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I am WORTH getting to know and you should be too. Trivializing the importance of d/s at the core makes me angry and sad all in one.
YOU:
Must have clarity your in vision.
Make fear your friend, not your master.
Have the Commitment to cultivating positive experiences & thoughts.
Consistently
Strength & confidence
Ability to control the response to any situation.
Honesty
Have exstensive or willing to obtain knowledge in pyschology
About Me:
I have many titles and labels and none fit me 100% I am not an 'objectivism' or a 'constitutionalists' or an 'atheist. I am no more a mouthpiece for Rand than I am an echo of De Sade. I am an image of my up bringing and resemble many of my heroes and teachers. But my own quest is only the search for truth and reason. And it is truth and reason that I defend, promote and repeat. Regardless of the source. (but giving due credit where appropriate of course) To try to define me by a word coined by another is to try to confine me to a concept that belonged to someone else. Whether I identify with it in whole or in part, such a concept is no more mine that was their mind and their combined life experiences.I am a product of my experiences and imagination, and crave the vast amount of Mastery that comes with such an undeniable lack of fear. As each day passes, to find myself evolving.I am a 'myself' - I seek to be nothing more and will never be any more or less.The point is not that my philosophy may or may not be indistinguishable from another, but that it is not the philosophy of another. It is solely mine. Labels in that context serve to confine and limit, not simply to define and elaborate. I beat to my own drum. I don't necessarily prescribe to any one dogma, philosophy or political party. I seek truth and reason in all things. Not that I always find them though. But I continue the search because it is important to my well-being. I respect others who do the same.
I believe in the development of his OWN self....
I would have no trouble using the labels if only for simplifying identification. So Switch, top, Bottom, Submissive, Masochist, Sadomasochist, kinky, Dominate, Conservative, objectvist, bitch, cunt, slut...whatever label you choose , it is of no consequence. My existence is not defined by your validation. I live my life based on my thoughts, beliefs, and standards. I do not expect you condone, understand, accept, embrace. However trying to disassemble them does not make your any more correct then I am. I have either certain disagreement or uncertainty about facets of many generally-applied definitions. I define myself and how I live my life
HOBBIES:
Psychology ,Philosophy, Metaphysics, objective reality,Epistemology, reason, Ethics, rational self-interest, Politics (individual rights and capitalism),Free -Thought, Aesthetics,Gardening, Arts and crafts, Sewing( pillows,slip covers,quilts, clothing, corsets, period costumes, crinolines, petticoats, and cos play, costumes), music, Performance art, cos play,Renaissance fares, Poi, (Hoops, fans, staff, double staff,) martial arts,Sci fiction, movies, history, science, reading, poetry, baking, canning( food preparation),mediation, yoga, exercise,Animal rescuing, & creative writing.
I am a Dominant Switch female. emphasses on the Dominant. I have a preferrence in dating/playing with Dominant males or sadistic switch men. I am NOT seeking oen time play or casual sex. However, this does not mean we have to be 'dating" just a sincere honest respect between adults. Because,Ii am so dominant myself you must be secure and not easily offended when your companions don't bow to your will in all arenas. I am interested with right male in researching, testing, and finding my bottom/subside and how far it can go. if you like taking me down from top space to bottom space then i very well be your gal.
Want to know if we click? Try an actual conversation. Perhaps we will click. Perhaps not. We won't know until we try.
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Hello,
This is to help add some additional information and perhaps clear up some questions you may have when considering on contacting me.
I am a strong, independant woman, with a classic Type A Dominant personality. I am NOT seeking slaves nor submissives. I am seeking a peer male who indeintifies as a Dominant or a Sadistic Switch.
I am not a doormat, I will NOT accept anything else then what works for me. I have been in the "lifestyle" if you wish to call it that for 24 years now. I am not a newbie and I seek dominant men only. NOT aggressive, power hungry, bossy immature fuckwits who think talking dirty to me will peak my interest. I desire substance.
Tell me about yourself. Engage in real conversations as two humans beings and seek someone who wants to get to know you as a person not a potenial orgasm facilator. I am NOT passive, shy, fragile, or need a daddy to pamper my ass. I need a partner who has the same intensity and fire within your soul as I have.
** I am NOT willing to relocate, but some distance is ok for the right person.
** I am NOT looking for a sub, slave, or slaves.
**I am NOT looking one night stands, gang bangs, bisexual experiences, or anythign that doesn't involve some form of emotional involvement on some level.
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| Age: 31 |
| Pacioma,
California |
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