|
|
|
|
|
|
| 2/16
Living between NYC and California it seems for the past 2 years for about 6 months each. It just happened I like to travel what can I say.
I read a profile today and I found his profile enticing and accurate to what I am seeking. I have modified it to my needs. Here is my version:Thanks and enjoy!
To the man that I'm seeking, it makes total sense. In fact, it resonates deeply with him speaking to his deepest desires and needs. it is HIM at his core. He is happy to find a woman who finally "gets it".
Things you want to know about me:
I am not a dominate in that I will not take anything from you nor even demand it. You are a submissive because you want to give. I am a hedonist with a strong personality willing to lead, guide and open the door to complete acceptance.
I have a Masters degree and I provide Therapy, (Mental Health sort), Im well rounded, traveled, geeky, love dining from a 5 Star to a local hole in the wall. Reading before tv, I don't own a tv as a matter of fact. Although I do own a MAC. Music is my soul. If it has a good beat I am wiggling to it. I love to dance.
I believe that D/s is first and primarily mental, not physical. I am mastering the psychological aspects of dominance and submission recognizing that our largest sexual organ lies between our ears, and not between our legs.
Lets build trust based on a wiliingness to reach common goals, our mutual and total satisfaction. Maintain respect at the for front, and transparence always between us. I know that when I control the mind, the body follows. Once trust is established and tested the possibilities become probabilities and then stories and memories. I am not into public play or sex clubs on a regular bases although I have attended occasionally.
While I am not seeking a cuckold relationship, I strongly believe that a dominant woman has the right to maintain her sexual freedom if she chooses to do so. As my sub/slave, I have every right to possess you. My sexuality is my own to do with as I see fit. So even though I grant you sexual access, You have no right to dictate whether I grant that same access to others. I may have as many or as few lovers as I deem desirable. My needs and my pleasure are what's important. They're far more important than any petty jealousy. You will respect and support my decision, and will take joy in the fact that all of my sexual needs are being met.
My ideal HIM and our relationship:
I am seeking a long-term, total power exchange (TPE), female-led relationship, with a twist and balance of vanilla, kink and all that stuff. I get more pleasure from TPE, protocols, and day-to-day service than I do from degradation, humiliation, physical or verbal abuse. Which are all NOT my preference.
My ideal mate doesn't accept society's belief that a man should be in charge in a relationship. Nor the current BDSM trend of the "twue normal sub" Instead, he thinks that I should be in charge. In fact, no other arrangement makes sense to him. Im just not wired to submit to a man I am in charge in my relationships. Any man who wants to be with me must first accept and submit this.
I want a man who makes me proud in public, but who knows his place privately and always, never forgetting. Whole, well rounded, educated, well spoken. I love knowing that my man is dominant over others in the vanilla world, but he is completely submissive within our relationship. I love being the Power that welcomes a powerful man.
I am looking for a partnership of equals but rather not same. There is nothing normal or same about what I see our relationship being. I am the "head of the household" even though you the primary bread winner. I make the FINAL decision on ALL issues that pertain to our household and relationship. My man honors and appreciates me for the knowledge, awareness and guidance that I provide. You gladly dedicate himself to obeying me and serving my needs.
You understand that it is a great honor to belong to me, and you work diligently to show yourself worthy of that privilege.
Consider yourself to be a service-oriented sub, not a kink-oriented sub. You have a driving need to serve and to please and you are open to varying D/s philosophies and situations.
He gains the greatest satisfaction from doing things to please me and make my life easier. Running errands, performing the household chores, mowing the lawn, shoveling snow, massaging my body and feet, running my bath water, cooking, acting as my chauffeur, being my protector/ bodyguard, and releasing me from the burden of unwanted tasks is what turns me on.
Bringing my best
Goodness this life is an adventure. I'm not "here" often my life at this avenue and time is busy so if you sent a note have patience I'll get to you as swiftly as my schedule allows.
" The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it" – Henry David Thoreau.
|
|
|
|
|
@yapoosm
For your rude exchange and assumptions may you forever feel a bit of regret and a sense of shame, for trying to shame another with out proper information.
The thing you fear the most you are.
You feel you have a right to be rude and disrespectful by calling me names and proclaiming to call me out.
For shame you spineless weak person behind the screen. I sent you a link to my website for mental health services that I professionally do. Had you read instead of jumping in the burning car you might have been less likely to fall on your face.
The world needs more people like me ;0) that's why your really mad.
You like me and want me. You failed. Don't try again. |
|
|
|
|
Im attending a KINK/BDSM event this summer. I registered and made reservations at the hotel. I am excited and yet I am apprehensive. There is at least 150 folks signed up and they are going to. This is a great place for me to mingle and make connections to gain clients and to make lasting connections. 3 full days of kink fun!
I am human and there is always a place when in this community I say to myself, YES STILL, WTF! LOL I am excited to have the opportunity to really meet and interact with many people from so many place, but what we have in common is our community.
We are all gathering around the fire... Will you be there too? |
|
|
|
|
I'm feeling accomplished! & an invitation!!
There's a free health fair today and your invited! Oh and Ill be there! This is my 1st health fair! Come on out and say HI to me and all the other great providers there
Date & Time:
Today!!!
Saturday, February 28, 2015 ? 2:00 PM ? 5:00 PM
Location:
TRS - 40 Exchange Place (3rd Floor), New York, NY
TRS - 40 Exchange Place (3rd Floor), New York, NY @ map
Cost: Free!
Description:
TES does it's best as an organization to educate our community on healthy sexual practices- now we are extending that in to other areas! Many of us have searched for that therapist that won't make us feel crazy or that doctor we could trust with our REAL health issues. TES is making your search easier! Join us on Saturday, 2/28 to meet a variety of health care professionals that you can feel secure with.
