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I am a strong independent successful career woman that would like to be able to give up control to a dominant male. I’m done with meeting men that I cannot respect because they are dependent and unable to take responsibility, I need a man who is willing to take the relationship in hand and put me in my place. The idea of allowing someone to take full control of my mind, body and soul excites me. The thought of extreme pain doesn't. I’m new to this lifestyle so not sure what I do or do not like, but believe that, in a safe relationship, I would be curious about anything. I think this quote describes what I'm looking for: - I give not out of weakness or desperation. I give because it pleases me to please you. Please don't take advantage of it or take it for granted. I am strong enough to stand up for myself if need be, but then it will be too late. you will have lost me and my respect. It is a real man who knows what he has and cherishes it. -
2/22/2013 6:48:34 AM

I'm confused, how does me saying I am looking for someone that can take care of me and earn my respect, get me messages from men that are asking if I can 'keep' them financially?  Have I missed something? Can't really respect someone that can't take care of themselves!

MsDivaness
 
 Age: 32
 Southern, California