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Read my journal below, entry made on July 2nd, 2005, at 4:20 PM, to find what I am expecting. Expectations for females are first, at the top, and those for males are at the bottom of the same entry. I'm trying to make this easy so I don't get so many that are incompatible to me emailing me. I then have to explain, all over again, why it won't work out between the two of us, mainly regarding the men. This is getting old, tiresome, stupid, and I am running out of patience.


If you do not read, I know you do not listen, and I do not want any slave that does not listen, and listens very well, too.

I want to find a girl that can relocate to me, or is already living in the area, who would fit into the opening I have for a nanny/maid/cook and more intimate slave to my male (dominant) partner (more in my journal about that below, entry on July 2nd, 4:20 PM).


I did not choose couple status because I will be picking the girl, as my main focus for her will be as a domestic to me, and I am also seeking a male slave to assist with things around the house. Oftentimes, he can expect to be confined to a cage or tethered to a secure spot. The girl would be given much greater freedom than he would receive, but her responsibilities would also be much more complex. He will also continue in whatever occupation he is currently at, or he will obtain employment. I am not a "sugar mama" to my male slaves.

I am straight, and not into "dining at the Y", but then again, I am not averse to using strapons or other toys on my slaves. They should both expect dildo training (to keep her open and pliable for my partner, and to keep any male slaves in a state of humiliation and dread of the next session), and he should expect CBT, and lots of it, too.

It has been some time since I have had a live-in, but I do miss it a great deal.

My partner has no interest in my male slaves, but he would expect to be able to video and photograph the female, in various circumstances. There will also be times when she will be expected to serve in my dungeon as an example, and also as a co-Mistress to me. This girl would have rights over the male slave, as would be discussed and decided upon. The male's orgasms would be controlled, of course. Not always denied, but always controlled.

I am a very busy woman, and do not wish for my young child, to have to wait for anything because of something going on with me or my life. In other words, if the baby wants or needs something and I cannot be there instantaneously, I expect whichever girl I have here to do what needs done.  I enjoy children a great deal, but they are very time consuming, and i don't want the baby to go without, on anything. I want a girl that is dependable, intelligent, patient, loyal, hardworking, tireless, good with children, and healthy to live here. If she were to have a very young child of her own, or want one later, that might be agreeable to me.

7/21/2005 8:31:49 PM
Rant in general:  Why can't any of the women who are willing to be owned by a couple relocate?  I want someone who can deal with real household duties, know how to satisfy my partner, and of all things, help out with child care.  The ones that I know can do all this, and well, too, are too far away and can't relocate.  But I do understand vanilla stuff plays a major role in not being able to relocate...  I wish you all the best of luck. 
7/14/2005 7:27:02 AM
Yes, I will still consider those males who have couple status, so if you have been talking to me already, make sure your profile is couple, not male, status so I receive your email.  Don't expect me to search for it in the bulk folder when you can remedy the problem easily.  Now, keep reading......
7/14/2005 7:23:40 AM

NOTICE!  NOTICE!  NOTICE!

All mail from male slaves will now go into the bulk folder of my mailbox.

I'm not going to waste any more time on those who have a habit of collecting stories and fantasy snippets from various Mistresses on here, myself included, nor am I going to have ongoing conversations with male slaves who state they are interested only for me to find they have deleted their own profiles the very next day.  I'll go to yahell for that.  Now, I am only going to concentrate on finding my female slave/nanny here, and forget about the male.  The females might be more comfortable knowing there won't be a lot of males around here, anyways.  Too many games from these males here on collarme, and the females have probably had their full of them also.  If you do go to yahell and contact me there, I will require that your profile is completely filled out.  NO EXCEPTIONS!!!  If I am going to have a male slave living with me again, he is going to be as serious about this as I am, and he's going to be able to show me clearly that he is serious.  Other than that, I am no longer interested.  Whine all you want.  I don't really care.

