Great time last night with MsE and her new boy! Neck still sore from full night in cage :)

I’m looking for a special woman.  I don’t want to come across as superficial, but alas, I feel superficial.

I’m looking for a leader to match my submissiveness.

I’m looking for someone who is physically attractive and active to match my fitness (I’m not Adonis, but I try to keep my BMI within reason).

I’m looking for someone who can navigate social circles outside of munches and the Citadel since I run in a professional and social circle in San Francisco that I want to maintain (after all, the more money I make, the more comfortable your life will be).

I’m looking for someone who is smarter than me (that means pretty smart and well-informed.).  I’m into education – big time.  The more powerful your degree, the more submissive I will be before you.

Are you out there?

How to Create a Comfortable Home for Your Wife

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before to have a delicious meal ready, on time for her return. This is a way of letting her know that you have been thinking about her and are concerned about her needs. She’s probably hungry by the time she gets home and the prospect of a good meal (especially her favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when she arrives. Touch up your make-up (if you wear makeup), put a ribbon in your hair, some perfume she likes you to wear, clean fresh clothing that’s attractive to her, and be fresh-looking. She has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a light, fun, and a little more interesting for her. Her day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the house just before your Wife arrives.

Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc. and then run a dust-cloth over the tables.

Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for her to unwind by. Your Wife will feel she has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for her comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and she would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of her arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.

Be happy and delighted to see her. Strive to please her, anticipate her needs and wants, she is your superior.

Greet her with a warm smile; greet her as she has trained you, showing sincerity in your desire to please her and your joy at being near her. She’s worked hard all day and a friendly face is much appreciated!

Listen to her. You may have a dozen important things to tell her, but the moment of her arrival is not the time. Let her talk first - remember her topics of conversation are more important than yours.  Be submissive to her and her guests.  Show respect and deference.

Make the evening hers. Never complain if she comes home late or goes out to dinner, or out on a date, with friends or other places of entertainment without you.  Instead, try to understand her world of strain and pressure, her desires as a woman or her need to be at home and relax.

Your goal: Try to make sure her home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your Wife can renew herself in body and spirit.

Don't greet her with complaints and problems. Listen to her and don’t offer to fix problems unless she asks, support her feelings emotionally, be understanding and always leave no doubt in her mind, she leads, you humbly follow.

Make her comfortable. Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for her.

Don't ask her questions about her actions or question her judgment or integrity. Her life is her own, you are there to support her and make her life more pleasant. Remember she is the master of the house. 

Traits of Good Hubby (modified from the South Florida ClubFEM site)

A hubby is Trustworthy

A hubby always tells his Woman the truth. He is honest about his feelings, admits all his secrets, errors and wrong-doings and he keeps his promises. His Woman can depend on him.

A hubby is Loyal

The perfect hubby is true to his Woman, and serves only her or those she instructs him to serve. When a man pledges to honor, love and obey Her, one tenant of this convent is to remain sexually and emotionally loyal to her. All of his works and efforts belong to her, and the best form of chastity is a male's solemn pledge to obey her in this manner.

A hubby is Hardworking

A hubby cares most about his Woman's needs. He willingly volunteers to serve her without expecting payment or reward. Always thinking of her comfort, he works hard to present his Woman with his earnings, to keep her home clean and her life stress-free.

A hubby is Thoughtful

A hubby always tries to find ways to pleasantly surprise his Woman and to anticipate her needs. He does not need to be constantly bossed around to do what is expected of him. He constantly seeks to improve his skill range to please his Woman, such as cooking, massaging and body care, anything which will serve to make her life easier.

A hubby is Submissive

A hubby is polite to everyone regardless of age or position. He knows that using good manners reflects his Woman since he is the shadow of Her. She is the guiding light in his life and his sole purpose is to serve Her needs.

A hubby is Kind

A hubby is kind to all living beings.  A hubby knows there is strength in being gentle. He treats his Woman and other females with the utmost of respect and deference. He never lashes out or raises his voice to any Woman.

A hubby is Obedient

A hubby follows the rules of his family, his Woman and the women in his workplace. He obeys the laws of his Woman to the letter and the spirit.  He does whatever is asked of him, immediately and without regard to his own wishes. A hubby exists to serve his Woman.

A hubby is Cheerful

A hubby looks for the bright side of life. He cheerfully does all tasks that his Woman sends his way. He tries to make Her happy at all times. He does not sulk or pout or in any other way bring disgrace upon his Woman's household.

A hubby is Thrifty

A hubby works hard to pay his own way and to provide his Woman with the luxury and comfort she deserves and is entitled to. He gives all his earnings to her to save for the future or spend for herself. He protects and conserves his Woman's resources. He carefully uses his time to bring prosperity to Woman and to increase her property and wealth.

A hubby is Brave

A hubby can face down any danger to his Woman or her estate, although he may be afraid. He has the courage to take his punishments even if others laugh at him or chastise him.

A hubby is Clean

A hubby keeps his body and mind fit and clean-shaven. He chooses the company of women who live by high standards. He keeps his Woman's home and possessions clean.

A hubby is Reverent

A hubby is reverent towards the Feminine Divine which is represented by his Woman and all womankind. He is faithful in his worshipping duties. He respects her every wish as his Law, and seeks to enlighten all humanity about the true path.