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| First, I am not quite sure why, but my profile and photo keep getting erased. This is the third time I have had to re-write and re-create my profile.
I am a lifestyle Dominant which does NOT mean I walk around leather clad and ordering people around all day long. I actually have quite a few interests ranging from bike touring to cooking to photography (I work as a commercial photographer) to History just to name a few. I have been exploring my interest in D/s since my freshman year in college, on and off, for about 20 years. Each experience with each different submissive and/or slave has been unique and exciting regardless of how young, or old, or inexperienced, or experienced she is just, as long as she has a willing spirit and a creative imagination. Of course I do have my preferences which I am entitled to have. I have no interest in anyone who considers themselves jaded or is easily bored.
While intelligence is very important what is more important to me is how you use that intelligence. What are you interests, passions, pursuits and deepest darkest desires? If you desire to be of service how do you envision your service? I value loyalty and obedience. I also crave intimacy and vulnerability. In fact, the single most seductive aspect of D/s for me is the profound sense of trust and intimacy between the Dominant and submissive partners.
One final thing I would like to add, I do not consider Master a title or noun. In a D/s relationship it is more of a verb, as in mastering the submissive, her pleasures, pain, fears, desires and so on.
It all starts with a conversation. If you are interest feel free to write me. I love intelligent, creative conversation.
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I recently returned from a vacation in Paris. Recently, I also happened to reread the "Story of O" which I first read in college with my college sweetheart and the first woman I actively explored my interest in D/s.
Imagine my surprise and delight when I realized that my Paris apartment, in the 17? Arrondissement, is near Parc Monceau. The self same park in which O is picked up by a car and driver and begins her long descent into submission. |
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Being a Dominant, I am always fascinated by the perspective of the submissive. I had never really thought about using the journal part of this site before but I think it would be a good place to reflect on my interested and experiences in D/s and to share those reflections.
The desire to possess a submissive/slave is a powerful one indeed which goes far beyond the desire for a quick lay. Admittedly, I do find that sex, physical intimacy, with a submissive to be incredibly sensual. After all, what inhibitions are there left for the submissive to shed after granting possession over herself to her Dominant? But the sense of possession is so much more profound and powerful when both Dominant and submissive fully embrace their desires to possess and to be possessed.
One of the other aspect of D/s which I find equisite are the many paradoxes I have encountered. A former girlfriend who I explored D/s with early on (a long time ago) initially had trouble reconciling her feminism with her desire to be a submissive. It was interesting to see how liberating it was for her in the end in fully embracing her desire to be a submissive -- basically finding freedom in embracing her desire to be enslaved. |
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Although I do find the idea of "breaking" the submissive's will very appealing, bring her to the point of respecting the whip but not craving the whip. I also think that having the submissive embrace her desire to serve, her enslavement must also be a nurturing experience physically, emotionally, and sexually. Basically, to realize her true desire, however, dark that may me. Of course, it all begins with a choice - her choice. |
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| Age: 44 |
| Chicago,
Illinois |
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