*Participation by health care professionals in this event does not imply that they take part in kink activities, nor does it imply an endorsement towards their practices by TES.
If you'd like to participate as a health care provider, please email victoriavharrington@gmail.com
Location: TRS - 40 Exchange Place (3rd Floor), New York, NY
|
|
|
|
|
Happy Chinese Lunar New Year!!!!
How are you bringing in the new year!?!
Me? I'm heard to Manhattans Chinatown to participate in the fun!
May your new year be full with kinky lusty goodness!!!
G |
|
|
|
|
The conversations in my head when Im here or on sites like this..
I admit I'm different proceed at your own risk it's worth it but you will never be the same I hope lol!!
This place or any other place really, is a avenue for me to immerse myself in the things I like, and to discover the things unknow. It's like a library or reference and my page a card...
(And here lies my first fuckin dilemma to many MFers are LAZY and comfortable with the minimization of our lives to short bursts and immediate gratification or its a deterioration of adult responses.
Or worse to many ain't been in a fuckin library or book store in a NEVERARY.)
Im here for my edification and pleasure.
(my inner self says"IDGAF what you think about me, because this is my show. Do you really care what I think?")
I expect we all are, why do we pretend otherwise?
What I know is possible is alienment and commonality.
We play a game of somehow we are not all in or at the same fire.
Sure different creatures, but not really...
We converged to the same place so we share similarities.
I seek those, I acknowlege this. It's how I function, inclusion only into my space the things that engage me. (get the fuck on with your demands without reciprocity. You don't go into a store to make a purchase without money and knowing what you went out your way to go get!! Why the fuck you act like I don't know you want something you sent me a note... Ok scooby-do)
Unapologetically transparent is perceived as cunt-ish.. Bitch-ie or gasp aggressive.. If I had a dick I'd be running hoes and everybody would be at my parties..
It's ok I dirgess or do I just unravel and travers down the roads of my experiences just to share them not to give a fuck if you like it or not.
Namaste for if the God in me trully honours the God in others I can remove myself from that which does not please me, instead of demanding the entire world unsettle itself to please me or I learn to cope if it's important enough..
I choose and the choice is always me..as it should be for us all...that doesn't mean that we can not learn to work together to build and exchange with out demanding or destroying.
Kink on!!! |
|
|
|
|
This is a great place to mingle and perv yes, but in addition to that we are real people with real lives and issues... Beyond the kink lies life. The mundane and often stressful real of trying to balance. If your interested here is a resource.
Anonymus Group
Limited to 7-9 Individuals
Topics Of Discussion Will Change Based on Needs of Group.
Depression/Phobias/Anxiety/
DisordersTrauma/Parenting, etc
Tuesdays & Thursdays-Kink Related Issues
11 am (PST) & 11am (EST)
8pm (PST) & 8pm (EST)
Monday & Wednesday-Vanilla Related Issues
11 am (PST) & 11am (EST)
8pm (PST) & 8pm (EST)
55 Minute Sessions @$9.99 Per Individual
If you interested in participating or more info send me a note. I'll send you more info!
Kink on YALL! |
|
|
|
|
You want to know what I like?
Balance of my darkness and light. I live in balance seeking things that catch my attention. This place is like the perfect personal assistant. We can screen each other and nit pick to our hearts and sexual organs desires. lol We can be freaks and kinky and down right dirty.
And then...
Life is back on. Can you live in the light as well as the darkness? Do you know how to balance the reality of the games we play and keep them going? Do you know what it is to play with your mind and to connect deeper and on levels yet experienced? So many try to disconnect instead of seeking to connect.
Can your survive and come out better for what the experiences are worth?
Care to join me? NO harm no foul. NO pressure be NORMAL and lets see if you can hang beyond the shadows. Hit me up send me a note.. You might find that life is waiting for you. Pulsd is not paying me I am just an active participant in my life and destiny. I don't want to chat endlessly online, I wanna see yo face, public safe place!
If you don't like my suggestions I am open to more. This place is a LAUNCHING pad.. Ready set.....
|
|
|
|
|
What do I want?
I'm a hedonist they don't have a link for that...
I seek new experiences and pleasures.
Not replications, poorly executed at the.
😜 "I'm weak" I'm frugal and a great manager of many things but I can spot broken and fake barely held together. It's ok I have slots for you but not time for much else..
Have an imagination there is no box nor net.
Find your self deeper and push past the knee jerking reaction.
Read, about me, stop asking.
Try being yourself not who you think I want... In this place I look forward to the surprise of the unknown and yet-experienced
Do you and let me see, if I like it I'll ask for more.
In the mean time kink on yall this is a great arena. |
|
|
|
|
Happy Valentine's Day to all the kinky freeky delicious folks here!!! Enjoy the day of not so amours but rather salacious exchanges!!! |
|
|
|
|
This place is an endless source of amusement and work for a therapist! I hit the jackpot! Thank YALL!
Yall pump your breaks with the send a message and then another and then BLOCK before I can respond.. I'm busy and your impatient and a bit much stranger! Do you act like that for real?!?! Bahahaha
Attention whores much bahahahahaha keep them coming! WOOT |
|
|
|
|
I'm not asking for your money goodness Yall relax.
I'm a therapist REALLY.
Your lists of demands covered in servitude is great elsewhere. Here in this realm there are exchanges made, if you want something have something to give in return.
What can you do or give beyond a snviling contrite written note where your explaining your lack or worth and groveling in despair.
Do better
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
