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There is a natural order to all things.
That natural order cant be fought. Sure there are those that say everything can be changed and yes for a time changes do come along.
However, bubbling just under the surface of that said change. The natural order continues unabated growing, gathering strength and passion.
Humans are sexual at their core. A woman craves certain things... she may hold off those desires for a time.Then something or someone introduces her to what she has been missing and suddenly everything changes.
Why are you here on this site.
Are you here because you want to be a mans property to be owned by him. Or, are you here because you are a DO ME female that wants to find a so called dominant male that you can make him believe he is in control. When in fact he is not.
The words below are from a woman and I think she describes it rather well.
I dont submit purely because I want to please. The reason I please (or seek to) is because, in doing so, I get something I NEED in return. I NEED to feel that strong and ever-present dominant influence in my life. I NEED to have boundaries set for me. I NEED to have a man in my life who wont bend to my every desire or agree with me on every point. I NEED a slap when Im belligerent or to be hurt when Im out of line. I NEED a primal male who is in touch with what it is to be male. I dont NEED to be treated like a princess... and if you think youre spoiling me by buying me everything I want, think again. Id rather you instinctive knew when I needed a beating and when I needed to come for hours on end. This isnt about fairy princesses living in daddys castle on the hill (though the reality of the man coming along and bringing that princess down to earth could be hot). It isnt about me being so selfless and giving that I, essentially, have no personality of my own. It is about the fact that I get incredible joy and peace from submitting to the right dominant male. Despite how difficult this life can be... despite the heartache that can come at times... despite the fears I have... submitting to that one exceptional man to whom Ill belong is the greatest pleasure I can imagine.Nature made us inherently compatible. The male wants to take and the female wants to give because BOTH get their NEEDS met in that dynamic. This is NOT a one-way street . And I am not less of a submissive or a slave for failing to be totally selfless. I may put a mans needs and desires ahead of my own but, in the end, that is what makes me happiest.
First, any man who still entertains the concept that a Ds relationship is measured, for females, purely in terms of the happiness it gives us, is leading himself astray. There is a perfect quote from Dangerous Liaisons that sums up what I meanMadame DE Rosemonde
Im sorry to say this, but, those who are most worthy of love are never made happy by it.Madame Marie DE Tourvel
But, why? Why should that be?Madame DE Rosemonde
Do you still think men love the way we do? No... men enjoy the happiness they feel. We enjoy the happiness we give. This is part of how we feel complete and comforted in our submission to a man. Though these things hurt, they are a part of what makes us feel owned and possessed... as though we love a man so much that we will even suffer for him. I mention this because there are so many developing doms who measure their success as dominants largely by whether a woman is happy. (And thats probably not wise.) First, no one is always happy. Second, there are people who are more comfortable being unhappy than happy. And, finally, to use happiness as a measure of whether youre a good ownermasterman, is to make yourself a slave to your sub-missives moods. Youve already failed if this is your sole standard. Some suffering and sacrifice are part and parcel of submission -- not a sign of failure for a dominant. If you cant get a woman to want to sacrifice something for you, youre not in the right arena.
Also, for those who havent considered it Dominance and submission are based on something that is real (at least where its based on Male Dominance and female submission). Its based in nature. Its foundation is a mans physical superiority over a woman. Its longevity is based on a mans personal qualities adding to that foundation -- his ability to make wise decisions - to lead. It need not have anything to do with the rest of what youll find here on CM or on the Internet, in general. Too many confuse Dominance and submission with the whips of the sadomasochistic crowd or the ropes and paddles of the bondage and discipline crowd. Yes, the three worlds often coexist. But they dont have to. To be a dominant man doesnt imply that you swing a single tail or lock your submissive in a cage and make her lap from a bowl. You can simply like to be in control in your relationship with a woman.I think most people dont even stop to question the difference between taking a whip to a body and taking control in a relationship. Yes, a woman being whipped can feel dominated. But, a woman being whipped could just be there for the rush of endorphins released by pain, and have no respect for a man -- no desire to put his needs ahead of her own or to bow before him. She may not want to be dominated in any way past the whipping she might receive.Cause she is there only for her own selfish reasons. Using the male to get her subspace fix. Someone just asked me if I didnt agree that dominance starts in a mans mind.No, I dont agree. It starts with a mans natural superiority of strength over a female. Then it graduates to the mind.Strength alone wont hold a girl for long -- especially not an intelligent girl. But, strength is the foundation of a mans dominance. Without it, his control is a mental construct only -- like a female acting dominant over a man.Of course, a mans intelligence and other qualities will bind a girl to him over time but the physical is the foundation.
No matter how much this site ties kinky activities to dominance and submission, this thing of ours ISNT about whether a man wields a whip or a woman slaves beneath it. It isnt about cages or gags, paddles or single tails, bondage or humiliation.It IS about a man having knowledge of his natural power, having the ability to use it, and a woman responding to that power. A man may NEVER use a whip or engage in bondage and he can still own a womans heart... her adoration, her abject desire to serve and please. Without that, without every act taking on meaning because it is done by him, kink is nothing more than the strange, new activity of the moment.
