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We are an experienced couple tired of the public scene games and pressure to conform in a lifestyle which preaches non-conformity. Tired of the Dominants playing the ego-trips and the submissives fighting over the place of "biggest pain slut".
Both are happy being who they are, and feel no need to prove themselves to the rest of the community. Respect is earned, not preached.
She practically grew up in the lifestyle. Having discovered and been formally trained and mentored as both Slave and Domina.
She is a pyschological lifestyler more than an abusive 'bitch Domina'. Though she highly enjoys both aspects. She prefers to see a smile of absolute contentment, rather than a cringing of fear. But don't be under false impressions, she can be extremely strict and likes ritual. Serving, behaviour modification, and proper protocol are her strong suits. She has often been asked to train for other Dominants, but flatly refuses to do so any longer. She wishes a loved one to share, with her loved one. And all of her efforts will go into working with that ONE special someone.
She publishes written informationals on the lifestyle and runs her own community. He happily supports her and loves her as they learn, and teach together.

He happily became aware of the lifestyle 6 years ago. Both of us have been active in both the private and public aspect of the lifestyle. While He puts heavy emphasis on psychological Dominance He also enjoys the more physical aspects of BDSM. A good balance.

We consider ourselves to be more of parental type Dominants, if a label has to be placed. We place more importance on love, friendship, open-ness and cherishing which is shared between loving partners, far more than whip marks across a submissives ass. We place far more value in a kind word, and praise for a job well done than fear and intimidation. The worst punishment for one who is truly submissive should be to hear the words "I am disappointed in you.".
We would rather you sit on pins and needles wondering when we will walk by and softly stroke your hair, rather than when we'll walk by and swat your ass. Though that may happen from time to time as well. ;)
We know the heavy difference between what is fantasy and what is reality. What works in real-life and what does not.
What we offer is a relationship, a friendship, companionship AND lifestyle. It is a mixture, a balance.

Eventually we would like to find one who either lives within our household and becomes a part of it, or one who lives near and still feels as they are a part of our family.

If any of this interests you, please do contact us. Finding one who is looking for couples is extremely difficult. We do not wish to seem the trolling couple and so we take a hands-off approach. Contacting us does NOT mean we are going to hit on you, pressure you, or try to jump into anything.
There are foundations to be built, and there's plenty of time to do so.

We have no games to play, we have no dishonesty, we both value honor in a time where honor seems to be a forgotten trait.

Sincerely,
GD