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FullyAlive

"We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves." ������������������������� - Francois de La Rochefoucauld � Thank you for reading my profile.� I'm a submissive with strong slave tendencies.� I'm looking for more than casual play partners.� Ideally, I'd like to be in an exclusive relationship with a dominant man that appears vanilla to the outside world, friends and family, but fully in control at all times; correcting or adjusting my actions with a look, touch, word or gesture.� I'm drawn to a 1950s, domestic discipline type of relationship that involves maintenance spankings often. � I do enjoy meeting new people but I really want something intense, romantic, passionate, and meaningful.� I'm a professional woman by day, and have a strong need to submit and serve outside of my work life.� I'm a fun, intelligent and giving person; a good mother and a trustworthy friend.� � The man I submit to will know when to push and when to pull back.� I'm intense, loving, honorable and obedient.� I have a lot to learn and am eager to broaden my experiences for the pleasure of another.� I am not at all interested in men who seek multiple play partners, men who are married, or men who are looking for a casual relationship. I'm online interested in men who are looking to find a woman to call their own for years to come. If you're looking for casual hook-ups or one of many, I wish you well, but that's to me. �
6/22/2014 9:13:11 AM
If you are someone else's husband, please don't email me. I'd really appreciate it.
9/22/2013 2:32:23 PM

I'm noticing what I think is a concerning trend.  Three of the last four dominant men I've talked to here are looking for a place to live, are on disability, are unemployed, or any combination of the three.

 I thought dominant men were just that.  For the record, I won't be supporting a man or providing him shleter.

9/17/2013 11:19:35 AM

I just came across this quote:

 

"Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as true strength".

- St. Frances de Sales

 

How very true.  I don't think I'll ever understand those who think dominance is brutality.

6/3/2013 5:02:26 PM
I'm re-reading Thomas Hardy's "Far From the Madding Crowd" and this line moved me: "When a strong woman wrecklessly throws away her strength she is worse than a weak woman who has never had any strength to throw away."
12/11/2012 9:25:09 AM

I'm hopeful that I will find a loving, stern dominant male who understands that a slave best serves in an environment where she feels treasured; disciplined and held accountable - cetrainly - but all the while loved.

12/7/2012 12:14:35 AM
"You are too strong willed" According to whom and by what measure? Am I less of a slave because I won't submit to a text message or an illusion of a man? Admittedly I have real experience with only one or two, but what does real mean? To me it means I wake up in your bed, in your house, in our home, where I serve you. Eventually. There is so much for me to learn. I'm a student here and you are a teacher; a trainer; and a protector. Do you deposite 4 year olds in a room full of books and say "after you have taught yourself to read you will be worthy of mathematics"? And what if they stumble? What then? Does the teacher use his skill and knowledge to train in a way that is meaningful to his subject, or does he simply move to step 4 before his charge fully understands step 2? There are no short cuts I think. This is hard work on both ends. A Master masters. A charge learns in love and discomfort. Absence isn't a teacher; it reinforces every fear a slave ever had. It's the antithesist of learning and progress. There is nothing too difficult for a slave who loves and feels loved by her owner. Limits don't exist.
12/2/2012 11:43:01 AM
I've always wondered why many Dominant men seem so angry all the time. Where's the joy in that?
Desire66
 
 Age: 45
 St. Louis, Missouri