyle. she will have the desire to be beside Me...not under My feet nor dragged along behind.
As I enjoy rope alot, I have a preference for long hair, shoulder length works too. This sub will be open to any task I give her, respectful questioning for clarity is ok.
As I do believe in the Safe, Sane and Concensual philosophy, time will be spent to discuss likes/dislikes and getting a clear picture of this submisses desires before ever persueing real play. I will spend the time to earn your trust and respect as you gain Mine through honest and open communication.
Im active in many facets of both the BDSM and vanilla communities, so this lady needs to be very adaptable. Known to be strict and formal to many, plus bluntly honest at times... Im comfortable with displays of public affection and even total unbridled foolessness. It should be understood that, should it become clear that the relationship is going forward, I have a dress code and that TPE has always been apart of my relationships.
It is also important to Me that the relationship have a solid foundation of friendship, communication & honesty...this will promote the give and take of real trust/respect in one another. As I have a dry British sense of humour, it wouldnt hurt for her to have a good one too. Im not opposed to 'brats', sometimes relish the challenge.
I should add that the physical first impressions of someone is something to consider in the beginning, but the mental connection can definitely override the physical on occasion. However, I truly believe, you will never get to that point without a certain amount of both physical attraction and 'chemistry' in the beginning. Only in my opinion, that physical size and fitness is a good sign of ones desire to create physical attraction.
------------ end ideal person -------------- In a nutshell, Im looking for a Victorian style submissive with a cowgirls streak of independence and adventure, along with a serious desire to be apart of my world. Distance should also not be a factor as a worthwhile submissive may have to come from afar.
Recently I have been approached by several novice Tops and bottoms seeking my advice and guidance, based on my background and experience. I am flatter by this and because this lifestyle means so much too me, I will work with those that show a sincere desire and in no uncertain terms, they are prepared to undertake all that is required of them. I will no longer give the time and effort to the unfocused player.
Drop Me a line if you think this tweeks your interest.....I do, in respect, reply to all inquiries.
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I am finding it very interesting how many new bottoms are seeking instruction in the ways of Old School. Presently have three awesome students and another that may be of personal interest. The opperative word there is may.
It is good to see the true lifestyle growing. |
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Im finding these changes I spoke of to my way of doing things are proving worth the effort. They have not changed my desire and respect for the lifestyle, just my way of application.
This change has also seemed to stir the interest of a bottom or two....and I thank you for that, at least I know my notes do get read.
I am open to a bottom relocating to me, but know there will be alot of chat and perhaps a visit or two before that happens....but again thank you for asking. |
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There are some changes in my world....for the better I hope. Lately in my real world, I have had to have surgery and met several ladies that at first did appear to be seeking training. A couple were even of interest too me, but it seems my background and eagerness to help them into the lifestyle had the wrong effect.
This has given me cause to re-evaluate what and how I was trained myself aways back...and with the cherished input of some I respect, see that there are some points and things that did need to be rearranged and even god forbid, updated.
I know that those I have trained in the past are still happy with their present situations and wish them all the best. I deeply regret the missed opportunities of late, they will never come again. And will be putting into practice the terms and knowledge Im now reviewing and studying
be well and safe |
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And so more time has transpired with time being spent training girls on the basics for Others....yet still not one for I There are supposedly many on this site interested in relocation...but Im finding that when the facts come out it is actually far from their thoughts I have started My search in the vanilla sites now as while I may end up with a very novice girl....she will also be very interested in actually learning to live the lifestyle to its fullest.....onward the adventure continues |
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It has been a very longtime since I have made an entry here....a sign to Ssome that I may have found that girl....well at times signs can be misleading
I have had the fortunate opportunity to have met one or two girls that have displayed incredible 'value' to any Top with similar background as Mine...due to circumstances though a long future (collar) was not there. Well onward I go......cheers |
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Well onward I go....the last just didnt work out. There is one thing that is really starting to get on My goat and that is how some girls profess to have some to lots of knowledge of the lifestyle, yet cant find the time to reply to a polite email. Im sympathetic to the crap they have to filter through from the wannabe and just ignorant.... shaking My head...it is just plain annoying for One that has a true history. |
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Things seem to be so quiet again.....yet still My search continues, though I do have one that Im looking at quite seriously...... |
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A wonderful girl just wrote Me the most polite note to indicate to Me that I should find a spell checker on this site...lol
Thank you krista....the word is indeed
etiquette. |
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Im still amazed at the tremendous number of really great emails O/one gets in this sight....in the last 4 months here Ive gotten as many or more than I have in six years in that other site. Still havnt collared the 'one' yet...but I know Im much closer.
The one common thing I have noticed though is that M/many do not reply to enquiries....I realize that this is tough to do when the note is rude, vulgar or without any true ediquette...but the ones that are properly written... makes Me sad for the lack of respect towards the foundation of this Lifestyle and the training that M/many have gone through.
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It has been shown to Me by a very respectful one that I should point out that I was not meaning to infer that one keeping back her weight info was dishonest.....that isnt what I was trying to get across...just the lack of openess I guess. One other thing has also occured to Me..*s*...My profile is getting read quite often. Thankyou |
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wellllllll...that put the fox among the chickens! funny how E/everyone speaks of being so totally honest with O/one another and yet when faced with a truth or a blunt honest opinion...so many take offence....*shaking His head*
I was actually thinking out loud in that comment...but what the heck...if it helps some that have a hard time with the truth. So be it.
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Ive come to notice another part of searching for a girl is that those that are well above average in weight wont say a word....where as the girls that are not BBW are most happy to give all their physical info.....I guess it is a difference in self esteem achieved by really taking care of yourself. |
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Well it has been about a month in this site....Im glad that it was recommended to Me...Ive found great chat in the rooms and terrific number of girls that interest this One.
Im still amazed though by the number of girls that dont reply to a polite yet inquisitive note....seems those that are crass or rude out number Ones like I and hence I get deleted without being read.
Im also in real appreciation to the number of girls taht are open to re-locating.
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