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	Easy going and free spirited, I want someone else who has an adventurous soul. Not actively seeking a relationship, I crave time to myself and need it as I journey. I'm based in Brisbane. I visit Melbourne infrequently, perhaps once or twice a year. I recently spent 6 months in India. My next destination is Thailand from November until January. Upon my return I shall consider meeting people in RL. Why not before that? I'm super busy. My studies take priority, I have a lot of family responsibility (no kids! My mum's just been unwell) and I like keeping active. I'm currently pursuing rock climbing and am looking into getting my scuba diving license. My focus is not fitness, it's exploration. I also love art and photography. This is not my first time on the BDSM scene and I really prefer getting to know somebody first. In saying that I really don't have a lot of experience, I backed off the scene a few years ago after a few bad experiences. I'm happy to start a dialogue to see if we can be friends first. I have no ambition of jumping into bed with someone I can't stand. I know the difference between a Dom and a jerk. Pressuring me into meeting you will result in loss of interest. Desperation is not an attractive quality. BDSM is an expression of who I am, but stays solely to the bedroom. Any attempts to dictate or manipulate my decisions outside of this will be ignored, as will you thereafter. I prefer men who are taller and older (26-40). Experience is necessary. However, I'm flexible for a suitable partner. It should also be noted that I have tattoos & curves (size 12-14). Discretion is preferred and offered. I am not attached however my bedroom antics are not anybody else's business.

7/16/2013 3:16:34 AM

Due to family issues I've not had the opportunity to respond to the majority of mail I've recieved. I'm slowly working through them but I fear I won't be able to issue a personal reply to everyone. Simple messages (such as: "hey, how are you") are being sentenced straight to my trash. I much prefer a soliloquy with good questions than texting via the internet. I've also disabled my chat requests. My love/kink life is currently my lowest priority. If you've read my profile then you know I'm not seeking anything until January upon my return from Thailand.

I do want to thank everyone who has taken the time to read my profile & wish everyone good luck in their search.

6/29/2013 7:59:49 PM

During my first 24 hours on this site I recieved 5 pages worth of emails from interested members. Please try to understand that female subs get hectic amounts of traffic to their profiles and I do try to reply to all messages. Due to frequent inundation it may take some time to respond.
I would also like to note that I have taken the time to write an honest profile so if you want to stand out it helps to prove that you've read it and ask me about my interests and those we have in common. This allows the dialogue to have a mutual basis that can be explored.
Approach me as a friend first, I require trust to form a true bond and without that I will not be interested in speaking with you. These kind of relationships require mutual respect, so please show some to me otherwise you will recieve none in turn.
Some doms think it's cute to call me "Little One". My older brother used this term of affection towards me when I was a child. Epic turn off. Be careful with your terms of endearment, especially if we've never spoken before.