Have you been looking for a Dom and found here mostly:
1) Men who misrepresent their complete lack of experience?
2) Married men parading as other?
3) Doms unwilling to meet in public or unwilling to disclose their identity or references
4) Complete, wannabe flakes?
It is not so different for a guy looking to find an authentic slave/submissive.
I've been in the lifestyle for many years now and am fairly well known in the local and regional community. That would not necessarily make me a good Dom or lover for you. Of course, chemistry is ideal, but trust is essential, especially for a woman who may put her heart and life into the hands of another. A credible history can be fundamental to developing trust.
Frankly, I though that my interest had peaked and was waning, and then last week I stepped into the legendary Mr. S Leather inSan Francisco. Leather men provide a whole new candy emporium to heterosexuals.
Single, while I do have friends and partners of various levels of involvement--that available, loving, tender, giving, submissive... massochist woman, without a competing agenda for the time that we are together, has not yet availed herself. "Domination" does not give one the right to forcefully take what one does not first offer.
Do not use your submission as an excuse not to initiate contact here. Relationships take more than pixie dust to initiate.
4/14/2012 6:34:15 PM
Going to party in Elsinore tonight. Will be nice, relaxing time with old friends, new friends, and the hot tub.
