I am a man of broad, and quite often wicked interests and passions, someone never lacking for curiosity when it comes to getting to know my fellow kinksters and finding out what makes us tick. Although I don't think of myself as complicated, no simple profile ever gives a person’s complete story, so if you want to really know me, come and talk to me.

I enjoy getting to know open minded people, particularly those in the Melbourne BDSM and poly communities. I have been involved with this lifestyle for nearly 20 years, but believe there is never really an end to the things that you can learn or improve upon. Even returning to an activity you have enjoyed before is a whole new unique experience when it involves a new person, thankfully!

I'm both a hedonist and voyeur, my particular interests lie in a balance between the mental aspects of D/s and TPE, and the physical pleasures of S&M, with both being important to fulfilling me. I enjoy sharing experiences, ideas, skills and stories with others. There is a long and ever growing list of fetishes here on my profile, however if you really want to understand my tastes and needs, then this list is a starting place, but you really need to come and get to know the real me.

Stylistically I enjoy genres such as:

• Steampunk
• 1950s fetish
• Victorian Gothic

I have acquired a new taste for fashion, particularly within these styles. While I'm not just interested in talking to people with similar tastes, it would be great to have a partner who does share these particular tastes.

I am a kinky Librarian, a bibliophile and a proud geek, and although I ride a motorbike, I'm not your typical bikie, or rev head. I love the freedom that my bike affords me, as well as the joy of trips away touring the country. The travel makes a nice change of pace from my work in the library. Fellow riders, as well as potential passengers are most welcome to get in touch.

I am polyamourous. This means I am open to both acquaintances as well as potential partners. If you do want to be in my life in an intimate way then it is probably best that you are comfortable with poly. If you are involved with someone I won't get involved intimately unless your partner is at least in the loop even if not involved.

While I am polyamourous, many people have misconceptions about what that means, I am not just looking for just a string of friends with benefits. I am open to casual relationships, but I also am looking for at least one woman, whether she is poly herself or just poly friendly, with whom I can develop a core long term relationship. A life partner, and possibly with the right person a family. Our poly interests can then expand out from this core relationship.