ok I am letting the cat out the bag ..... a lot of you subs on this site are full of it ... you are always complaining about the "doms" you meet on here and I do understand that attraction means a lot to some but in this lifestyle how should it really matter .... just saying isn't this lifestyle about mind control not finding the best looking one out there and when you get him and he dogs you out you edit your journal forever get real about this lifestyle ... go places do things within the lifestyle then you find what you are looking for ... and please stop being so damn choosy ..... hey you never klnow

I do and hope that I have the one on here finally she is sweet and speaks her mind.  I cannot wait for her to get here.  ANd yes I am willing to share her but there is a lot to do with kay so you have to contact me Dom or Domme/subs too to get with U/us. so let me know what you want to do with her....btw she is a bbw if thats not your thing move on.

How does one knows when their journey is complete? Is it when you meet the "Right One" or is it when you are "complete within your self".

You should get know yourelf before trying to control or submit to another. I see 18 to 21 yr olds on here talking about being Doms or Dommes are you kidding me, come on lets be real here they can bearly go into a bar much less control someone.  I want a sub but I want one who knows what they want not what they feel they want. If you are going to be a submussive live it feel it want to be it. Just dont say thats what you are just because you "think" thats what you are. Be willing to go through your training be an adult if this is what you want looks colour should not make a difference be who are not who you want to be.