So, what do you think?
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What is "YOUR" Prime directive?
What do you desire,what do you stand for and what and who do you seek.
One must know. One can't be one way one day and something totally different in your prime directive another. |
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Have you ever thought about what is happening. Really happening.
You as a woman will say that there are no real dominant males.
You say that is what you desire more than anything. A Real Dominant Male.
And yet...you will allow the feminist the man haters to continue to control your life.
Yes they do control you. From the very first word that came from their mouths you have been under their control.
They do not promote human equality (it is the smoke screen they use.)
They are purely and simply out to control you the woman.
Only women like yourself can change what is going on. It is not to late.
The change will not come via the efforts of men. It will have to be the women who stand up and decide that this has to stop.
From women that abort male babies because they will not bring a male into the world.
To those that control you as a woman and tell you that you need them (the feminist) to make life better for you.
Do you want the right to submit and serve a man if that is your desire.Slowly that is being taken away from you. In ways you have yet to even imagine.
While you think they are out for your good. Behind your back they are clearly not.
If you want a man you say you want in your life. Something will have to be done.
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All the women from their birth are searching for their Master.'
Aristotle.
Teacher of Alexander the Great/ 350 b.c
Why is it some people feel shame over feeling submissive or dominant. it seems odd to me. submission/dominance is natural and normal so why feel the need to hide it. I wonder if the shame over something so natural is due to a real belief that this is wrong or if it's just that believing it to be wrong makes it hotter? More of a turn on. Some people really seem to need to do/be doing something wrong in order to get off. Would this sexuality hold the same thrill for those people if they didn't consider it wrong? So much of the semantics of kinksters who claim to be into D/s, centers on the concept of this being wrong -- bitch, cunt, whore, slut. People buy into the idea that a female who openly pleases a male in sexual manner is sullied and dirtied,whatever. To those who need that, fine. But, what about thinking outside that Western European WASP mentality where all sex is bad if not in the furtherance of procreation? What if we considered females who are pleasing and submissive, to be the more pure of heart and body? That concept seems far more unique and, seemingly, healthy. |
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Do you really know the difference... a slave and a submissive
(I found this in the journal area. When I checked to see if I could find the person who wrote these words the profile was no longer active.)
ONCE again I did not write this. However I agree with it.
a slave... Many People/people confuse that with a submissive The definition of 'submissive' is humbly and unhesitatingly obedient while 'slave' means a person who is the property of and wholly subject to another. i am not just obedient. i am property to own and to be used as such.
Do you get it? Do you understand it now.
The Submissive’s Creed Author Unknown I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Dominant and I from having the best experience possible, but it can also lead to physical and emotional harm.I will try not to manipulate my Dominant. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not Top from the bottom.I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and on expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.I will accept the responsibility for discovering what pleases my Dominant and will do my best to fulfill Their wishes and desires.I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that being a submissive does not mean being a doormat.I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.I will be responsive to my Dominant. I will not try to hide what my mind and both are feeling so that I may assist Them in their responsibilities as my Authority. I know Dominants are not telepaths and I will not expect my Dominant to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Dominant when it is not warranted simply because They are the Dominant. I realise things may not work out as they should at time and will try my best to put it behind me and move on.I will give my submission only to those who can responsibly accept it and desire to receive it. I will not place anyone in the position of Dominating me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone who has not earned it.I will be obedient to my Dominant even if I disagree with what They are requesting. I realise They have my best interests at heart and often know better than I what I need in a particular situation.I know that my actions reflect upon my Dominant, and will do my best to help others to see Them in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honour. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who I am and will never show myself in a negative way.
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The words below were sent to me by a female slave that had no active profile so I could not contact her about it. She sent a second message stating she had found her master and just wanted me to have it. She said she found it somewhere on the web.
I can however not over stress the fact that a slave needs to be aware that in Absolute Slavery, or Absolute and Total Power Exchange, the Master has the right to change, alter, or modify his service requirements and expectations, at any time, for any reason, and at the Masters sole discretion. A Masters values, character, principles, perceptions, etc. are therefore a most important consideration, as they do not change as easily as service requirements or kink.. slave must not overwhelm the prospective Master with questions either. You can and will learn much about the Master, his values and requirements by listening carefully. slave must not focus on what a prospective Master can do for her, but focus on what she as a slave can do for the Master. , then being owned, completely, absolutely and unconditional, and given the chance and opportunity to serve and please a good Master, seems not only like a vast improvement and reward over not being owned.
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If you are interested in talking with me.
Read all of my journal entries.I have hidden comments below some of the writings I have saved from the web.
I'm sure you can guess why. To see if you have read all of my profile.
You may find answers or at least insights into some of the questions you may have before you write me.
I'm looking for a woman. That will be opened to her true nature.What she really wants to be. Sure she can do somethings on her own she can find sex anywhere. There are men that will fuck anyone anytime any place.
Swing parties, gang bangs,adult movies theaters.
Do you find that you are not drawn to it in those ways or places.
TCC.