7/8/2005 4:38:45 PM
I'll be back next Thursday afternoon.  If I do log on and check your email, don't freak out because I didn't reply.  I will reply, starting next Thursday.  I'm going to be working on things around the house that seriously need my attention.
7/5/2005 5:15:46 PM

This is a list, from my interest list, with clarifications as to who, meaning myself or my partner, or both, is interested in them, and some more info: 

 CBT - Myself, cock & ball torture of the male slave

 Breath Control - Myself, both slaves, most likely, depending on how receptive she is to it in the dungeon when used as an example for education sessions for couples who visit

 Chastity Belts - Myself, occassional use, but caging with hands tied behind the back, and a dildo inserted, also works quite well, too

 Chastity Piercing - My partner, he does his own piercings, and has many years experience with various styles

 Cuckolding / Forced to Watch - Both of us, as he doesn't mind being watched, so I might have the male slave watch as the female slave is used by my partner, and then to clean her up afterwards

 Enema Training & Conditioning - Both of us, him as a fetish with the female slave, and myself as a punishment for either of the slaves

 Fire Play - Both of us, mainly as wax play

 Forced Crossdressing - Myself, and this does NOT mean I am seeking a crossdresser, as this is done as a punishment, not as a reward

 Watersports - My partner, doubtful to be done on the male slave, except if my partner is pissed (don't pardon the pun) at him, and he's found the male slave caged in the basement, and no, i won't clean you up, so you'll be stuck like that for some time

 Knife Play - Myself, simply as a part of bondage "games"

 Medical Scenes - Both of us, we have our own "stuff", ranging from an enema bag with stand to specula, including a lot of good stuff in between

 Needle Play - Both of us, and fits in with piercings above, and also medical above

 Strap-ons - Myself, used on both slaves, and this is something my partner will most likely wish to watch when it is something that involves the female slave, as this is something that I use to keep her open for my partner, who most likely will make use of her after I am done; regarding the male slave, it's usually done as a punishment, and also might be taped

 Orgasm Denial - Myself, used on the male slave, for punishment and control, although I will allow some orgasms to occur

 Single Tails - Myself, on both slaves  

 Spanking & Flogging - Both of us, we have a large collection of paddles for punishment and "fun"

 Objectification - Myself, using both slaves in varying situations

 Training Submissive Couples - Both of us, the rest of the profile and the journal speaks for this alone

 Tattoos - Myself, it should have mentioned brands, also, as I am also open to this for the right slave(s)

 Caging - Myself, this is where the male slave would spend a great deal of his time when not needed elsewhere 

Any questions?    Ask me.

7/2/2005 4:19:34 PM

For the record:  Send an email, NOT a chat invite, because even though it may look like I am here, I might be doing something else.  The ones that send email, well, I will read them when I can.  Those that send chat invites will most likely end up feeling ignored.

Also for the record:  I am putting more effort into finding a girl to come here than I am into finding a male.  Male slaves are a dime a dozen, I've found.  The girl I want needs to be one of a kind, or nearly so.

7/2/2005 2:20:33 PM

For the girls:
The girl's daily routine would depend a lot on my schedule, as well as my partner's.  He is a manager at a liquor store, although neither of us drink.  His hours vary a great deal. 


I intend to breastfeed, and pump for when the baby and I are not together, which would be fed to the baby instead of formula.  It's much easier than preparing formula, though, as it would just need to be thawed to room temp. 


There would be the typical household chores to be done, such as dishes, meal preparation, cleanup, sweeping/vaccuuming and mopping, and also seasonal work, such as helping me in the garden.  I also like to sew, various things, so there will be times when you will help with that, including trying things on while I fit them to you, sort of like a live dress model. 


Sex-wise, that would be mainly his area, and he enjoys anal with his girls, as well as some vaginal, but either way, it will mainly be use with toys before and sometimes during sex.  That would mean stretching/dilation, as he likes toys sometimes while he is also inside you.  You most likely would fit into the cage I have downstairs, if need be.  He's not into bondage as a rule, but he knows what he is doing when he does tie a girl up.  He likes to videotape, and also photograph various things his girls do sexually, solo or with him. 


