Consider expressing and realizing your dream of submission with me.

Are you seeking a Dom uses quality communications skills as part of DS
exploration?

Are you seeking a Dom who doesn't think communication is "Topping from
the bottom" or that having boundaries, concerns, and desires makes
you "not submissive"?

Are you looking for a man who seeks to inspire submission rather than
simply demanding it?

Are you seeking a Dom who isn't looking for sex on the first date, but
instead is wants to get to know about you and let you know about him?
Are you seeking to submit with someone worthy of your trust, a man who
is a Gentleman as well as a Dom and Master?

Are you looking for a Dom who has the skills, experience and equipment to take you deeply into headspace while creating a supportive ongoing relationship?
If you long to submit to a man who is Dominant but still listens to you, focuses on you and makes you feel important and cared for.
If that is what you seek please write me and lets see if we are compatible and interested in getting to know each other better.

I am looking for one woman to express and experience Ds and Sm with in an ongoing relationship. I am looking for a woman that wants to explore the `physical as well as physiological sides of the scene. I am a creative sadist as well as a Dom, but my pleasure comes from the ability of my partner to be responsive to sensation, not take endless amounts of it.

In the past I have been able to bring out the best in those I have explored with.

I enjoy getting to know people and sharing and learning more about people’s individual take on Ds and SM. I am in a transition time in my life and know that Ds and Sm are an important part of my self discovery as well as offering me hell of a lot of pleasure.

I am seeking a woman to explore with. Someone to develop an ongoing Ds and sm relationship with, and also friendship built on mutual respect, someone with whom I can enjoy spending time.

In the past I have been able to bring out the best in those I have explored with.

I am 41 years old and started being active in the Sm community over ten years ago. I am respected local SM Community, and have given seminars and training on topics ranging from “Safety and Communication” to “Creative Play”. I have not been active lately and am staring to go to events again.

Spirituality is very important to me, but convincing others about it is not of any interest to me, and love books by Wayne Dyer, Wayne Muller, Rumi and Caroline Myss among others. I have been seriously studying the philosophy presented in the film "The Secret" for over 5 years.

I enjoy consensual sadism and creative scenes. I also enjoy the simple pleasures of bondage and flogging. I love to train submissives and have a knack for helping people early in their exploration. I know that each person I explore with is different, with different needs limits, and desires.

I am happily married and my wife, while not into the scene, fully supports my explorations. I am open and honest and don't need to hide who I am. I realize that this may be a limit for many and I respect that.

There can be no transforming of darkness into light and of apathy into movement without emotion.
Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)