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Currently looking for friends only.
A fairly vanilla guy who likes a little kink, I don't live the full lifestyle though have in the past and have lived with people who in my opinion went way overboard.. I'm looking for someone who is wanting some fun but doesn't need to have a lifestyle master and doesn't depend on a Dom for their every thought. Subs that are willing to show their love by trusting a Dom to take care of them are amazing. Slaves who want a Dom to treat them as abject trash are just sort of sad to me. If you are offended by this so be it we most likely wouldn't have gotten on anyways. Slaves that have no thoughts of their own and absolutely no sense of self value are no fun for me. Within guidelines and boundaries, depending on the relationship, a sub will be required to make decisions and/or show some initiative. You will be punished for making the wrong choices and corrected into the right ones but that will generally be fun or mild depending on the partner. Correct behavior is rewarded. Where as inaction and complacency will cause suffering.
Being a sub to me doesn't mean you stop being your own person and having your own likes and will; It means that you will allow another to take the lead. It means that you will trust another to care for you. It means that you will show respect and in turn be shown the respect you have earned.. I don't completely rule out Master slave relationships but it is not my desire to jump into that, a slave who surrenders her will is a wonderful thing. A slave who had no will to begin with is just boring and stolid.
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