Occasionally I receive a message asking why I do this.  By "this", I assume the sender means why I dominate or why I search for slaves.  To Me a slave is property, a tool with a specific purpose.  My main purpose in taking a slave is for My amusement in using and training it.  I am entertained by, among other things, its humiliation, degradation, suffering of pain, and dealing with fear and even some occasional doubt.  I enjoy controlling them and denying them fulfillment of certain needs and desires.  But I believe I derive the most satisfaction from sharing and witnessing their discoveries of tremendous strengths they were unaware they had, and abilities that they never knew they were capable of.  It is deliciously rewarding to raise a slave from its submissive infancy and watch it grow and develop into a well-trained toy/tool.  Those are My reasons for dominating. Those reasons are why I search for slaves.

There seems to be some confusion regarding My desire for a no-limits slave. I do not expect anyone to truly believe that they can do absolutely anything at all with no hesitation whatsoever. That is wholly unrealistic. Entering into any D/s relationship, submissives reasonably have their fears as well as their social upbringing and past experiences to contend with regarding their limits and whether they feel they could ever participate in certain activities. That's understandable. What is neither understandable nor permissible, is an unwillingness in a sub/slave to be wide open to the idea that in time, with the development of trust and devotion, they could eventually reach a point where they could not only enthusiastically engage in those activities without question, but also actually crave them for the purpose of pleasing their Dominant/Owner. It isn't as though I'm going to command anyone to saw off body parts, or have a well-hung slave fuck a chihuahua, or anything else insane or unsafe. I am extreme in My tastes but I am NOT unreasonable.

And while we're on limits...for those who feel the need to list "children" as a limit - have you really ever come across anyone who DID want you to do something with kids? Do you honestly have a sincere expectation of children being involved in your service? Does anyone in this lifestyle REALLY involve children in their BDSM activities? If so, that is NOT BDSM and those are NOT Dominants. Those are perverts who - without the benefit of genitalia - belong in confined quarters for life. That or a casket.