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Hello all you terrific people out there! I am part of a group of people who are actively working towards living and loving together. The problem is we have more women then men! If you believe you can only love "the ONE", and that monogamy is the only way for you, then you will want to stop reading now.
Ok, for the few that make it this far...Have you ever thought about living with a houseful of people you like, some you love, and a number of them you play with? Does the idea of coming home at night and having a group of people be interested in how your day was appeal to you? Can you share several submissive women with other Doms? Like to play games, watch movies, work on computers, travel, eat out, eat in, and lots of other things? Are you 40 or older? Local to NOVA/DC? Open minded, fun, intelligent, well read, and Dom? Is your life about more than just sex, but sex is still important? Then contact me!
We are all over 40, and currently we are a Dom, a Domme, and two sub females. The Dom is not bi, the rest of us are. We dont all currently live together, but are working towards that, and are looking for a few more people to join us. We do spend a lot of time together, maybe you could join us?
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NOT CURRENTLY MEETING ANYONE NEW-life is good, our cup runneth over!
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A new year, and apparantely a need to update my profile! Some of you have confused being polyamorous with being a swinger, or believe the terms are interchangeable. For me, and for those like me, they are not. I have nothing against swingers, but I do not casually have sex with strangers. More importantly, I cannot submit to just any guy with a crop. There has to be a connection, and a relationship involved. It doesnt happen overnight (mostly), but we are looking to add people to our family that will be there for each other for the rest of our lives, so there is no hurry.
Stated simply, we are not looking for scene players, or men who have a vanilla relationship and just want a little play on the side. If you have a significant other who you are not willing to introduce us to, please dont contact us. I am not willing to help you cheat on your partner. We do not want to waste our time meeting people who just want to drop by occasionally for sex. There are plenty of married people on this site who are looking for someone to play with, they arent hard to find, so go play with them.
One last thing-we are real, and willing to meet if there is any mutual interest. If you arent willing to meet fairly soon after talking, please dont contact me. We have had a couple of seemingly normal Doms contact me, we have exchanged a few emails and talked on the phone, then arranged a meeting. Right after that the guy either disappears, or gives some lame excuse about why he cant meet at the last minute, and we never hear from him again. I dont believe aliens are abducting Doms from Virginia, so the more likely reason for this is that they are not single, and wanted to play with BDSM online. Nothing wrong with that, as long as both people are looking for that kind of relationship. There are plenty of email only people on this site, please stick to playing with them and give us a pass.
I hope this makes things a little clearer. It is not my wish to waste anyone's time, or have them waste ours. The key in any good relationship is finding people who want the same things that you do. Life is short, why waste time and energy on people who are not compatible?
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December is also beautiful, but in a different way. The leaves are all on the ground, and they crunch underfoot. It is colder, darker, and even the light is different. Now you go home from work in the dark, and if you are lucky you get to drive up and see lights on, and go inside to be greeted by people and warmth and noise. December makes you appreciate being home. Your bed is softer and warmer than before, books are more tempting, you notice texture more... Dont you agree? |
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Isnt October beautiful? The weather has been beautiful: the days are sunny and warm, and the nights are cool and clear! The leaves are starting to change-most of the trees in my yard are still green, but they are getting hints of yellow and orange in them too. I looked out my backdoor this morning and there were two deer in my backyard. October just makes me happy!
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It is already the end of September! Man, this year is just whizzing by! But I love this time of year. The leaves start changing, the air is crisp when you get up in the morning, and cool at night. It wont be long before it feels good to cuddle again! I design jewelry, and have been making some really beautiful chains lately. I am working on designing a collar that can be worn as jewelry, so that the rest of the world doesnt know it is a collar, but there is enough heft to it that the person wearing it knows EXACTLY what it is. I love that feeling: the weight of it at the base of my throat, remembering when it was placed on me, and by whom...is it hot in here, or is it just me?
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Ok, back to the drawing board. Maybe prayer will work...
Oh ye Gods of the Internet, hear me! Are there any SANE, intelligent, funny, articulate, LOCAL, mature, single/unattached Doms without a mountain of baggage out there? I mean men who have actually played in real life, who are not brand new to BDSM, have some idea of what to do with a sub if he gets his hands on one, and likes the idea of getting his hands on a few select subs?
I am not greedy, I dont need them all, but is asking to find ONE too much? I have been a REALLY good girl, honestly, and I have tried to keep my sense of humor about the parade of toads you have so far sent my way, but PLEASE! What sacrifice do you want, what does a girl have to do to find a normal man over 40 who also likes BDSM? My spirit is willing, but my flesh is weak, meaning I am starting to think you arent listening.
OK, I am going outside to wish on the Perseids. I know they arent falling stars, but they are pretty all the same, and nothing else has worked, maybe wishing on a meteor shower will!
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A local radio station played Christmas songs all day yesterday, because it was 6 months until December 25th. Can you believe this year is half over? Listening to Christmas music in the heat of July annoyed me at first, but then it made me think about all the nice things that have happened since the holidays last year, and reminded me of all the things I am grateful for in my life!
To those of you that I have been blessed with as friends, and those of you who have taken the time to say a kind word, thank you. I appreciate the effort and care, and I want you to know that! For those of you who test my patience, thanks! You make me try harder, and you make me appreciate the first group even more!
