The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)

Dominant male seeking submissive woman for friendship first and if our personalities create a chemical reaction then almost anything is possible. While there are many submissives on www.collarme.com it only takes one to be the right one and I have the patience needed until she makes herself known.

I am financially secure ... self employed so my time is my own. Know how to enjoy the better things in life but comfortable just being real and relaxed.

Hard limits NO poly or men for me, scat, cutting, branding, fire play, breath control, switching, enemas, needle play, knife play, or polyamory. Beyond these I am very open minded and open to discussion on just about anything. I believe in SSCRD as the R stands for respect (which goes both ways) being a /s doesn't mean doormat. D stands for discretion. There is ample time for play in the right surroundings without shocking the sensibilities of the vanilla world. Exhibitionism is great but done with discretion.

Some of the attributes of my ideal sub...
A woman who truly desires and enjoys being a submissive and finds contentment being enveloped in my world yet can be her own person as needed. I have had my share of posers and wannabees. Those kind may get by for a while but eventually their true nature comes through. Games are for kids.

Smarts... both book and street smart with just a touch of Smart -Ass.

Which bring me to the next attribute ...a sense of humor.

A woman who takes pride in her appearance. Sorry but BBW doesn't work for me and I know some fine BBW's but if the chemistry isn't right... it isn't right.

Sexual adventurer... while I am interested in only one /s and have no interest in poly I enjoy a /s who is open to new things and finds the more the merrier a welcum part of her lexicon. Enjoys being the consummate lady with the desire to be a slut ready to surface when the opportunity presents itself.

Plays well with others both in the vanilla and lifestyles.

Want to know me? Contact me.

Bob