Also, he does his own piercings, and he is into giving enemas, gyno exams (we have our own specula), golden showers, fisting (both vaginal and anal), so these must be kept stretched or you'll rip, and that's not good, and just generally being obeyed.  He likes to be waited on, and he does deserve it, as he's a very hardworking man, and not just at work.


I attend classes on campus, most semesters, and other semesters, on campus clases with online classes.  During these times, you would be responsible for the baby.  He would not expect you to leave the baby and take care of him, unless the baby was content with where she is, or she is sleeping. 


As for other things, there are several that you might want to engage in, but we wouldn't force you to do, as some see them as rewards, and others see them as punishments.  These would be for you to also attend college, and/or to dance at one of the clubs, as we've both worked in them and know most of the people there.  The dancing would be on an occasional basis, though, as long term just isn't good for most girls mentally.  We'd have to know you better to completely decide on that issue.


When you did need to be punished, it would most likely be myself, and not my partner, who administered it.  I have a collection of paddles, of various sizes and materials, as well as other things that will be sure to get your attention.  Which ones do you "like" and which ones do you "detest"?  I'm very experienced at giving punishments, but I also know that some enjoy them, and others need them as maintenance.  Which type are you?  Or do you have more than one?  I guess you could say he is a dominant man who enjoys kinky sex, and I'm the disciplinarian.  However, he will use his paddle on occassion, which is actually a game paddle, I'm not sure which sport, but it is about three feet long, with a one foot handle.  The paddle part has a beveled back, not flat like the front side.  Extremely sturdy.  Most likely, I would prepare you a bit before he was scheduled to get off work, since he usually does not have time.  He and I do not live together, although we might sometime in the future.


As for your dress, I'd want you to wear something that was decent, although pretty, around the house, such as a nice top and cute jeans or shorts/skirt, but nothing completely sluttish.  Overuse of such things decreases their effect when they are worn.  It would be better if they were worn for him to see, instead of as a typical "uniform".  I also have a teenaged son that is living here, so the less teasing of him thru sexy dressing, the better. 


Regarding any breeding of you, that is something that would have to be discussed between the three of us, but mainly between him and yourself. 


If I had a male slave living here, you would have rights over him to ensure he assisted you with things around the house, such as taking the garbage out, mowing the grass, raking leaves, shoveling snow, trimming bushes, and the like.  I doubt that sex between the two of you would occur, unless I wanted to see him cuckolded after you were with my partner.  I'm not the jealous type, but rather like to explain what my partner likes and enjoys, and then to watch how well you please him.  Disappointing him would not be a good thing to do. 


I'd expect you to help with sessions in the dungeon as needed, but I understand that not all girls have the aptitude to do an excellent job of it.  It's been a while since I have done sessions in the dungeon, as we wanted to totally redo the dungeon, and then I became pregnant.  So for now, it's on hold.


Where you would sleep would depend on several things:  is the cage already occupied?  Or is it empty?    Have I told you that it will be your turn to take care of the baby overnight, so I can really rest?  There will be times when you are on the floor inthe front room, or on the couch, or in the cage in the basement, or even in my room at the foot of the bed.


For the males:
I'm seeking someone that can also serve as an example in the dungeon, for labor around the house, as a chauffeur, preferably with his own vehicle, and a general handyman around the house.  he will be expected to obtain and keep outside employment, but when he is not at work, he will be confined to a cage or tethered when not needed to do work here.

All of his orgasms will be controlled, and many (if he is a typical male) that he hopes for will be denied.  There may be at times when he is cuckolded by my partner and any slavegirls my partner has used, but trust me, I most likely will watch as well.

I enjoy practicing CBT, and I like to see how much a person can endure.  If serious pain is a problem for you, then I am not the Mistress you seek.  I am ONLY interested in long term ownership, nothing less than a 3 year contract will do.  Most likely you would spend a great deal of time in the cage, even though you would be quite cramped up. 

fevrepants
 
 Age: 25
 Small city, California