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Gary95610

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I am seeking someone that has eyes toward a long term relationship with Ds as a constant component.
This not play but part of a long term committed relationship

I have had the same management sales position for the last 20+ years.. I am pretty stable and responsible.

As far as CS, There are so many here that are either not real or are only looking for the fantasy and it is too time consuming to search through all the profiles so I am not actively pursuing anyone. But, I know she (you) is (are) out there! So if you like what you have just read, please read on. And if you like what you read in the following, please say hi.If I was to meet someone here, I would treat it much like meeting from anywhere else. I want to know about you as a person. I want to see how well we click, see if we have the same values and a similar sense of humor. those are important to sustaining a relationship. I am pretty confident in who I am. I have no doubt that you would find I am who I say I am and I am looking for what I describe. I think you will be happy you decided to get to know me (if you take that step). I have never been interested in meeting a lot of girls. I dont have the time or the interest to meet a girl that I dont think there is potential with. I have a nice, drama free life. I have a beautiful house in a great community. I just dont have that submissive girl to share it with.

I wont ask you to give up power to me today.. I dont take power.. I want it but I will wait til I think you are ready. I want you to be smart enough to realize that you want to trust me (or anyone else)before there is any kind of power exchange. Here is some basic ination about me I am not an abuser in the negative sense of the word. I am not the type that gets drunk and hits a girl in anger and breaks things. I have a very high level of self-discipline and am always in control of myself. I rarely raise my voice. I usually dont have to. I would never do anything to you that I would have to explain to either a cop or a Dr.. That being said, I will respect but test your limits. You can feel secure knowing how important your personal health and well being is to me. Describing my personality, I am very laid back and light hearted. I have a great sense of humor I am very easy to talk to. I am very responsible and a great role model to my about to go to college daughter. Most of all, I am real. I have a life, have character and ethics. I love the outdoors and outdoor activities. I am very active and in great shape for being in my 50s (or 40s for that matter). I like movies, theater and concerts. I love to travel and love the water. I love sitting by a fire with a glass of something, listening to music and hearing the rain fall. I have built an addition and done landscaping and designing (for myself).. My daughter makes me proud every day and am not opposed to being with someone that has kids. If you have a child and we get in a relationship,I would respect your role as a parent. Having a child of my own part time, I understand how important good parenting is. Although your submissive nature is your role and doesnt need to be hidden, discretion (sexually) is always important and necessary around kid(s).
I travel alot for both work and for fun. I love Mexico and love to spend time there.

I hope that gives an idea as to my character and philosophies. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

Sooooooo, this is where you say, hi... Im interested


5/12/2014 4:11:01 PM

There are so many that are looking for the fantasy. It is time consuming to search through all the profiles so consequently, I am not actively pursuing anyone. (If my profile is here, I haven't found her (you). But, I know she (you) is (are) out there.  So if you like what you have just read, please read my profile. And if you like what you read there, please say hi.

12/31/2013 6:20:50 PM

Thought it was time to update the profile...

5/12/2013 4:55:06 PM

I often wonder about this site (and those like it). It seems subs aren't really interested in the relationship part of a D/s relationship. Is it just the fantasy that people here are interested in?

 

 

12/22/2012 4:15:56 PM

Merry Christmas! :)

This time of year is great when you have children or family to share it with. Although it is a sacrifice I would make again, it is difficult when you are single and focused most of your attention on being a good parent instead of dating alot. But as she has gotten older and I find myself alone more, this time of year can also be lonely.

Anyone want to help change that for/with me?

Please say hi

 

11/22/2012 9:36:07 AM

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.. I hope you all get to spend it with those you love.

12/13/2007 8:37:47 AM
You have to understand what it is to be a parent. Yes, in a relatively short amount of time it all works out and the parenting-girlfriend/sub/slave issue becomes less of, to being a non existent issue.
If you find the right peson, are you willing to make some small time sacrifices in the beginning (as us single parents do)?
Alexia
 
 Age: 18
 Visiting, Indiana