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“Because he took his time getting to know me, and letting me get to know him. And he was willing to take more time if needed or requested.
“Because he engages my mind as much as he engages my body. And he engages my body a lot.
“Because he's understood that the quickest way to my heart is through my mind.
“Because he's smart in a way that completes my own intelligence. But he's humble about it. Which adds to his sexy as fuck quotient.
“Because he's not overly controlling (for me). He gives me space to roam, knowing that the act will only endear him to me.
“Because he tugs on the proverbial leash when it's needed. And he's never done so wrongly.
“Because he listens to me, and really hears what I say.
“Because I trust him implicitly. I feel safe with him.
“Because he has a quiet strength about him. A strength that is not about showing off or impressing anyone (even me). And I've come to depend on that strength.
“Because I made it hard for him at first. But he didn't give up.”
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“Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself..... The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer--because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut.”
― Ayn Rand
"Animus dream characters tend to change form and develop over time, often reflecting a female’s conception of an ideal man at that time of her life. During her childhood, he is a father-figure. During her teenage years, animus is portrayed as a man of action, of strength and muscle. He’s the quarterback of the football team, the Tarzan to her Jane, the rebel, the man of adventure. He continues to evolve through stages—the house-husband type, the professor type, the man of words and ideas—and if all goes well he becomes a sort of spiritual guide, her own personal Buddha or wise man—except a lot hotter! Animus is keenly attractive but won’t necessarily be the most physically attractive male. It tends to show more as a personal magnetism, especially as a woman matures." |
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