So, all together now "Dashing through the snow, in a one horse open sleigh, over the fields we go, laughing all the way..."
Happy July to all!
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Hello again! This entry is not for the dweebs who STILL send me one line letters, because they apparantely cant read. This is for all the nice men and women who HAVE read my profile and the two rants I have written so far, and who write to tell me they think my profile is good! One Dom wrote to say he hoped HNGs continued to write one liners, because he enjoyed my rant so much! To those of you who have taken the time to write and say "Keep your chin up, dont get discouraged!" or just to say that you like what I have written, I would like to say in return:
Thank you for the kind words, and encouragement!
It is nice to know that my profile is being seen, and that there are people who understand and want the same thing, even if they are not in a position to join. So, while I may have to continue to wade through a sea of flotsam, there are still treasures to be found!
We have met one such treasure so far, and while it is early, I am hopeful. So I will keep looking, hopeing that we find the right people to join us!
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Ok, more pointers. You have read my profile, now please process the information before you write. PLEASE BE LOCAL. Since that is a hard concept to understand, if you are not close enough to meet for coffee or dinner without having to make overnight plans, please skip us, you are NOT local. If you are in the DC area 2 or 3 times a year, but the rest of the time you are 200 miles or more away, you are NOT local. Local means I could call or email you around 5 and ask if you were free for dinner that night, and you would have some likelyhood of being able to make it. That is local. Are we on the same page now?
Next problem, I am part of a POLY family, we are looking for other POLY Doms. I appreciate that my lifestyle isnt for everyone, I really do. I was monogamous for many years, I understand the appeal of looking for "The One!", and truly wish you the best in your seach. Really! However, that is not what we are looking for, and I have tried to state that as clearly as I can. So, again, READ MY PROFILE, look up any words you dont understand, and DONT CONTACT ME IF YOU DONT SHARE EASILY. We are ALL about sharing! The more the merrier, everyone getting all the attention they want, everyone having their needs met. Telling me you wont share me with other Doms (especially since we already have one who would NOT appreciate this!) will earn you a quick "Thanks, but no thanks!" letter.
If you have always NOT shared, and find this concept intriguing, dandy, I am happy to discuss, but state clearly in your letter that you are not looking to join us, just want an academic discussion.
If you have a profile (TERRIFIC!!), and it says that you are looking for the one, dont share, want a straight heterosexual submissive, and you write to me anyway, please explain WHY you are writing to me. I read profiles as soon as I get email from new people, and if you write me a nice letter saying you are very interested in meeting, and then I ready a gushy profile talking about treating your precious One as the sacred chalice/dirty slut she is and never sharing her, it appears to me that your profile isnt getting you any play, so you think if you write to the party poly girls they might hook you up. While we are willing participants in some interesting play, it is only with people we have RELATIONSHIPS with. A letter or two, and a meeting for drinks will earn you...another meeting for drinks, maybe dinner. And that, oohhh boys, that will lead to...dinner at my house. Then, OMG, it might lead to dinner AND a movie! Holy cow! Then who knows, maybe even a whole afternoon hanging out with all of us at my house...Get the picture? You arent getting laid until we all know you, all care about you, and all think you might be a dandy addition to our little family. You cant fake your way in, it isnt going to happen overnight. We are lots of fun, but we are SERIOUS about what we want. I respect your right to look for what you want, and I wouldnt dream of writing to a Dom that has a profile looking for a monogamous partner I would be wasting his valuable time, and mine. Dont waste your time on me if you are not SERIOUSLY wanting to join a Poly family, and dont waste my time either. I am a funny, FUN person to be with, but using this site to try to find a Dom is turning me into a grouch! The first 100 one line, or clearly wrong emails I got were just amusing. But it is the rule rather than the exception now, for every real Dom I get an email from I have to wade though 20 idiotic letters from clueless dweebs. How depressing is that?
Welcome Jim, your mission, if you choose to accept it, is to rescue the poor poly girl from the horney net geeks (HNGs) harrassing her! If you are caught, the IMF will disavow any knowledge of your existance. This profile will self destruct in five seconds. Good luck!
(Mission impossible theme music starts)
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I respond to every letter I get, BUT I am getting tired of receiving letters from guys who cant be bothered to write a profile and then they write me an inane, boring one line letter that says something useless like "tell me more". Alright, in an effort to save time, here is more.
Dear Reader, I spent a lot of time writing a profile that says who we are, and goes into some detail saying what we are looking for. If you think you might like to join us, DO NOT WRITE ME A ONE LINE LETTER. Instead, write a well crafted letter that says who you are, and why you think you would like to get to know us better. What is unique about you that would make us want to invite you to join us? This is especially important for those of you who havent bothered to write a profile! When I get your email, you are a complete blank to me. You read my profile, and something in it made you want to talk to me. While I am a stranger to you, at least you get some sense of who I am and what I am looking for. I deserve the same courtesy from you.
If you cant be bothered to write a decent letter, please dont write at all. You are wasting your time, and mine. Worse, you are making me lose my sense of humor, and I am starting to think all Doms are dweebs.
For those of you who are actually Doms (not just pretending to be one online) and are also not dweebs, and are local to us, please DO contact us. We are waiting to meet you!
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| Age: 44 |
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