I am handsome by general acceptance, a non-intimidating gentle sadist who enjoys titillating his special lover at her home. Quite a decent chap, kinky and voyeuristic, not typical. Grew up in Europe (details to follow). Never use foul language, words of love instead. I am respectful: if you don't take it in the ass, I will not insist. Very long hair that need be braided. I know that the freedom we feel is to be who you are without inhibitions. And, why not, a little masquerading as you would at a Halloween party. Seeking one independent, fun loving, sensual lady who is a sincere masochist, a mature lady who wants to break from the routine. E-mail exchanges and pictures should provide the basis for mutual understanding. Physical appearance is important: be pretty, with power thighs and small ankles, acres of skin. Heavy breasts are wonderful. I will ask you to use lipstick, mascara and rouge when we go out.