Lets see I'll do the Poly part Here.
I was asked to do some PolyFi specific info.
I realized I was an adult Poly in 72 although we didn't call it that back then.

I was told by someone one of My girls had brought into our Home, That I had to choose.
Both girls were their , I covered up for the fight and chose both. Their was a lot of laughter followed by "Well He Chose" and we were left alone to work it out.
This went on for a year or so until we developed what we called a (TRIAD of three couples) interacting as a Family/PolyFidel unit until 1990. After the Triad fell apart I went through My Aesthetic period as Milady called it of what turned into 5 years of celibacy.

I find it interesting that I haven't had a "One night stand" in My life.
I didn't need to, I just asked My partner's for what I wanted.

Since then I/we have developed Gypsy clan a PolyFi Family of 8 to 10 people (off an on) all aware of each other sometimes interacting sexually or traveling to different country's/islands together and some cross country road trips.

I have also had two stretches of monogamy since 1990 ending only after they broke the trust or died.

I offer Honesty and openness, Admiration, Affection, Conversation, Financial support and Family commitment.

I feel like an addict chasing that first high, I keep seeking the happiness we had in our 18 year Triad.
The dream begins with a lover who believes in you, who tugs and pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a sharp stick called "reality"

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I was trained as a Service Oriented dom and bought my first pair of floggers in 67. I lived 24/7 and studied under two Lesbian Masters for 7 years. I am a toy maker as well mostly just spiceing up things every so often now, at Home and play parties.

I am a man who's known great love, a hopeless romantic since my teen years and it dosen't look like I will be changeing that either. I show daily effort in the relationshyp and I love takeing care of she who takes care of Me.

I am looking for someone to shair my life with and to help me with taking care of a 11 room Home and large yard. (Lol how's that for honest? Lol)