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I am looking for new friends in the Twin Cities having recently returned to the area from the East Coast. If you are a like minded Dom or Switch looking to hang out and have a drink once in a while and explore new spots around town, hit me up. With all the information (and lack here-in) I want to pin point exactly what I look for in a sub. I am what is considered a 'gentle' Dom. For me it is about the control and power a submissive wants and needs to give me. I want my subs to want Me to be in control because they know I will care, protect and cherish them. I want to teach and I want to give to them. I want to open their minds up and let them experience things they never dreamed of or thought were possible. I want to tear down inhibitions and open up a whole new world of stimulation and pleasure. It is my ultimate turn on. It is my experience that a vanilla relationship just does not work for me yet I do NOT like pain. Receiving or giving. Spanking and hair pulling are ok. I don't do marks (giving or receiving)! I am the ultimate old-fashioned, 50's era, romantic. I want to be very clear, I am NOT interested in One Night Stands or casual encounters. There has to be the want to spend time together. There are certain dynamics of a vanilla relationship that needs to be incorporated into the lifestyle. My subs need to be one of my best friends. They need to be able to come to me for anything. That does not mean I will provide them anything. But I will counsel and provide for them. Being under my power frees them to be more open with Me and build a connection that nothing can destroy. I earn my sub’s submission. I do not want it given to me. This does not mean I am looking to be tested me all the time. I am not looking to make a sub something she is not. I am looking to give her what she truly wants and needs. I find great pleasure in their pleasure. Controlling their physical stimulation is my reward. I am a master of sensory enhancement and deprivation. I teach my subs how and when to achieve orgasm in powerful, intense ways they have never experienced before. This please me greatly to be able to teach in this way. I hope this is clear enough to catch your interest. Contact me if you have any questions. I am an Alpha male and want my subs to be girly girls. My personality is typically laid back and I am a very open and non-judgmental man. I can be physically aggressive when necessary but do not believe in pain as punishment. I may be strict, demanding and show little hesitation when my sub needs to be corrected or disciplined but this is my way of showing my caring and intimate feelings. Spanking, chastity, restraint, and delayed orgasm interruption or denial are my primary methods of discipline. I take my relationships very serious. Let me know if you have any questions. Update: I just took a quiz a new friend sent me and here are the results: Experimental 93% Dominant 89% Switch 71% Sadist 61% Exhibitionist 50% Degradation 36% Submissive 36% Bondage 36% Vanilla 14% Masochist 7%