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GentleDom4lady

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Hello, welcome to my profile. It is slightly long, but please take the time to look, it will give you a better idea about whether we may be a match. This page will undoubtedly evolve and hopefully become more concise with time :)

To get the basics out of the way. I'm a 30 yo male in central Michigan. I'm sane, kind, friendly and honest. I'm currently single and potentially looking to form a long term relationship with the right person. I am primarily looking for women of a similar age to myself, although I'd consider all ages. It sounds cliche, but age and appearance are genuinely of far less importance to me than your personality and nature and our chemistry together.

Who am I looking for? That's hard to say, but I will know when I find you. To give you an idea: My ideal woman would be a kind, caring and loving person. You would be considerate and willing to do anything (within reason) for your man. Maybe you seek someone to look after, care for, cherish and love you. Perhaps you enjoy kissing as much as a spanking, cuddling as much as bondage and feel as much pride walking at my side as you do kneeling at my feet. Also, sweet and geeky girls are definitely welcome :)

This is a new profile, but I have been on CM before. In my experience, there are different sorts of Doms and subs/slaves on this site. There are also a lot of people who are far to quick to judge others -I am not one of these and aim to be polite and considerate of everyone's desires and kinks (even if it is not something I am interested in, I'm happy to discus it). Hopefully this page will give you an idea of my interests, the sort of person I am hoping to find and my philosophy concerning bdsm. However, this is (of course) not comprehensive or perfect, so questions are very welcome (and encouraged).

I am not the most experienced or extreme Dom on here. If you are looking to move straight in to a serious 24/7 slave situation, then I doubt I am for you. I do not own a dungeon (although maybe one day :) and I wouldn't consider myself a sadist (while I do enjoy a level of punishment, particularly spankings, I don't enjoy inflicting pain for the sake of it).

I am very in to the mental side of dominance and submission. My perfect submissive would obey me out of fear of disappointing me, rather than fear of reprisals. I am a BIG believer in Dom-sub relationships being primarily based around trust and affection. This is why I am looking for long term play/relationships. Furthermore, that trust needs to come from the submissive. Therefore, you define the speed at which we progress. This way we can develop a healthy dynamic, explore our desires and kinks and push your limits -without fear of doing something you are uncomfortable with.

When it comes to my interests, you can read them on the side. I am interested in exploring many different things and willing to at least try most things. I am a lover of bondage in pretty much all of its forms. I enjoy the use of restraints for long periods and stricter bondage for short play sessions. I have a real interest in rope bondage, but little experience with this and I would love to find someone to practice this on. I'm also very interested in slave training (and possibly pet training). I would also consider myself a fetishist. I love fine lingerie, corsets, leather and latex and stiletto heels and boots. So similar interests would be a bonus.

The serious bits, which I feel are important to state. Things I am not interested in include (obviously?) anything illegal, anything I consider unsafe or things which could cause permanent harm. I also have no interest in anything which involves blood, it is a complete turn off for me. Obviously all limits will be respected and traffic light safe words will always be used. Communication is very important, I will always encourage you to (respectfully) voice your opinions.

Finally, I have also listed an interest in couples and TVs/CDs -I am poentially interested in both, but primarily only for mutual fun play/ friendship.
9/18/2011 11:42:21 AM

Have collared my sub :)

12/30/2010 5:07:56 PM

Just to clarify, I am very happy to converse with anyone on here. However, if I have never spoken with you or met you, I am not your Master. You have not earned the right to call me that and I have not earned the right to have you call me it. Maybe one day, but for now -simply be polite and respectful in your messages and you will receive the same in return.

yeboahangela
 
 Age: 19
 Tucson, Arizona