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GentleCaringDom

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A caring Dom who is all about providing pleasure. An excellent teacher and mentor and very patient with new learners. Do you have a yearning to try your sensuous needs with an experienced safe Dom? Do you want to learn the pleasures you've dreamed about? Spanking? Anal sex? Restraints? Climax control? Blindfolds? Multiple orgasms, always a goal? Do you have the need to feel safe and secure while exploring new activities? Let's communicate and explore our mutual interests. Once we've established mutual needs/interests then we can discuss meeting in person. I insist on the first meeting being in a secure public place of your choosing. It is all about your pleasure and you feeling comfortable. Safe calls, etc., are encouraged. Your decision. Your pleasure is important to me. Let's communicate to start you on your journey of exploring erotic sensuous kinky pleasure. :) Please don't be misled by my nickname GentleCaringDom - I am very firm, but definitely not mean spirited. My goal is to provide whatever level of firmness is required by you to provide the level of pleasure that you wish. I know that pleasure is not a one size fits all kind of thing so I strive to adjust my approach to fit the needs/desires of the individual person. My nickname was created to convey that but the "Gentle" part may be somewhat misleading, so I wanted to clarify that point. I am "gentle" in that I am definitely NOT a sadist with a mean spirited one size fits all mentality. My primary goal is providing pleasure, not hurting someone. � I am a caring�DOM who believes in safe, sane and consensual!! Very fit and exercises regularly. I insist on the use of safe words and agreeing up front on what the limits are. Practices controlled D/s activities - nothing in the extreme.�Firm and demanding in play but never mean and always fair. Nothing disfiguring. No blood. Nothing debilitating. No scaring. No scat. No kids. No animals.� Lots of foreplay and multiple orgasms for my partner in long play sessions. I am a dominant not a sadist.�For the right circumstances I can definitely be a daddy Dom but only for a "little girl" submissive.�Very well educated and retired executive while very down to earth. � Particularly appreciative of the gift that a submissive is giving while at the same time proud of the gift that I am giving. It should be a win/win situation. For anyone who is inexperienced, I am a patient teacher.� � I know who I am and that you will feel safe and comfortable with me, but that first meeting must at least start in a public place of your choosing. � � LET'S GET ACQUAINTED SOON. The 10 Kink Commandments:
1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. One must always be respectful of your partner’s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open-mind.
4. Always be polite and ask questions.
5. Do not touch anyone else’s equipment without permission.
6. We always must be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We will always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect one another’s anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. And Most importantly, don’t forget to have a good time. If you agree with these statements, repost them in your profile.----
littlelotusgirl
 
 Age: 18
  California