Being a guy, I never have had the feeling of being objectified, so, I'm curious, what it's like, for you, who may have had that feeling in your life. To be clear, I've been used. I've been taken advantage of. But, I don't ever think anyone "objectified" me, for my body parts, to say it bluntly. Nobody seems to care what my body parts look like.

Given that I'm not the one objectified, my only experience in this spectrum is as the one objectifying, so to speak, as I enjoy a short skirt and peach-shaped buns or a low-cut blouse as much as any guy, and I certainly spank and clamp any nipples that dare to poke their way up in excitement. But this question isn't about being the objectifier - it's about being objectified. Specifically, what it feels like (in the safe sane consensual pleasurable D/s sense, of course).

To give you a bit of history, the question actually arose as a fellow dominant female contacted me, months ago, with the suggestion that I would enjoy being on the other end of the spectrum as her boy toy to play with.

I dismissed the suggestion out of hand, and now that profile is closed, but, what I am beginning to wonder is, the basic open-ended question, of what it actually FEELS like, in a consensual BDSM sense, to be the one objectified.