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| I'm primarily active on FetLife (same username) but thought I would try out this site to see what it's like. I'm active in the FetLife community (munches, events etc.) so look me up there if you also use that site. I check it a lot more often.
I will not respond to messages from anyone younger, not local, or with a dick avi. If I do not respond to your message I don't owe you an explanation why.
Tested clean in July 2022 and committed to getting tested yearly, or more frequently if a partner requests (and does the same).
Safety is a core value for me -- play partners or even people I speak with here I insist on prioritizing my safety -- physically, professionally, as well as assuring privacy. Don't be a dingleberry. Nobody likes a dingleberry.
I'm not looking for random hookups. I'm looking for unique, fun experiences with people who have great chemistry, respect, and solid communication. I am NOT looking for a romantic relationship, but I am open to a long-term play partner. I am poly and fine with a poly play partner, but communication and honesty are critical to make that work. I tend to hit it off best with mature, educated, intelligent people who have things in their life that they are passionate about (career, hobby, social justice cause etc.).
I'm open to the following:
Threesomes, group sex, couples
Rigger and/or BDSM relationship -- this would need to evolve over time as trust needs to develop.
A regular play partner who is interested in exploring kink AND is excellent at sex. Must be local (or willing to travel to me) and regularly available.
I am very new to playing with women but open to exploring that more.
Other kinky playdates -- introduce me to some kink I don't even know about yet!
Ideally play partners would be open to taking photos of our playdates and allowing me to post pictures. I am also an exhibitionist, although being careful, respectful and having consent is key, of course, with exhibitionism. I deserve to find someone who is proud to have me as a play partner and want to show me off.
Generally speaking I am submissive and generous when playing. I really, really enjoy giving pleasure and getting people off. That being said, recently I've had play partners who just lose focus and forget to save some energy for me. Which, I mean, I get it, I'm pretty good (well, according to my references, really good) at getting people to... ahem... lose focus, but I'm there to have fun, too. I'm pretty responsive to partners who know what they are doing, but I need more than three thrusts to get to where I want to be.
I always do a platonic in-person meeting before deciding to play. I don't play with anyone younger.
Fully vaccinated.
Black Lives Matter.
LGBTQ Ally.
If that bothers you, move along.
Despite my serious-sounding profile, I'm actually pretty nice, goofy, and I've been told I'm fun to hang out with. Apparently my boobs are pretty great, too, so there's that.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Masochist
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
97% Brat
94% Exhibitionist
93% Experimentalist
92% Non-monogamist
91% Degradee
91% Slave
88% Pet
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