~Please read this profile before contacting me, thank you.~

Hello,

About me:

I am a 43 year old single straight male in the Cleveland, Ohio area. I love photography, relaxing at home, travel and obviously by my pic I play second life. I enjoy second life because it allows you to meet and interact with people from all over the world and I enjoy building there. If you want to know more feel free to ask. Yes I have real pictures of me and I will send them after we start to talk. I also have a web cam if you feel the need to see me live to verify.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for a sub or slave that I connect with so that eventually it will become a long term relationship in real life. I do respect limits although I push them, I respect them and will not cross the line. I am not looking for males of any orientation, so do not waste your time or mine. Dommes can contact me if you want to talk.

My views on submission:

I view submission as a gift that is given out of love, respect and trust. I do not believe that a Dom/Domme can should submission for granted or abuse that gift. A sub should be respected and loved. There is a huge difference between abuse and discipline! I am not saying that a sub should not be disciplined, I am saying they should not be abused. Love is also important. I do not believe that it is any less important in a D/s relationship then a vanilla relationship. Perhaps even more important. The same with trust. If you are allowing someone to tie you down naked and helpless I think you really should trust that person completely, don't you?

What I expect:

I expect that you will have self esteem, be able to think for yourself, and be able to follow instructions. I expect that you will enjoy your submission and have a real connection to me. I expect honesty, loyalty and respect. I expect communication and cooperation. If this seems different, well I guess I am. I do not view BDSM & D/s as I license for the sub to be treated like they are a piece of waste. Nor do I believe that it is a license for a Dom/Domme to be treated like a god. People (all people) have to earn their position in life. The human wastes of the world earn those positions, just as the people that are treated like gods should earn that level of respect and admiration. I do not care to argue this point, I believe it and it works for me. argue with someone else.

There will be more later, It is hart to sum up a lifetime of experience and thoughts in a few paragraphs. So I expect that you will have to talk to me to get to know me.

I look forward to hearing from you and thank you for reading all the way through.