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I found this somewhere on the web a few years ago came across it again while cleaning up some flash drives.
There is something about
Being pushed up against a wall,
face first Cheek resting on rough wallboard
Breath caught in your throat
Listening to the growling in your ear
And trying to remember your own name
There's something about being
Pushed up against a wall
Your back flat up against it
Staring straight into eyes that see through you
Swallowing hard
Waiting for your heart to start beating again
There's something about
Being made to crawl across the floor To a seated Man,
staring into your eyes
Not letting you not look at Him
Not letting you stumble
Drawing you to Him without a word
Trembling, a whimper caught in your throat
There's something about
Being pulled up by your hair
Feeling that hand slink up your neck
Into your tresses, close to the scalp
Grabbing, gripping it, guttural sounds emitting from His lips
The pain not nearly as strong as the urge
To cry or bite a hole through your bottom lip
There's something about
Being bitten Especially on the back of the neck or nipple
Feeling His teeth so close to piercing you
Wondering, as you cry out, if He will, this time
Wondering, if you're going to bleed for your Submission
There's something about
Being bent over the back of a chair, without warning
Without pretense, without question
Having your skirt flipped up, cool air hitting hot skin
Your cheeks blushing, with the same color of your ass
As He warms it with the striking of the palm of His hand
The tears you cry not cooling you
The tears you cry because He has found you
There's something about
Those words He uses Those names He calls you
Those phrases meant to elicit a response
And you do respond
All of you responds
And your body betrays you, always
There's something about
Being thrown down and taken
Not against your will
For your will is to be there
To please, to submit, to offer, to relinquish
And you cry out for breath, for more, for Him
And you know you are home
There's something about
Being drug in the shower
Forced to your knees
Hissed at for silence
Growled at to be still
And awaiting the flow
That you know Marks You as HIS
There's something about
Kneeling quietly beside Him
Your body bruised, reddened, coated, tired
Your mind silent, for once ~ for a time
Your head bowed, your eyes closed
Your lips quivering as His fingers touch you
Your submission, unquestioned
Your Peace at Hand
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From the web.
Her opinions no longer matter; not because they have been degraded away, but because they simply are not Master's opinions. Her feelings no longer matter; she has learned they will lead her astray. Her fears no longer matter, not because she has conquered them, but because she knows Master will see her through them. Her inabilities do not matter because they have no face in light of Master's instructions. Her dreams, hopes, and interests no longer matter. Master defines her dreams, possesses her hopes, and encompasses her interests. She has thoroughly realized that anything from 'self' does not matter. Master is ALL, and everything that matters comes from Him. she is Owned, and there is no greater bliss to be found for a slave's soul. Thank You, my God.
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I am into the majority of things you'd find in a typical checklist, and genuinely hunger for new things to try. Most ideas I see of things I like are typically best expressed in artwork rather than filmed porn, not to say I dislike the latter, but I prefer people I meet to be very open, and have a very creative mind. |
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A slave's submission comes from deep within her belly. If owned, she belongs to her Master completely (mind and body, heart and soul) and unconditionally. A slave girl's sole purpose is to be pleasing to men.
"Deep in the belly, too, of every female is a desire, more ancient than the caves, to be forced to yield to the ruthless domination of a magnificent, uncompromising male, a master; deep within them they all wish to submit, vulnerably and completely, nude, to such a beast. This is completely clear in their fantasies; Earth culture, of course, gives little scope to these blood needs of the beauties of our race; accordingly, these needs, frustrated, tend to express themselves in neurosis, hysteria and hostility.
"You are slave. You are owned. You are a female. You will be forced to be a woman. The Gorean man will accept no compromise on your femininity, not from a slave. She will be what he wishes, and that is a woman, fully, and his. If necessary, you will be whipped or starved. You may fight your Master. He will, if he wishes, allow this to prolong the sport of your conquest, but in the end, it is you who are slave, it is you who will lose.
"Q: What are you?
A: I am a slave girl.
Q: What is a slave girl?
A: A girl who is owned.
Q: Why do you wear a brand?
A: To show that I am owned.
Q: Why do you wear a collar?
A: That men may know who owns me.
Q: What does a slave girl want more than anything?
A: To please men.
Q: What are you?
A: I am a slave girl.
Q: What do you want more than anything?
A: To please men.
"'What are my duties?' I asked.
'Exquisite beauty and absolute obedience. |
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Found on the web.
Random thought. Heels suck, skirts are for girly girls, makeup makes you break out. But who the fuck cares a slave is a slave its not your choice. The reason for this thought is people have been complaining to me. Other slaves of course that they hate these things. Well guess what to bad, deal with it, instead of taking all that energy complaining. Why don't you put it into being happy that your in them. There is a reason if it makes your Master happy it should make you happy to. That is the way it goes... its life as a slave. You deal with what you have to because you love and care for and are devoted to your Master. If you are not happy or can not make sacrifices then this is not the life for you.
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If you are really submissive then this life has to be fully intoxicating to you.
It has to be as important to you as breathing.
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| Age: 29 |
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