I'm not your typical Dom... I don't want to micro-manage your life; I prefer women who feel capable and independent. I'm not interested in pushing your limits. This isn't a contest, and we're not keeping score. Nor are we adversaries. However, if there's something you want to try, well, we'll see where it takes us. I want the full package: to be friends, lovers, true partners. Perhaps we can better characterize our dynamic as: I like to lead, you like to follow. I believe D/s should be an affirmation of our relationship, rather than the purpose for it. I have lots of interests other than D/s, and I'm guessing you do, too. The kind of "lifestyle" I'm interested in incorporates all of that. I'm not too interested in what previous experience you have/don't have. I feel the experience that really matters is the experience we create together.

Some things about me: I'm a calm, easy-going kind of guy. Sense of humor, manners, someone who will make a nice impression on your friends or family. Intelligent, professional, college graduate, gainfully employed. Forty-nine years old, but look somewhat younger than my years. I work-out/keep in shape, have a "runner's build". Not quite the hairline of my youth, but not folically-challenged, either. Average to good-looking, as the situation requires.