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| "THE LOUDEST PERSON IN THE ROOM IS ALWAYS THE WEAKEST"
"THE MORE POWER ONE HAS, THE LESS KEYS THEY HAVE"
Someone recently went off on me for sending her a cut and paste email I send to everyone. Think about this... If I am not the same person with everyone, then I am not worth type on this screen. Yes, I tell everyone who and what I am.... the same who and what...
I am true anomaly. at 50, through hard work and a thirst for life, I am fortunate to be in incredible physical and mental condition. I challenge you to find a man 20 years younger in better shape. If age or any other personal hang-up's are an issue, move on.
Here's my belief....
A Dominant without Integrity (doing the right thing when no one is watching) is akin to giving a loaded gun to a child. To be given control should should be seen at as a great honor. A responsibility that comes with an unwritten code of unselfish service to another. The goal is to elevate, not to destroy. TO that's power comes from total control and abuse is criminal. The Cowards using a submissive for their selfish pleasures give BDSM a bad name. They, should be exposed, held accountable, and if jailed if appropriate.
I am a Dom by default. I Lead by example, insist on respect, and strive for a connection built on trust. A healthy dom/dub relationship is a beautiful thing, this Dom is not a fictional character with seven shades of anything, he is the real thing and that's a fact.When choosing a Dom remember that Sir, Master or Daddy added to a name does not a Dom make.
I'm into situations and people. Lil girl, every day of my incredible life I have hoped to experience new things and meet new people. Although the label of Dom fits me best I dislike labels. That said, if I had gotten up each day and went out looking for specific things and types of people, I would not have experienced a fraction of my incredible life. Fear limits people. Most feel they must control every experience and person in their lives. Many think this is the behavior of a Dom...
Control is far more mental than physical. The person who dominates by controlling everyone and everything is really NOT in control. They are living in fear and are ironically controlled by that fear. I am looking for a submissive/switch/slave who seeks a true teacher mentor and lover that will command respect by confidence, integrity, and real life experience.. actions rather than swords. When trust and respect is earned, control is given and trust fueled by respect is the foundation. From there, anything is possible. It sounds like horseshit but it is fact. Open minds are mandatory, closed hearts need not apply. My goal is a LTR with a person who sees me and my experiences as the way they want to live. At that point open minds. as they have every time previously, will allow us to design a life that works for us. I Dominate not by fear and intimidation, rather by respect and trust. Please don't get it twisted however... if im shown disrespect the penalty is great and punishment is administered. Think about life... The LOUDEST MAN IN THE ROOM... IS THE Weakest. I am a professional screenwriter and musician who changed direction 10 years ago to pursue art travel, and personal relationships over a successful business career. I live in the Phx metro area with my dog Buddha.
NOTE.... cam verification is mandatory at the beginning. I have wasted countless hours being scammed by fake profiles. If you aren't willing don't bother. If you don't understand why I ask, your fake and I'm not interested. Thank you.
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